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Pilgrimzero

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Oct 27, 2017
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Good for him. Always been a favorite actor.

Im curious how this will effect the role of Vanya in Umbrella Academy S3.
 

Lost Lemurian

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Nov 30, 2019
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I remember lots of commentary back in the day along the lines of "Why doesn't Ellen Page dress more sexy and more feminine? We demand it!" from the Hollywood gossip machine. Now that they've come out as Elliot, it re-frames that whole thing as even more gross. Good for them for finally being able to be their real self.
 

Rotobit

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Oct 27, 2017
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But I'm genuinely curious about the pronouns: "he" and "they" aren't really interchangeable right, so which one do you use? Or does it not matter?

For some people gender is fluid to a degree that they're comfortable with multiple pronouns. It kinda varies depending on the person, though, so it's best not to speak on their behalf.

I've often wondered this but don't want to put my foot in it. Grammatically those words don't work the same. 'He is over there' is singular, but 'they are over there' is plural. I need to look into this. Happy to use people's pronouns, but in my speech I am strict with my grammar so I need to understand this further.

"They" is both plural and a nominative singular pronoun. Such as in this example:

"My best friend from high school is famous now—too bad we didn't stay in touch after they moved to California."

Non-binary folks just take that common usage and make it more of a general pronoun. Grammar's always changed with the times, really.
 

Deleted member 4461

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Oct 25, 2017
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First, congrats!


Second: Just for my understanding (and let me know if this isn't okay to ask), the spectrum is a big part of it, right?

So for example, Elliot identifies as he/him but is also non-binary - is that because he identifies more with one side of the non-binary spectrum than the other? I've not been able to find many resources explaining this.
 

Shadownet

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Oct 29, 2017
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I was super confused about the title for a second, until I read it again and again.

My mind kept reading it as Ellen Page.

But good for him! I can't wait to see the transformation.
 
Oct 25, 2017
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I wonder if they are going to write season 3 with this in mind, that would be great because the character was kind of boring in season 2 and putting some authenticity in it could go a long way.
 

Viewt

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Oct 25, 2017
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That's super cool. It's great that there's such a high-profile person coming out as trans. I'm sure it means a lot to transfolk who don't see much representation for themselves.
 

Meatfist

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Oct 25, 2017
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Good for him! Really excited to see what roles he's in going forward.

I've often wondered this but don't want to put my foot in it. Grammatically those words don't work the same. 'He is over there' is singular, but 'they are over there' is plural. I need to look into this. Happy to use people's pronouns, but in my speech I am strict with my grammar so I need to understand this further.

Happy for him and I did feel that this was a strong possibility of happening. I'm glad he feels comfortable enough to publicly talk about it. I hope it helps others.

 

nonoriri

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I've often wondered this but don't want to put my foot in it. Grammatically those words don't work the same. 'He is over there' is singular, but 'they are over there' is plural. I need to look into this. Happy to use people's pronouns, but in my speech I am strict with my grammar so I need to understand this further.

Happy for him and I did feel that this was a strong possibility of happening. I'm glad he feels comfortable enough to publicly talk about it. I hope it helps others.
Singular they has existed since the 14th century. So you are not actually correct.

 
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I've often wondered this but don't want to put my foot in it. Grammatically those words don't work the same. 'He is over there' is singular, but 'they are over there' is plural. I need to look into this. Happy to use people's pronouns, but in my speech I am strict with my grammar so I need to understand this further.
As a fellow grammar nerd, I know it can be difficult to get used to but it helps with some history:

www.bbc.com

A brief history of gender neutral pronouns

Sam Smith asked fans to use they/them but history shows these pronouns aren't new in language.
 

ArchedThunder

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Oct 25, 2017
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That's awesome. Congrats to him.

But I'm genuinely curious about the pronouns: "he" and "they" aren't really interchangeable right, so which one do you use? Or does it not matter?

Edit: the article address him as "he" so I guess it's just up to the person addressing him?
Think of gender like a venn diagram in this instance, Elliot Page lands where he and they overlap.
 

Nali

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Oct 25, 2017
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That's awesome. Congrats to him.

But I'm genuinely curious about the pronouns: "he" and "they" aren't really interchangeable right, so which one do you use? Or does it not matter?
If someone's identifying with more than one set of pronouns, then they're saying it's okay to use anything they've listed.
 

Deleted member 81119

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This explanation doesn't really help? He identifies as being male and plural (like multiple personalities)?
Them isn't just a plural. It's pretty common to say something like "they're really cool" or "they've just gone to the shops" about a singular person. It's not new, but it is gender neutral.
 

Shadownet

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Oct 29, 2017
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I wonder how this will change Season 3. Is he thinking about physically changing? If so, I wonder how the writers will adapt to why Vanya look like a man now.

If he isn't changing the way he look, then I assume Vanya will still be a female?
 

Pangorogoro

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Oct 31, 2017
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Gaycation was the last thing I saw with him in it, and I really enjoyed it, I'm really happy for him! He'll continue to go far.
 

nonoriri

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Apr 30, 2020
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First, congrats!


Second: Just for my understanding (and let me know if this isn't okay to ask), the spectrum is a big part of it, right?

So for example, Elliot identifies as he/him but is also non-binary - is that because he identifies more with one side of the non-binary spectrum than the other? I've not been able to find many resources explaining this.
I don't know if Elliot IDs as nonbinary and I don't want to speak on his behalf but it can spectrum of both identity and presentation. So Elliot may identify as nonbinary and present as masculine or identify as transmasculine nonbinary (for example I believe this is how Ian Alexander identifies). Or perhaps he is transmasculine and simply okay with they/them pronouns as well as he/him. There's a lot of different factors and it's very personal.
 

ultraluna

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I'm so happy for him. His letter on Twitter was beautiful, and straight to the point: everyone spewing transphobia has blood on their hands.
Serious question: why the pronoun "they"?
They identify as non-binary. It may sound strange for people that speak very gendered languages like portuguese, french, spanish, where nouns and verbs change according to the gender, but you can and should get used to it.
 

WhovianGamer

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Oct 28, 2017
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For some people gender is fluid to a degree that they're comfortable with multiple pronouns. It kinda varies depending on the person, though, so it's best not to speak on their behalf.



"They" is both plural and a nominative singular pronoun. Such as in this example:

"My best friend from high school is famous now—too bad we didn't stay in touch after they moved to California."

Non-binary folks just take that common usage and make it more of a general pronoun. Grammar's always changed with the times, really.

I see. That isn't a form that is used where I am from. He/She would be used there almost always in my locality. Thanks
 

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I wonder how this will change Season 3. Is he thinking about physically changing? If so, I wonder how the writers will adapt to why Vanya look like a man now.

If he isn't changing the way he look, then I assume Vanya will still be a female?

I don't watch the show or know much about it, really. But that's more on Elliot to decide, I feel. If he wants to/is comfortable to play a female character, have the character be trans as well or opt to have the role re-cast with a female actress. Regardless of what happens, the showrunners cannot be the ones that have the ultimate say in this.
 

rsfour

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Oct 26, 2017
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Got a friend currently working on 1UP. Not too sure if he met Elliot yet though.
 

Shadownet

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I don't watch the show or know much about it, really. But that's more on Elliot to decide, I feel. If he wants to/is comfortable to play a female character, have the character be trans as well or opt to have the role re-cast with a female actress. Regardless of what happens, the showrunners cannot be the ones that have the ultimate say in this.
I hope Elliot stay, I love him in the show. I can't wait to hear the cast reactions to this wonderful news.
 
Oct 26, 2017
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Man I feel this is kinda big. Especially since Elliot is probably the first celeb in the spotlight that I've seen come up thru the years. Man I still remember thinking they were gonna be a big deal after Hard Candy. Always been a fan of them on and off camera.