I'm with you, OP, online dating is absolutely soul crushing, I've tried multiple apps multiple times in the last couple of years but I end up always uninstalling them because I feel like shit when I get literally no likes after a while.
But I'm self aware enough to recognise that I don't know how to sell myself at all as I have confidence issues, no decent pictures of myself and I get terribly anxious just thinking about what should I put on my bio, so I think it's simply not for me. I did get a date once though, but boy oh boy do I wish it had never happened...
I've tried speed dating a couple of times, and the last time I got a match but then she stood me up after agreeing to a date, so yeah, it's not that great either.
To be honest, this whole pandemic has been a blessing in disguise for me as I've allowed myself to not care about meeting people or being single anymore as you couldn't really socialise until recently (at least in Europe), so I think I'm a bit more nonchalant about the whole dating thing, I'd rather not force it, instead I'll keep going to Meetup events or things like that and maybe I'll meet someone one day, but I'm not going to bother with dating services anymore.
But I'm self aware enough to recognise that I don't know how to sell myself at all as I have confidence issues, no decent pictures of myself and I get terribly anxious just thinking about what should I put on my bio, so I think it's simply not for me. I did get a date once though, but boy oh boy do I wish it had never happened...
I've tried speed dating a couple of times, and the last time I got a match but then she stood me up after agreeing to a date, so yeah, it's not that great either.
To be honest, this whole pandemic has been a blessing in disguise for me as I've allowed myself to not care about meeting people or being single anymore as you couldn't really socialise until recently (at least in Europe), so I think I'm a bit more nonchalant about the whole dating thing, I'd rather not force it, instead I'll keep going to Meetup events or things like that and maybe I'll meet someone one day, but I'm not going to bother with dating services anymore.