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molnizzle

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Oct 25, 2017
17,695
From the stories women have told me in the US a lot of it is from their desire not to have their asses actually touch a public restroom toilet seat. So there is a lot of stray urine from hovering and a lot of stray toilet paper from women making a toiler paper nest to sit on if the liners are gone. And that is the cleanly people. Filthy people smear feces and blood on lots of surfaces and then walk away.
That's nothing compared to the splashback from men who don't raise the seat before pissing all over it though. Public men's rooms that don't have urinals are absolutely disgusting. The toilets just get destroyed.
 

CatAssTrophy

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Dec 4, 2017
7,632
Texas
So you can pee and not lift a seat. The only thing I like about single bathrooms is that i get up to pee a lot and most of the time the line is shorter/non-existent.

I just use my foot, but I suppose the bathrooms of the future will have rugged (not easily broken by drunk people) seats with an auto lifting mechanism.
 

Thordinson

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Aug 1, 2018
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Well, this is what Im wondering cause I live in Europe and what some of you are saying is not what I have heard at all. When you said public toilets, where the fuck are you talking about? In some derelict park in the bad end of town?

I think if you asked girls if they wanted too share toilets with men. They would nearly all said fuck no. Just in personal experience of living with girls or visiting friends or vice versa. Men treat the bathroom way way worse.

I used to clean the restrooms when I worked at Burger King. Women's were far worse than men's.
 

Isilia

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Mar 11, 2019
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US: PA
Wife says:

"You're crazy if you think it isn't just as bad in ours"

Brother who cleaned both also attests to horror stories no matter where you go.
 

n00bs7ay3r

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Aug 21, 2018
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I don't understand this mindset. Does this mean some people have gender-exclusive washrooms at home? How on earth can a person go through life without sharing washrooms with someone of a differing gender?
That is exactly what I thought at the time. I was working so I had to be polite and did not bring it up. It is the only time I have come across someone with this mindset.
 

arcadepc

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Dec 28, 2019
1,925
At school where I work, men and women share the same toilet room and there are (almost) no issues fortunately. Though the complaint we heard was from our head mistress about the women colleagues
 

32X4LYF

alt account
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Dec 25, 2019
206
No, because guys are fucking animals.

Have you ever seen a women's washroom before. I have two friends who were janitors at a large mall back in the day and they said the women's washrooms were far more disgusting than the men's. In fact I remember the one dude referred to women as animals in regards to their bathroom habits haha.
 

OmegaX

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Oct 28, 2017
4,121
I'm going to assume you identify as a male? Have you been in a male washroom at a public place versus a female? We men are disgusting and the bathrooms are usually not touchable anywhere near the toilet
I've heard stories of women smearing period blood on mirrors and walls. Used tampons on the floor or stuck on the ceiling. Women can be just as disgusting as men.
 

Terrell

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Oct 25, 2017
3,624
Canada
I want to play devil's advocate here, but I can't think of a good argument. You're right.
Apologies for the OT, but...
Ugh, can 2020 be the year we finally stop looking for reasons to engage in devil's advocacy? Pretty please?! I'm so fucking exhausted with it, let the devils speak for their own god-damned selves, there's plenty of them in this world now that they don't need you to do it for them.
I agree 100 percent. Though I think that ALL washrooms should be gender neutral so....

I will share a story though. I worked at a restaurant that had 2 one-person washrooms that were gender-neutral. I had an older woman ask where the ladies room was and I explained that we just had the 2 gender-neutral washrooms. She loudly declared "Well I don't want to use a washroom that men use!" (or something along those lines).
Chances she's never been married: 100%
Exactly.

In some of the gendered single occupancy restrooms I've seen the men's room had a toilet AND a urinal, but it was still only big enough for one person to be in, and had a lock on the door. So........ why even have the urinal at all?
A fair bit of the filthiness in a bathroom from men is piss on the floor and the seat. I'm decidedly pro-urinal in public washroom spaces to alleviate that.
Well, this is what Im wondering cause I live in Europe and what some of you are saying is not what I have heard at all. When you said public toilets, where the fuck are you talking about? In some derelict park in the bad end of town?

I think if you asked girls if they wanted too share toilets with men. They would nearly all said fuck no. Just in personal experience of living with girls or visiting friends or vice versa. Men treat the bathroom way way worse.
Women treat bathrooms kindly when they're asked to clean them later. In public? It's no holds barred. Men don't seem to make a distinction like that is the primary difference.

I'm surprised that some of you live such sheltered lives that you've never seen the horrors of a public ladies' room. I mean, women are known to GIVE BIRTH in public restrooms. Have none of you ever seen I Didn't Know I Was Pregnant?!
 
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Oct 26, 2017
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I think women tend to squat over the seat for hygiene reasons more then men do.

And that leads to matter and fluids ending up in places they were not supposed to go.

edit: JINX

Yeah just playing Devil's Advocate here, both men and women are nasty especially when #2 or menstruation is involved. But in terms of average #1 usage, men tend to create more collateral damage. We leave urination droplets on the toilet rim and sticky puddles around a 2 foot radius of the toilet just from splash-back. Nevermind the people who actually pee on the rim. It's not really pleasant when women or other men need to squat on the toilet after that.

I think the best setup is when establishments have gender neutral restrooms with both a toilet and a urinal. The urinal reduces the golden showers the toilet has to endure and makes it easier to squat over the toilet without your feet sticking to the ground. The toilet is still going to get nasty from poop and menstruation, but those are lower volume activities. With regular sanitation it's manageable.
 

thesaint08

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Apr 23, 2018
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I work in an office enviroment(NHS), and we have had quite a few emails sent to the whole building in regards to the womens toilets. Used tampons, turds on the flooor etc.
I once advised one of the cleaners that it isn't their job to deal with animals that behave like that day in, day out. I told her to report it to her manager.
To my knowledge, there has never been a problem with the mens.
 

ZackieChan

Banned
Oct 27, 2017
8,056
The devil you know...

Also, those lines at the ladies room. I'm fine with keeping them separate.
 

OneThirtyEight

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Oct 28, 2017
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Tanerian

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Feb 24, 2018
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As someone who has cleaned restrooms as a job before....
Womens bathrooms are far...FAR dirtier than men's bathrooms. It is not even close.

Most men don't do the "hover", and they dont have periods.
The "hover" is the #1 cause of having to clean literal shit off of a toilet back/seat. Also cant tell you how often I had to clean menstruation blood off of seats.


But as to the OP. I agree, but I go so far as to say bathrooms shouldn't be gender assigned in general.

Shitting, pissing, and washing hands are pretty gender neutral.
 

RobotHaus

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Oct 25, 2017
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Mars University
Generally curious with European style restrooms where the door to the actual toilet completely obscures the user inside. Is it more common nowadays to see gender neutral multiperson restrooms?
 

Protome

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Oct 27, 2017
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+1 for "I had to clean public (well, fast food restaurant) bathrooms in a previous job and the women's ones were often way worse." It's kinda weird the myth that women's toilets are cleaner has existed so long tbh.

That said, I only ever found used needles in the guy's toilets 🤷‍♀️
 

Pikachu

Traded his Bone Marrow for Pizza
Banned
Oct 25, 2017
6,402
This seems like a solution in search of a problem. I have never seen a gendered single person bathroom.
 

TSM

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Oct 27, 2017
5,823
Urinals use a lot less water than toilets. Also, wait times will go up for men.

Toilets also take up a lot more room than urinals. Urinals in a unisex bathroom would make it more efficient for men and women to get in and out. If you eliminated them men would be taking up toilets that women could be using.
 

PoppaBK

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Oct 27, 2017
2,165
Why not a mens bathroom, a women's bathroom and a gender neutral bathroom? Went to a bar recently with this setup and it was great. Everyone seemed to consider the gender neutral bathroom a trans only bathroom, except me, and so I had my own personal bathroom.
 

Galactor

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Nov 11, 2017
619
+1 for "I had to clean public (well, fast food restaurant) bathrooms in a previous job and the women's ones were often way worse." It's kinda weird the myth that women's toilets are cleaner has existed so long tbh.

That said, I only ever found used needles in the guy's toilets 🤷‍♀️
I thought the myth was womens toilet being more gross.
 

Terraj_RSL

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Feb 8, 2018
866
Now that I'm older - just make it all stalls. I don't think urinals hold any advantage now anyway.
Urinals are cheaper to install, use less water, but more importantly businesses can fit more urinals than toilets in the same space. Which is great for large events (sports, music, etc.) with lots of people in the same area, since it reduces wait times.
 

Jakten

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Oct 25, 2017
1,767
Devil World, Toronto
Spoken like someone who hasn't had to clean public bathrooms before.
As some one who had to clean the washrooms of one of the busiest Tim Hortons in Ontario I can say that men are way worse. Shit in the urinals, shit on the mirrors, shit on the counter, a sea of diarrhea and vomit encompassing half the bathroom, shit wrapped in a paper bag and tucked under the counter behind the garbage can. Broken mirrors, broken pipes spraying everywhere, bloody bandages strewn all over the counter, used condoms on the floor or draped on the edge of the piss overflowing urinal because it's also stuffed with toilet paper, open diapers left in the changing unit, porno mags caked in hamburger grease for some reason (We were attached to a Wendy's). Random drug shit all over, like needles, and hidden in places that would be dangerous if you were paying attention. Many of these once a month, shit in the urinals and diapers were weekly. Tons of fucking mud too, in bizarre places like all up the walls to the ceiling or some shit so you'd need a ladder to clean it. like some one just started whipping their boots around. Women's bathrooms? Usually a lot of toilet paper on the floor or maybe some tampons or wrappers or soap on the counter. I was so happy when I was asked to clean the women's washroom and someone else had to clean the men's because you never knew what you'd be expected to touch and it would always take 3 times as long.

That said bathrooms should just be one person and gender neutral.
 

Juice

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Dec 28, 2017
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In Japan, it's become common for one bathroom to be gender neutral and one to be woman only.
 

RiOrius

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Oct 27, 2017
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But what if my penis touches the seat and later a woman sits there and gets pregnant? I'm not ready to be a dad!
 

Desi

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Oct 30, 2017
4,210
No but there's an African guy giving you lollipops and Joop.

"No Splash no Gash."
Dude, there was one guy in a stripclub in downtown Baltimore that had the most amazing setup. It had to be over a meter tall and had everything from Reese, airheads, butterscotch krimpets/crumpets, Creed cologne samples, etc. He made my day, even the working girls were like "where did you get all that candy?"

That is exactly what I thought at the time. I was working so I had to be polite and did not bring it up. It is the only time I have come across someone with this mindset.
This may explain why I like basement bathrooms so much. I almost prefer to use them exclusively as people prefer not to travel so far to use a bathroom. My mother's house has one, my grandmother's house has one, out of two houses I was looking to buy I was leaning on had one.
 
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Ashdroid

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Oct 27, 2017
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I support this idea in theory, but in practice, most gender neutral restrooms I've been in have had a puddle of urine around the base of the toilet. I've never had to deal with that in women's restrooms.
 

Deleted member 32561

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Nov 11, 2017
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I agree. At that point, it's, well, pointless to gender it.

No, because guys are fucking animals.
See you say this.
But at least where I work, it's women's restrooms that are hellzones. Stray toilet paper and pee everywhere, nowhere near the toilet (I DON'T KNOW HOW) on any day that's remotely busy. The men's rooms are sparkling clean 99% of the time, even on busy days. I don't understand how this is when I've been told for years it's the opposite by janitors and such, but, it is what it is.

The things you learn having to clean restrooms...

I will say though, at least, I've never found a BANANA PEEL in the women's room.
 

Josh5890

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The Fallen
Oct 25, 2017
23,240
No, because guys are fucking animals.

I won't pretend that my gender is a bunch of clean freaks, but I have cleaned both bathrooms at grocery stores before and I promise you there isn't a difference as far as cleanliness goes for men and women.
 

Kitsunebaby

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Oct 27, 2017
3,665
Annapolis, Maryland
I'm down for making all restrooms sex/gender neutral.

Also, as someone who cleans the restrooms at work, the men's and women's rooms are equally disgusting, but in slightly different ways. The women's room is more likely to have small amounts of piss (and vary occasionally blood) on the seat, and is more likely to have toilet paper debris on the floor. The men's room might generally look cleaner at a glance, but it's more likely to smell horrendous, and have piss all over the floor.
 

N.Domixis

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Oct 28, 2017
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Ok since I havnt been in a womens toilet, does someone care too explain instead of being sarcasticly vague?

There would literally have to be shit smeared on the walls to be worse than a lot of male toilets Ive been in. Especially in bars where all the stalls are a couple centimeters deep in piss and shitty toilet paper is clogging the toilet.
Based on what my sister has said, shit smeared on the walls. Why? I have no clue.
 

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Oct 26, 2017
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If it's a single person room with a door that locks, gendering them creates pointless bottlenecks that would only upset fools.
 

Baphomet

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Dec 8, 2018
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All of the women I know have always told me that most women's bathrooms are disgusting.
 

Drain You

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Oct 27, 2017
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I agree and its funny you post this thread when you did because I was thinking about this for the first time yesterday.

My wife and I were on our way back from our wedding photo shoot and all of us had to pee really bad so we stopped at a Dunkin. Our photographer was also a woman and when we walked in I just thought to myself "Damn they have to figure out who goes first and I just get to go right in, thats stupid". I know them being gender neutral wouldn't have helped in our particular situation, but it had me thinkin.

Edit: The only argument against this I can really be down with is guys suck at using the bathroom. Our men's restroom at working is always trashed, even right after it gets cleaned, super annoying.
 

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The problem is that most men are disgusting. Instead of only one bathroom having piss everywhere, itll be two.