The irony.Seems pretty juvenile.
If you can keep count you probably aren't fucking enough lol
Chill dude.
Agreed. Of course there have been nice/fun/exciting encounters but in my experience nothing compares to sex with someone you really click with. It's a whole other level.And I will say the best sex usually doesn't come before you've been with someone bit and learned what makes each other tick.
You nailed it. People do care and when you bring this stuff up in a casual conversation some people are going to get a bit bent out of shape. Hence why things got weird for OP with his friends tonight. It's why this stuff shouldn't be, and isn't normally, brought up in casual conversation.Nobody should care but many people do. The whole thing is also unfairly skewed towards men as those with many partners get labelled as studs or playboys with cavalier attitudes whereas women with many partners get labelled as promiscuous sluts or whores or bitches - it's just not fair.
If a partner asks me then I'll always be honest with them about the number (higher than it should be) even if I usually end up getting told off for it.
Agreed. Of course there have been nice/fun/exciting encounters but in my experience nothing compares to sex with someone you really click with. It's a whole other level.
Hence why things got weird for OP with his friends tonight. It's why this stuff shouldn't be, and isn't normally, brought up in casual conversation.
This has been the first time anything like this has come up, before most has been preferences/who they like. And I'm pretty private with this stuff too. Hence a bit of the weirdness. I'm too old for this shit.
I get you, but weirdly for me, I don't care in the slightest - like age, it's just a number. If my partner told me they only had 1 or 2 partners or even 700/800 partners; as long as they are clean then I don't care either way ¯\_(ツ)_/¯Bringing up your history of sexual partners or numbers is never a good idea with your partner. This always leads to some awkwardness, insecurity, and jealousy in my experience. I find it's usually best to keep the past in the past. I don't know why anyone would really want to bring this conversation up but fuck if it doesn't seem to happen in every other relationship. I would honestly lie or say I don't remember to get out of the conversation. I'm really glad my current partner has never asked and doesn't really seem to care because I don't want to know about her past either.
lol tell me more about this word "safe"..?Doesn't matter at all to me as long as the guy has been responsible and recently tested.
Sometimes there are red flags, like for instance someone asking you to cream them raw five times in a row on the first date, lmao.
Hot, but also a bit of a giveaway about their attitude toward safe sex. 🤔
It's horseshit for sure. Like...how can this energy thing be measured?This is going to sound like horseshit to a lot of people but a long time ago I was told that the energy you share from sex will last with a person for about 6 months after they're last encounter and if you mix too many energies of different people you can start to have conflicts in ones spirit.
+1Apparently I'm the only one on this forum who would prefer the least amount of men to have nutted in my gf/wife. More power to yas.
It's horseshit for sure. Like...how can this energy thing be measured?
LmaoI am not the author of the idea nor do I practice the science but when it was presented to me from someone who happened to be polyamorous it did sound plausible if you believe people have a unique energy to them.
I am not the author of the idea nor do I practice the science but when it was presented to me from someone who happened to be polyamorous it did sound plausible if you believe people have a unique energy to them.
Dang, one of the most pathetic posts in the history of this website. More power to you.Apparently I'm the only one on this forum who would prefer the least amount of men to have nutted in my gf/wife. More power to yas.
Well I mean hopefully they were practicing safe sex and not nutting IN your partner. But either way why does it matter?Apparently I'm the only one on this forum who would prefer the least amount of men to have nutted in my gf/wife. More power to yas.
A unique "energy" that is transferable and imprint-able specifically through sex, and with a set half-life? Lol. Does oral count? A quickie for 2 minutes vs. a night of passion?
Don't ask, don't tell. With the girl I'm currently dating she doesn't want to know and neither do I. Wouldn't be a big deal if I found out, but it's such a childish question. Changes literally nothing.
Apparently I'm the only one on this forum who would prefer the least amount of men to have nutted in my gf/wife. More power to yas.
There's no truth in it. It's quasi spiritual bullshit.What can I say, people believe a lot of things that can't be proven outright and who am I to say that the process used to create a life form doesn't have residual effects? I don't know how much truth is in it or not but it's not the craziest thing I have ever heard for sure.
There's no truth in it. It's quasi spiritual bullshit.
"Can't be proven outright" is a funny way of saying "there is zero evidence for, but conveniently it allows me to low key slut shame and shut down criticism."
Because can only get fucked, never do the fuck, and every time someone nuts in her they lose -10 value points. Only relevant when it's a dick tho. Lesbian sex ain't real. Truly one of the most pathetic things I've read on here.Apparently I'm the only one on this forum who would prefer the least amount of men to have nutted in my gf/wife. More power to yas.