No i understand that, don't worry. I rather use toilet paper as well. And as man i also use toilet paper after a pee. But for us men it's easier. That's true. I totally understand that. The big thing is pooping though, isn't it? For us both. And we'll have to be creative. I mean, toilet paper didn't really become a normal thing before the 1900's. So yeah, a cloth that we wash... Probably better than paper anyway. More work for sure. I's inconvenient but something that we should all be well capable of dealing with. I've been on survival trips without bathrooms and and toiletpaper and it's not ideal but doable. We (us humans) came this far (1920-ish) without toiletpaper.
Side-note: We don't have bidets here either. I do want one. Actually, i don't really even LIKE toiletpaper that much, come to think of it. It's pretty rough, even when it's the soft type (+ it's basically smearing...). So a bidet would be welcome in my home. we just renovated the bathroom but maybe i can talk my girlfriend into buying one in the future.
But fair enough, we have slightly different bathroom habits.