This thread popped up again, OP do you still have that job and have you paid your GF back for the car repairs yet? And please for the love of god don't say something like " I bought video games and saved the rest of "my" money"
New people coming into this thread REALLY NEED TO READ THIS ENTIRE THREAD and OP's responses throughout. Do not skim the first page and come to the end as there are a lot of glaring issues that led to this point.
Yes, I have been paying bills and buying groceries and spending more on her and the place to make up for things since my first post from months ago.
Chiming in, but I have an inkling it's less she dislikes fiction and moreso she derives no enjoyment watching/sharing fiction with you specifically. Especially since, from what I've gathered skimming the thread, you would often choose the world of fiction (gaming) over the relationship, resulting in her developing a Pavlovian dismissal of fiction altogether.
This is not an exaggeration and has NOTHING to do with me or my gaming. From day 1, she's always said fiction is stupid, she's not a fan of movies and tv shows with fictional characters and books as well. She'll tolerate them when I have them on once in a while but usually she either asks why people watch things that don't have real stories or she leaves the room the second I put a movie or tv show on. This has been a things since day 1, I always found it an odd thing and never made sense to me. I thought there was no way someone won't watch a movie or show once in a while but nope, that never changed.
I stopped gaming as much, only a few hours a week and let her do her thing, didn't judge her. That last a couple of days and she kept making comments about my hobbies.
This happens over and over. I don't instigate, I play like 30 minutes one day, middle of the week and the first time that week and instantly, I'm the bad guy. So I shut it off, go on my phone and we don't talk because she wants the tv for her shows.
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