Straight up LEGO hair.You've tried the Dawson. Not bad, but imo the Pacey is underrated. Something to think about next time.
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Straight up LEGO hair.You've tried the Dawson. Not bad, but imo the Pacey is underrated. Something to think about next time.
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I'll take you out to brunch!
Everyone brags. You made a thread where you subtlety bragged about vacationing for 5 months but will be inconvenienced by jury duty.
nah nobody wants to deal with a moody person when you're supposed to be out having a good time
Like clockwork, point a finger at toxic masculinity and era men get all vocal and up in arms.LOL, thinking pouting is a mood killer when on a date is toxic masculinity?
God, you're the worst.Like clockwork, point a finger at toxic masculinity and era men get all vocal and up in arms.
Girl calls a dudes haircut gay and all a dude has to say is "being sad about being insulted is more of a turn off than your haircut"
Textbook toxic masculinity. It's pathetic that pointing out something so simple is controversial.
log off you're in too deepLike clockwork, point a finger at toxic masculinity and era men get all vocal and up in arms.
Girl calls a dudes haircut gay and all a dude has to say is "being sad about being insulted is more of a turn off than your haircut"
Textbook toxic masculinity. It's pathetic that pointing out something so simple is controversial.
Is your gimmick calling everything toxic masculinity?Like clockwork, point a finger at toxic masculinity and era men get all vocal and up in arms.
Girl calls a dudes haircut gay and all a dude has to say is "being sad about being insulted is more of a turn off than your haircut"
Textbook toxic masculinity. It's pathetic that pointing out something so simple is controversial.
It actually is. 😂
More like a swing and a miss if you read the response
Tinder is the fucking worst invention of mankind.
I met an amazing woman, we had so much in common but she only wanted quick sex. Granted, it said so on her bio but I hoped something would come out of it. We slept together once and now she completely ghosts me. I guess I didn't perform well lmao. I can only imagine her sitting on her phone crossing me off and choosing the next guy to bang.
Do people treat that app like a giant candy store? I deleted that shit asap and am done with all this fake, instagram, swipe and get laid bullshit.
So... the date will remember OP and complain to her friends about his pouty attitude rather than his hair.
Man, I wish my hair was wavy.
Eh, it can be awkward to end a date. Nothing wrong with him being upset about it. And yeah, what is so unreasonable about her potentially reading that he didn't like the comment and she apologizes for it?First, OP, that haircut is bad...like terrible bad.
Second, if your dates comments upset you that much then you should have ended the date. What was your plan, i'll pout and be sad and they'll realize they hurt my feelings?
forget the onslaught of "Ummm actually you were BOTH wrong, it's your fault too my dude" that the thread is bombarded with and anything you do that makes a shitty person not wanna hang out with you is 9/10 times something completely fine.
Yeah, whining about hurt feelings on the internet is oviously the right answer. Jesus some of you have no idea how to deal with people face-to-face.Eh, it can be awkward to end a date. Nothing wrong with him being upset about it. And yeah, what is so unreasonable about her potentially reading that he didn't like the comment and she apologizes for it?
Interesting that you call it whining. How does somebody not immediately ending a date after getting a bad comment mean they have no idea how to deal with people face to face? It's always so bizarre when people like you here a couple details about a person and basically decide to label them as some sort of socially-dysfunctional wreck. It becomes so obvious how much you're seeking to read the person in a negative light.Yeah, whining about hurt feelings on the internet is oviously the right answer. Jesus some of you have no idea how to deal with people face-to-face.
You're questioning why your tinder date knows what guys on Grindr look like? Probably cause she used it. Sounds like she was trying to be funny as well. If it offended you that much you should've said something instead of sulking for the rest of the night. This seems like an overreaction cause you're insecure about your haircut. If someone doesn't like it say fuck it and end the date and find someone that does.I changed my hairstyle a bit a few weeks ago so I had no updated pics, when we met she immediately made a note about how my hair looks completely different. She was playful so I didn't think anything of it.
An hour later I asked her what she meant and she said it looks kinda gay and laughed. I asked what's gay about it and she said "idk, it looks like a haircut guys on grindr usually have" like how the fuck do you know what guys on grindr look like?
That really killed the mood for me. I thought it looked cool when the barbershop lady parted it so I kept the look. Whats a gay haircut anyways? I never heard of anyone refer to a haircut as gay.
Heres a pic. Ignore the black bar.
Look more definitely not toxic masculinityYou're questioning why your tinder date knows what guys on Grindr look like? Probably cause she used it. Sounds like she was trying to be funny as well. If it offended you that much you should've said something instead of sulking for the rest of the night. This seems like an overreaction cause you're insecure about your haircut. If someone doesn't like it say fuck it and end the date and find someone that does.
How is that toxic masculinity? Cause people should say something when they're offended? Or because I said they should've ended the date if they were that offended? GTFO here
Incredible.I met an amazing woman, we had so much in common but she only wanted quick sex. Granted, it said so on her bio bullshit.
How is that toxic masculinity? Cause people should say something when they're offended? Or because I said they should've ended the date if they were that offended? GTFO here
No I didn't. Man you people on reset era talk such a big game on how people need to stop using these terms, and then when presented with a situation that it happens don't tell the other person that it's offensive and don't correct them. Instead run to a forum to complain about it and hope shit changes? Seriously? If it's so offensive and such a huge problem in society then why stay quiet about it in a real world situation? I said don't sulk about it and actually say that it's offensive. Don't continue a date when something so offensive gets said. You know actually address the issue. But you know what? You're right. Let's run to reset era. That'll solve the issue lol . And oh yes toxic masculinity lol. I'm surely the issue here
Yeah, whining about hurt feelings on the internet is oviously the right answer. Jesus some of you have no idea how to deal with people face-to-face.
No I didn't. Man you people on reset era talk such a big game on how people need to stop using these terms, and then when presented with a situation that it happens don't tell the other person that it's offensive and don't correct them. Instead run to a forum to complain about it and hope shit changes? Seriously? If it's so offensive and such a huge problem in society then why stay quiet about it in a real world situation? I said don't sulk about it and actually say that it's offensive. Don't continue a date when something so offensive gets said. You know actually address the issue. But you know what? You're right. Let's run to reset era. That'll solve the issue lol . And oh yes toxic masculinity lol. I'm surely the issue here
Yup, other than her being rude, that's a red flag in its own right.
So if we're gonna be put in real life situations and not take action then don't complain when it keeps happening. If using the word gay is so offensive to you, yet you fail to stand up and say something about it when it's directed to you then don't complain that the word is offensive to you. Stand up for yourself or stop making endless threads about how it's so offensive. It rings hollow and people just end up looking like keyboard warriors talking to other like minded people. You're not helping to fix the situation. Your complaining about it and then hiding when time comes for action. And explaining further what toxic masculinity is didn't address what I said. I understand what toxic masculinity is. All these posts saying the word is terrible and comforting him is fine. Comfort him all you want. But you're not fixing the actual issue that you're complaining about. You're just making an endless cycle of comforting someone and having them get offended over and over cause they refuse to vocalize why they're getting offendedYou know what women tend to be better at than men when it comes to shit like this? EMPATHY. They can go to their girlfriends and get SUPPORT. They don't have to worry about being scolded for not being man enough to handle a situation and can actually have a constructive conversation about what to do next time.
This thread continues to prove that men tend to lack such empathy. Instead of sympathizing with the OP's situation, acknowledging the issue with what the women said, reassuring him about his own self-confidence, and encouraging him to try to be less passive about these kinds of situations in the future, many posters here are mocking him and putting all the blame on him for reacting poorly to being insulted. THAT is toxic masculinity and it needs to stop.
So if we're gonna be put in real life situations and not take action then don't complain when it keeps happening. If using the word gay is so offensive to you, yet you fail to stand up and say something about it when it's directed to you then don't complain that the word is offensive to you. Stand up for yourself or stop making endless threads about how it's so offensive. It rings hollow and people just end up looking like keyboard warriors talking to other like minded people. You're not helping to fix the situation. Your complaining about it and then hiding when time comes for action. And explaining further what toxic masculinity is didn't address what I said. I understand what toxic masculinity is. All these posts saying the word is terrible and comforting him is fine. Comfort him all you want. But you're not fixing the actual issue that you're complaining about. You're just making an endless cycle of comforting someone and having them get offended over and over cause they refuse to vocalize why they're getting offended
I know you're coming from a good place, but this reeks of splaining on a bunch of levels.You know what women tend to be better at than men when it comes to shit like this? EMPATHY. They can go to their girlfriends and get SUPPORT. They don't have to worry about being scolded for not being man enough to handle a situation and can actually have a constructive conversation about what to do next time.
This thread continues to prove that men tend to lack such empathy.
Yes....the poster is explainingI know you're coming from a good place, but this reeks of splaining on a bunch of levels.
Got me!
I know you're coming from a good place, but this reeks of splaining on a bunch of levels.