I just had a really interesting conversation with a close friend about J. K. Rowling's TERFism. My friend is a gay woman who feels that while trans women are unquestionably born women, they're often women who the rest of the world treats as male for much of their lives. Her argument against trans women in the feminist space isn't about bathrooms, it's about feeling like the experience of cisgender women and trans women who transition later in life aren't comparable. She said it's like growing up in a war zone from which some people flee: the ones that stay are traumatized in one way, and the ones that escape are traumatized in another; but neither can speak to the other's experience, even though both groups are survivors of the same war.
My understanding is that third wave feminist philosophy would highlight the difference in experiences between trans and cis women, as well as those between women of colour and white women, or women living with disabilities and able-bodied women, etc; and specifically use them to prevent the exclusion of any women from modern feminist spaces. My friend's rebuttal to this is that all those other types of cisgender women still share the experience of being treated like women by the rest of the world, while a trans woman might go fifty years being treated like a man; and thus cannot speak for women because of this lack of experience. Her feelings about this were actually prompted by recently hearing a trans woman who transitioned late in life speaking on behalf of all women in a feminist space.
I'd argue that inclusivity is always better than exclusivity, especially when it comes to marginalized groups; but at the same time, I'm a cisgender man, and I can't speak for women. I'm glad the prevailing wisdom amongst progressives is that first and foremost, trans women are women, period; and differing experiences are explored and celebrated in third wave intersectional feminism.
How would Era folk debate my friend's stance; and indeed the stance of other TERFs with similar thoughts that are more cogent than Rowling's "sex is real tho!" argument?
Hopefully my post history speaks for itself, but I'd still like to just say trans women are fucking women, and I'm making this thread with nothing but love for trans folk. I hope this leads to some interesting discussion about the best way to discuss this facet of transphobia with a view to changing people's minds.
My understanding is that third wave feminist philosophy would highlight the difference in experiences between trans and cis women, as well as those between women of colour and white women, or women living with disabilities and able-bodied women, etc; and specifically use them to prevent the exclusion of any women from modern feminist spaces. My friend's rebuttal to this is that all those other types of cisgender women still share the experience of being treated like women by the rest of the world, while a trans woman might go fifty years being treated like a man; and thus cannot speak for women because of this lack of experience. Her feelings about this were actually prompted by recently hearing a trans woman who transitioned late in life speaking on behalf of all women in a feminist space.
I'd argue that inclusivity is always better than exclusivity, especially when it comes to marginalized groups; but at the same time, I'm a cisgender man, and I can't speak for women. I'm glad the prevailing wisdom amongst progressives is that first and foremost, trans women are women, period; and differing experiences are explored and celebrated in third wave intersectional feminism.
How would Era folk debate my friend's stance; and indeed the stance of other TERFs with similar thoughts that are more cogent than Rowling's "sex is real tho!" argument?
Hopefully my post history speaks for itself, but I'd still like to just say trans women are fucking women, and I'm making this thread with nothing but love for trans folk. I hope this leads to some interesting discussion about the best way to discuss this facet of transphobia with a view to changing people's minds.