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My friend/Crush blocked my number…
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We have Snapchat. should I just go to her house? or is that creepy and weird? Lol
We're going to learn that OP drunk shat somewhere in her room, aren't we?
Do not harass her. Give her a reasonable amount of time to offer to pay the money back. If she doesn't, and you have documentation showing she agreed to pay it back, then feel free to file against her in small claims court. If you don't have such documentation just move on, you're not seeing the money.
Parents generally don't approve of guys who get so drunk they stay the night and throw up in the toilet.
The fact that she said that she didn't initiate the shots that night means that you were already on thin ice.
The fact that she said that she didn't initiate the shots that night means that you were already on thin ice.
How old are you and this girl? How much money did you loan her? How long have you known her? Do you share any other friends in common? You're missing a lot of info. THis feels like one of the threads where we get an update in a week that makes it all MUCH more sketchy.
Letting us know how much you lent might be important to us knowing whether you should try to get the money back. The relationship is gone and there is no salvaging.
DM. I won't tell anyone
Absolutely do not do this. Under no circumstance. You will regret this.
Golden rule of dating, my friend: if you have to ask if something is creepy and weird, it is.
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Jesus fucking Christ.
Is it at all possible that she's just not responded for 2 days? That is normal you know?
If you have to ask you already know the answer, no dont go to her house what the fuck? and yes that is stalker shit
I mean this is the same rule regardless of gender or sex.
Dont lend money to people you have not known for years and trust.
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Eh, I wouldn't overthink it (well, I would, but you shouldn't). People have a lot of reasons for coming and going out of people's lives, and it could also be a mistake or a misunderstanding. It could be as complicated as you did something offensive, or as shallow as she just didn't want to pay the money back, but regardless, you can use this chance to go make a new friend.
I usually take something like this as a sign that the friendship has run its course and just turn my focus to other people, because once you start fixating on trying to fix a friendship that seems to be going downhill, that's often when things start to turn sour in ways that aren't repairable. I've lost quite a few friendships over my life to blowing a minor misunderstanding up into a larger thing by trying to get to the root of it (I typically like to try to hash things out and solve them right away, and what I've learned is that very few people share the same sentiment), so it usually just works better to let people have some time to themselves and then let them make the first move if they decide they want to rekindle the friendship or whatever. Otherwise, you risk applying pressure to an already stressful situation and that can sometimes be the straw that totally breaks the camel's back and makes it hard to be friendly again.
Good luck!
I usually take something like this as a sign that the friendship has run its course and just turn my focus to other people, because once you start fixating on trying to fix a friendship that seems to be going downhill, that's often when things start to turn sour in ways that aren't repairable. I've lost quite a few friendships over my life to blowing a minor misunderstanding up into a larger thing by trying to get to the root of it (I typically like to try to hash things out and solve them right away, and what I've learned is that very few people share the same sentiment), so it usually just works better to let people have some time to themselves and then let them make the first move if they decide they want to rekindle the friendship or whatever. Otherwise, you risk applying pressure to an already stressful situation and that can sometimes be the straw that totally breaks the camel's back and makes it hard to be friendly again.
Good luck!
Yep.
2 days is nothing. what in the world lol.
I sometimes don't even read texts for a week.
Now the OP is jumping to conclusions that he's blocked. Watch it be that she got busy with something.
and why is her struggling your responsibility specially if she is living with her parents still?
And it's always the information that ends up reframing everything lol
Flirt (with your Dad)
Hell hath no fury like a close friend and parent tipsy at my birthday dinner
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If she blocked you it's simple, she doesn't want anything more to do with you, so don't insist on trying to find out the reasons why. Let it go. It's not worth it.
Remember next time don't lend money to anyone unless they are someone you absolutely trust.
Remember next time don't lend money to anyone unless they are someone you absolutely trust.
Cut to the chase op and tell us what you're leaving out.
How long have you known her? Did you first try to go out with her, and when she turned you down did you to pretend to be friends with her to wear her down? Were you lending her money to show what a "good guy" you are?
How long have you known her? Did you first try to go out with her, and when she turned you down did you to pretend to be friends with her to wear her down? Were you lending her money to show what a "good guy" you are?
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This is where the twist comes that she's 16 and he's 25 or something.
Cut your losses. Respect her boundaries.
More than likely you did or said some wild shit while you were drunk that you can't take back or fix. I've had to learn that lesson a few times and that is exactly why I never have more than two drinks anymore.
Also: never lend your crush money. If she knew you were crushing on her and you gave her money, it was a wrap from that moment forward.
More than likely you did or said some wild shit while you were drunk that you can't take back or fix. I've had to learn that lesson a few times and that is exactly why I never have more than two drinks anymore.
Also: never lend your crush money. If she knew you were crushing on her and you gave her money, it was a wrap from that moment forward.
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