Best friend doesn't do that after a month, you might think of him as your best friend, but I don't think he does
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My ex is now dating my best friend
- Thread starter mattiewheels
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In my head, the best case scenario was one where your ex was kinda crazy and your roommate foolishly starts dating her and you're just sitting there eating popcorn ready for the shit to hit the fan so you could give him one of these once it all falls to shit:
But none of this sounds funny or entertaining in the slightest and there are some dark implications here so....
Yeah I would move out.
You're wrong about two things.
The entire concept of friendship.
How long they have been fuckin.
Beyond that, good job.
The entire concept of friendship.
How long they have been fuckin.
Beyond that, good job.
I don't believe you OP. In order for me to believe what you are saying, I have to assume you are pathetic. Can I assume that?
Because
1). You are still calling him your best friend
2). You didn't mentioned either you are moving out or kicking him out
instead you are trying to be funny by asking Era what fun is in store for you
Because
1). You are still calling him your best friend
2). You didn't mentioned either you are moving out or kicking him out
instead you are trying to be funny by asking Era what fun is in store for you
If that was my best friend, their ass would be getting these hands. Luckily my best friends aren't that dirty.
Fuck him, fuck her, if they're the type of people who think this is cool, they're garbage. Let them deal with their shit lives and move on.
Like there's way too many other people in the world to date. They both have issues if they're comfortable knowing how they met. So just let them do their bullshit and fuck their lives up themselves.
Fuck him, fuck her, if they're the type of people who think this is cool, they're garbage. Let them deal with their shit lives and move on.
Like there's way too many other people in the world to date. They both have issues if they're comfortable knowing how they met. So just let them do their bullshit and fuck their lives up themselves.
Doesn't sound like much of a best friend to me. They're probably laughing at you behind your back because you're seemingly OK with this shit. That whole situation is disrespectful as fuck. The solution is obvious to me.
Sorry to say this but they have been fucking for a min. I've been in a similar situation but on the other end in my yesteryears.
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Biggest fucking mistake ever. When people live together this sort of thing is almost guaranteed to happen assuming they don't hate each other.
I have no idea why you would ever allow this.
I'm gonna go on a limb and say you wanted to get cucked.
Yeah... They definitely were fucking while you were away. Fuck them both.
"Friend."
Well you can shoot for a threesome. Not like either relationship can be damaged much more if that backfires.
Or bail.
Well you can shoot for a threesome. Not like either relationship can be damaged much more if that backfires.
Or bail.
That awkward feeling when you realize you are indirectly paying rent for your ex to shack up with your friend.
Yeah, that is completely missing the point. Respecting your friends and having each other's backs isn't toxic.
Be prepared to cry while jerking off while you hear them banging in the next room.
Or
Move out or have them move out.
Or
Move out or have them move out.
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Your friends are trash, put them where they belong.
They know exactly what they were doing, and they were probably fooling around before you broke up.
They care more about making their life into a soap opera than your feelings. But in the end they just acted like pathetic hillbillies who can't meet other people.
They know exactly what they were doing, and they were probably fooling around before you broke up.
They care more about making their life into a soap opera than your feelings. But in the end they just acted like pathetic hillbillies who can't meet other people.
Did OP clarify whether this was a separate run scenario or they shared a room bunk bed style? Because damn that would be super awkward
To continue living with them is an untenible situation for you OP. Time to find another roommate or jump ship.
Just don't doubt yourself. They're dicks lacking in basic levels of empathy and most people wouldn't do what they did. At the every least the friend would discuss it with you before bringing dating up with her, not let her tell you they're saying after the fact.
Just don't doubt yourself. They're dicks lacking in basic levels of empathy and most people wouldn't do what they did. At the every least the friend would discuss it with you before bringing dating up with her, not let her tell you they're saying after the fact.
Oh my!
No pre warning shows the level of respect they both have for you.
I guarantee they both had a convo how best to handle you. Probably after some amazingly hot sex. :p I'd be moving out asap.
But not give them the pleasure of them seeing you mad. Just get your stuff together and get on up out of there.
No pre warning shows the level of respect they both have for you.
I guarantee they both had a convo how best to handle you. Probably after some amazingly hot sex. :p I'd be moving out asap.
But not give them the pleasure of them seeing you mad. Just get your stuff together and get on up out of there.
The type of people who just have to shit where they eat would love some drama like fighting .
Best revenge is pretend you dodged a bullet , which you did , even if it's hard to act that way at first
Hey it could be worse, the day after me and my now ex-wife separated she slept with my best friend.
Neither of these people are your friend
Get the fuck out of there, time to find some place else to live
Get the fuck out of there, time to find some place else to live
Get him out of there
One of the rare situations where you are justified in manipulating someone through intimidation. show him who's boss and scare the shit out of him
One of the rare situations where you are justified in manipulating someone through intimidation. show him who's boss and scare the shit out of him
I am guessing their is a lot of information missing, but with what limited information we have seems to point to something shady. Just think about the fact that they have been dating for two years, and within a month of breaking up the OPs ex-girlfriend decides to move on... with his current roommate and best friend... what the fuck?
This is stupid advice.
He clearly isn't anyones boss. IF hes being disrespected like this, i doubt he has the ability to confront him. Hes posting on era, already defeated. Needs to just move on, and not let this situation happen to him again.
You're just asking for him to get beatup by his Ex and her new lover.
When your SO moves in with you, you break up, then said SO is promptly with your best friend and roommate with no words of caution, it's safe to say they didn't make this decision on a whim after you split.
Let them be and figure out who needs to find somewhere else to live.
Let them be and figure out who needs to find somewhere else to live.
