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JEH

Prophet of Truth
Member
Oct 25, 2017
10,225
Cardiac arrest after complications after surgery. Didn't even get to say goodbye. $10,000 and I didn't even get to see him before he died.


he didn't even die from the surgery itself. He was getting his gallbladder removed. The surgery was fine and he was fine for most of the day after but apparently his Trachea was torn most likely from incubation from the surgery. Idk. They're going to do an autopsy I guess.

his name was Rocky. He was a half beagle, half English bulldog. 12 years old.
 

Blah

Member
Oct 26, 2017
3,602
That's terrible. I'm sorry that he's gone and you didn't get to say goodbye beforehand.
 

Danby

One Winged Slayer
Member
Oct 7, 2020
3,016
I'm sorry. My dog died a few weeks after what was supposedly a life saving surgery too. The pain is unbareable for the first few days. Stay strong, OP.
 

BLOODED_hands

Member
Oct 25, 2017
9,939
I'm sorry fam :( My huskey is approaching that age bracket and I'm trying my best to prepare for his death but all I know is that I'll just be crying non-stop.
 

Lant_War

Classic Anus Game
The Fallen
Jul 14, 2018
23,581
I'm so sorry for your loss, OP, losing a pet is disheartening. Even if you didn't get to say goodbye, I'm sure he knew how much you loved him going by the way you talk about him.
 

Feign

Member
Aug 11, 2020
2,505
<-- Coast
Cardiac arrest after complications after surgery. Didn't even get to say goodbye. $10,000 and I didn't even get to see him before he died.


he didn't even die from the surgery itself. He was getting his gallbladder removed. The surgery was fine and he was fine for most of the day after but apparently his Trachea was torn most likely from incubation from the surgery. Idk. They're going to do an autopsy I guess.

his name was Rocky. He was a half beagle, half English bulldog. 12 years old.

Rocky was my childhood dog's name. All Rocky dogs have a special place for me. I'm so sorry for your loss. I was lucky enough to have a feeling the doctor would put him down when my parents took him to the vet, so I wrote a note to him the night before to try and understand how I was feeling.* I can't imagine having a successful surgery only for this to happen. I hope you find the proper time to process this in whatever way you can. =\

*I just found that note. It was actually addressed to a dog I never got to say goodbye to and telling him about Rocky and what he came to mean to me. It's not the time or place but I really needed to read some of the things I wrote. 10 years younger me had some hubris that maybe wasn't earned, but was definitely prescient of my.depression.
 
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JEH

Prophet of Truth
Member
Oct 25, 2017
10,225
I'm happy at least these last 7 months my family and I spent more time with him than usual due to WFH. I guess that's one positive from this fucking pandemic.
 

SpeedyBlueDude

One Winged Slayer
Avenger
Nov 17, 2017
1,050
Provo, Utah
I'm sorry. I know you're sad right now, but I hope the pain goes away soon and you can remember the fond memories and love you and Rocky had the last 12 years. You'll be okay, and at least you know you did all you could for you Dog. You loved him tons and he knew that, and he love you unconditionally as well.
 

Azurik

Attempted to circumvent ban with alt account
Banned
Nov 5, 2017
2,441
So sorry for your loss OP!

mine are 6 and 7 years old and I'm dreading the day I will have to say goodbye. I hope I get to say goodbye as I can't even imagine how you must feel having that taken away from you!
 

BorganXI

Member
Oct 27, 2017
1,909
WA
I'm sorry OP.
Words are never enough.

Rocky knew how much you loved him even if you weren't there.
 

Ra

Rap Genius
Moderator
Oct 27, 2017
12,208
Dark Space
Sorry that's so tough.

I understand how it feels to not get to say goodbye.

My half beagle, half terrier got hit by a car while I was in the hospital, because some idiot left the door open. I just got the call that they found her. She was just gone and I had to deal with it then and there with no closure. She would never go outside without my permission when I was there, I feel like she was looking for me when made it hurt more. Her name was Lucia.

I don't really have any magical bullshit to say to you. Losing a loved one is rough.
 

Carbon

Deploying the stealth Cruise Missile
Member
Oct 27, 2017
10,862
Sorry for your loss OP

RIP Rocky. I'm sure you were a good boy.
 

anariel

Member
Oct 27, 2017
961
I'm so sorry you lost your doggie like that. Abrupt loss is the toughest to deal with, and there's no words that could make it easier. I'm glad you got to spend twelve years with a companion you clearly cared deeply for.

Rest in peace, Rocky.
 

Xbox Live Mike

Prophet of Truth
The Fallen
Oct 29, 2017
2,435
USA
My Condolences, losing friends is rough. I'm going to donate some dog food in Rocky's name to the shelter here.
 

Outtrigger888

Member
Oct 27, 2017
2,305
Sorry, losing a pet can be devastating. I remember when I lost my boxer, he got me through so many tough times a a teenager. It broke my heart. I remember the shittiest times of my life and coming home and that dog was just there for me to keep me company. As an adult now I have 2 other dogs that do the same. There's a special bond between a dog and it's owner and it's ok to grieve over your loss.
 

The Hobo

Member
Oct 27, 2017
3,032
My cat died from a heart attack after tooth removal surgery recently so I know how you feel. I am truly sorry for your loss.
 

Dog

Cat
Member
Oct 25, 2017
12,074
:'( RIP to your Rocky.

I'm still not over the loss of my two, been years.
 

zon

Member
Oct 28, 2017
1,429
You've got my sympathies OP.

We've lost 2 dogs in the last 2 weeks, it's not easy to deal with.
 

Pilgrimzero

Banned
Oct 27, 2017
8,129
Had to put mine to sleep today. Old and could barely walk. I'm devastated.

There is a hole in the world.