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signal

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Embarrassing.

And why are there so many comments calling her a slut? How did so many muslims get mind controlled into thinking exposed hair is sexually promiscuous.
 

Siggy-P

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Okay, but I hope this doesn't fuel anti-Muslim propaganda.

It will. :/

I mean, they aren't going anywhere and muslims are more and more the target of oppressive laws all over the west.

I used to be anti-theist, but I now think that freedom of religion is something that has to be defended, especially when the system is being used by racists to target these people and strip away their rights.


I'm not sure what you believe or anything, but generally the idea is that we support Islam on the left in order to prevent innocent women like her from being attacked by non-Muslims, not to allow other Muslims to attack her.

Muslims that just wanna pray and live their lives we defend. Muslims that attack other Muslims for not being "Muslim enough" by their own perceived extremist standards we don't.
 
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The poster is expressing concern for the safety of many individuals who may be attacked for simply having the same religious beliefs as her. Do you understand now or do you need further explanation?
You are not the poster I was replying to. I am asking BowieZ.

Since you replied, do you not agree the woman should not receive death wishes, and as the victim in this case, she should receive sympathy?

A thread could certainly be created on the topic of whether Muslim people will be less safe sparked by this incident, if you believe that is worth discussing. It is sociopathic to put that theoretical concern first without expressing even a tiny bit of concern for the person whose family is being immediately threatened in this moment. If you and the other poster had began by saying yes, it's horrible this person is getting death wishes, and (for example) made another thread about the other topic, it would certainly be far better than immediately attempting to draw attention away from the victim OF THE HATE IN THIS VERY INSTANCE who is being threatened IN A CONCRETE MANNER AT THIS MOMENT.
 

Kurdel

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Hmm are you saying that we shouldn't criticize Islam for oppressing it's own people because others might use that criticism as a justification to oppress them further? If the problem is oppression in general then both of these layers need to be addressed.

I understand the tendency to want to align with Islam as a victimized population which is facing a lot of bigotry and racism, but it requires a bit more nuance: Liberal Islam deserves defending; conservative Islam does not i.e the people behind the comments in this video.

I personally can think the hijab is an oppressive tradition and not want to see it banned or legislated from a government standpoint. Here in Québec the nationalists in charge are going to make it illegal for public sector empoyees to wear explicitly religious garb, because they are supposed to be "good and impartial role models" (what racist bulshit). It is clearly a law aimed at muslim women though, how many teachers or cops are fucking peices of shit, even if they don't wear their religion on their sleeves?

Anyways, this question is really complicated, but the people that WILL be making the most money off this video will be the far right corners of the Internet.

Glad for her though, people should be free to live their lives in any way they can find inner peace.
 

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If she chose to wear a hijab at all times and she was getting death wishes and doing a 45-minute video reading hate speech, then yes, she deserves sympathy and I believe she would be getting it here on this very forum.

You can go onto YouTube right now and do a search for Hijab and you'll find hundreds of videos of women in hijab getting death wishes/threats.

Heck, I honestly doubt there's a hijabi woman in the entire United States who hasn't gotten at least that much in person (and only a few that have been spared physical attack from a non-Muslim for wearing hijab). It's an endemic problem.

E.g., 27% of hijabi women in NYC (as pluralistic as American gets) were physically assaulted for wearing headscarves in one year, just on subway platforms alone.

https://www-m.cnn.com/2018/06/19/us...vey-trnd/index.html?r=https://www.google.com/
 
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"for good people to do evil things, that takes religion"


It's insane that in 2019 we still have people believing in imaginary friends or living by books written in a time where the average lifespan was 35
If that is an accurate representation of your understanding of a concept as complex and integral as religion, getting an imaginary friend would be a step up for you.
 

SRG01

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I'm not sure what you believe or anything, but generally the idea is that we support Islam on the left in order to prevent innocent women like her from being attacked by non-Muslims, not to allow other Muslims to attack her.

Muslims that just wanna pray and live their lives we defend. Muslims that attack other Muslims for not being "Muslim enough" by their own perceived extremist standards we don't.

I agree with this sentiment. It's the foundation of a secular society.

It's a shame that extremists ruin religious practice for everyone, because a good portion (or even majority) of practitioners are moderates. All of my Muslim friends I know in real life would encourage her to practice the way she sees fit -- and that includes the hijab.
 

Menchi

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I hope this highlights that -all- religion institution is oppressive, patriarchal and disgusting. Don't defend one institution over another.
 

BowieZ

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A thread could certainly be created on the topic of whether Muslim people will be less safe sparked by this incident, if you believe that is worth discussing. It is sociopathic to put that theoretical concern first without expressing even a tiny bit of concern for the person whose family is being immediately threatened in this moment.
Umm, pardon?

It's sociopathic to not want other innocent Muslims to be unfairly maligned because of these handful of vitriolic reactions? You sure about that?

(Because I'm telling you, the far-right will use anything it can to paint Muslims as extremist and anti-democratic.)
 

Kurdel

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I hope this highlights that -all- religion institution is oppressive, patriarchal and disgusting. Don't defend one institution over another.

If you think people simply getting away from religion is going to push them towards open-mindedness and embracing feminism, I have some dissapointing news about humans.
 

Menchi

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If you think people simply getting away from religion is going to push them towards open-mindedness and embracing feminism, I have some dissapointing news about humans.

No, obviously it won't. But that isn't what I said, is it? I stated a fact, that all religion institution is oppressive, patriarchal and outright disgusting.
 

Arttemis

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Comments like these should lead to a complete revocation of every Google service associated with that account. Google needs to moderate this garbage.
 

Daitokuji

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The hijab is definitely oppressive. I know there are some Muslim women who defend it saying it's their choice to wear it or whatever but it's pretty obvious that it started as a way for men to control women.
 

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Those comments she is reading out clearly indicate how these muslim men sending her this vile hate equate the Hijab with purity, virtue, modesty. So if she is not wearing one, she will be taking off her top, doing porn, be a prostitute, a slut etc.

Not all the comments were from the men though, there were some females one saying the very same.

Embarrassing.

And why are there so many comments calling her a slut? How did so many muslims get mind controlled into thinking exposed hair is sexually promiscuous.

In the Qu'ran it says both men and women should dress modesty, however it doesn't state how to dress nor is Hijab is ever specifically mentioned in the book.

Wearing a Hijab is optional, my mother doesn't wear one, my grandmother doesn't wear one as do some of my family members. Heck I have a cousin who debated on taking her hijab off and her dad was like "sure, go for it if you want."

Those men in the comments are using it as a form of control as they believe that women should follows the rules laid out by men but have somehow intertwined with the religion.
Islam preaches heavily that the only one who can cast true judgement on who's a true Muslim or not is God himself and you're are not allowed to act on his behalf, which also ties into her supporting gay rights because again only god can judge them.

She's practically a better Muslim than the people in the comments who displayed their homophobia, racism, sexist, casting judgment on her and her husband belief, threatening to kill her in the name of god.
 

Menchi

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Embarrassing.

And why are there so many comments calling her a slut? How did so many muslims get mind controlled into thinking exposed hair is sexually promiscuous.

Further more, even if she -did- become "promiscuous" so what? Women, men, non-binary, all have sexual agency and should not be shamed for enjoying sex.
 
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Those comments she is reading out clearly indicate how these muslim men sending her this vile hate equate the Hijab with purity, virtue, modesty. So if she is not wearing one, she will be taking off her top, doing porn, be a prostitute, a slut etc.

This is why as a woman, I despise religion. At it's core all religions see women as less than, second class citizens who have to do certain things to be pure and virtuous. And this kind of thinking seeps into everyday life.

Currently, I am part of a group of female activists trying to enter a very popular Hindu temple where women of menstruating age are banned from entering because as per hinduism, menstruation makes women impure. Like many women who choose to wear the Hijab, there are millions of Hindu women who believe that women are indeed impure beings who should not be allowed into this temple and many others who want to be allowed entry to pray - the same as the men. India's supreme court has ruled that under the constitution, people cannot be discriminated against because of gender and hence women should be let in. Currently protests, riots and strikes are going on against this and people have died after two women entered the temple under police protection - after which the priest performed a purification ritual because impure women dared enter! And this is one of Hinduim's biggest temples.

https://www.ndtv.com/kerala-news/sa...say-they-knew-life-would-be-in-danger-1973197

There are still many rituals in Hinduism where widowed women or single women are excluded because they are bad luck - a women's worth measured by whether she is married or not.

And then we have the right wing Christians taking away women's rights even in the western countries like the US.

These religious rules and regulations are always aimed at women's bodies - covering up and being modest so as not to attract the poor, innocent men, menstruation, having babies. Always aimed at pushing us down, making us feel like we are lesser and that this imaginary all powerful being in the sky sees us as lesser because we are women and therefore we should dress up and behave in a certain way. Does not the bible blame Eve for all of mankind's troubles and give her the more painful punishment of childbirth?

Go Dina Tokio! I like that she is taking all this in stride.
Holy books are made by men for men. Those texts have perpetually reinforced gender and race inequality for far longer than any other institution in human history.
 

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The hijab is definitely oppressive. I know there are some Muslim women who defend it saying it's their choice to wear it or whatever but it's pretty obvious that it started as a way for men to control women.

Any men that uses the hijab as a form to control women, are not true Muslim.

But at least the male commenters in most most countries (or in hers at least) are seeing women with their hair out all the time. Do they view every non-muslim woman as a slut or does the act of wearing and then not wearing a hijab somehow signify sluttiness?

What you have to understand is that if you're a male Muslim, you have pretty much got it made as they are allowed to go out late as they want, marry non Muslims, though my badass aunt was like fuck this shit and married a non Muslim, and only men are allowed to take on 4 wives as for some weird sexist reason. So they're are raised in a toxic environment that gives them certain expectation when it comes to how a Muslim women behaves.

A lot of modest Muslim, which is what she is along with my family, realise that some of these rules are daft and have no place in today day and age.
 

JayBee

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The hijab is definitely oppressive. I know there are some Muslim women who defend it saying it's their choice to wear it or whatever but it's pretty obvious that it started as a way for men to control women.
Its only oppressive if god and all religions are definitely made up.
 
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I mean, they aren't going anywhere and muslims are more and more the target of oppressive laws all over the west.

I used to be anti-theist, but I now think that freedom of religion is something that has to be defended, especially when the system is being used by racists to target these people and strip away their rights.

I'm anti-theist in the sense that I find religion to be dangerous and this world would be better without it, and it doesn't mean I would force anyone to drop their religion, it means we should fight to keep the state secular at all costs while everyone can have their personal faith, you can't even control the faith people have that just doesn't work and it would be beyond awful. No religion should get any kind of preference or prejudice.

Its only oppressive if god and all religions are definitely made up.

So... it's oppressive.
 

Prine

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Kind of shows the lie that Muslim women are completely free to wear the hijab or not. I mean, they can choose not to, and had better hope that the conservative Muslim community or family members don't threaten, ostracize, or viciously abuse them.
Pretty silly thing to say, using this example to generalise everyone else. I mean, her taking it off, and being supported by her family counters your point right? This isn't any better then those shaming her.

You knowits commons to see Muslim families with hijab and non-human wearing females, doing what they want, and it not being as contentious as non-muslims want to make it. She's on the internet, she's going to be used by extremists, conservatives, and Islamaphobes (inc Russian backed accounts), using those responses to attack an entire population isn't helpful towards her (who wouldn't want it to be weaponised against innocent Muslims) and the issue itself.
 
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Man imagine the kind of mental gymnastics you have to go through to look at a pretty woman with her hair down and say "ugh, ugly slut"
 
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This comment in particular, how can someone be this hateful and evil but because of religion still think they are the good person in the argument.
 

JayBee

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I mean, it's oppressive just by the simple fact that if you don't do something, you're damned. That is oppressive.
To religious people god is like a greater figure than a father. Many people obey their parents as well (out of gratefulness) without considering it opressive. Religious people are grateful towards god for all the good
 

M.Bluth

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Yikes, fuck those assholes. I can't take reading a quarter of those vile comments, let alone all the ones in the video and all the many more that didn't make the cut.

Hijabis lose whether they wear it or not cause someone somewhere will give them shit about it
Oh yeah, that too. Racists harass them. Fundamentalist cunts make similar comments to the ones in the video because it's never good enough.

Kind of shows the lie that Muslim women are completely free to wear the hijab or not. I mean, they can choose not to, and had better hope that the conservative Muslim community or family members don't threaten, ostracize, or viciously abuse them.
Oh look, it's you again.
 

Menchi

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To religious people god is like a greater figure than a father. Many people obey their parents as well (out of gratefulness) without considering it opressive. Religious people are grateful towards god for all the good

You're explaining why people follow the oppressive thing, not explaining why it isn't oppressive. Being forced into something through fear of damnation, exclusion, losing something of value? That's oppressive, whether you have... justification or not.
 

Heshinsi

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Any men that uses the hijab as a form to control women, are not true Muslim.
Well that's like a good chunk of the Muslim world. It's interesting how Egypt for example (especially in the cities) had more women not wearing the hijab decades ago than now.

In 1953, Egyptian leader President Gamal Abdel Nasser was told by the leader of the Muslim Brotherhood that they wanted to enforce the wearing of the hijab, to which Nasser responded: "Sir, I know you have a daughter in college - and she doesn't wear a headscarf or anything! Why don't you make her wear the headscarf? So you can't make one girl, your own daughter, wear it, and yet you want me to go and make ten million women wear it?".



"LET HIM WEAR IT!"

The old dictators were absolute fuck heads, but what we have now in our home countries is magnitudes worse. Religious dictators don't just care what you do politically, they want to control what you do with your own person and in your home.
 

JayBee

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You're explaining why people follow the oppressive thing, not explaining why it isn't oppressive. Being forced into something through fear of damnation, exclusion, losing something of value? That's oppressive, whether you have... justification or not.
There can be a lot of fear involved I agree. I think it's not opressive for them because they do it out of love. People restrict themselves or follow a rule out of love quite often in everyday life. I mean its strange when its about something u consider non existant(god), but for them he definitely does exist.
 

Kurdel

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"Slowly you will be porn star..." is an amazing sentence to think about.

Like, how does that happen?
 

naib

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To religious people god is like a greater figure than a father. Many people obey their parents as well (out of gratefulness) without considering it opressive. Religious people are grateful towards god for all the good

Any higher power that's going to damn us to hell for something as trite as a headscarf ~or accepting Jesus/Allah/Yahway/etc our savior~ can fuck off.

Being a conscious, caring, compassionate human being should be enough.
If it's not, your deity is an asshole anyway.
 

Menchi

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There can be a lot of fear involved I agree. I think it's not opressive for them because they do it out of love. People restrict themselves or follow a rule out of love quite often in everyday life. I mean its strange when its about something u consider non existant(god), but for them he definitely does exist.

If I didn't do something everyday because my partner forbade it, because he'd leave me, or not love me as much, it'd be just as oppressive. It doesn't require supernatural elements at all. By the way, I should probably note, I am religious.
 

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Well she is contradicting some fundamental Islamic teachings. As far as that religion goes she is a murtad (apostate) who deserves death so I guess these replies are par for the course.
 

perfectchaos007

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This womans liberating moment ruined by several assholes who think they can control a woman's decisions. they can fuck off
 

JayBee

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If I didn't do something everyday because my partner forbade it, because he'd leave me, or not love me as much, it'd be just as oppressive. It doesn't require supernatural elements at all. By the way, I should probably note, I am religious.
I respect that. I'm different if I have to be honest. I never wanted to upset my mum so I've obeyed the rules for as long as I lived with them. I think if my girlfriend/wife, which I know well at that point, asks me to behave around other or specific women(not being flirty) then I would respect that. On the flipside i'd appreciate it if I could express my sincere feelings about things as well. I am religious too so this is how I can relate with those who adopt a way of life for the sake of the god they love.
 

Heshinsi

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Well she is contradicting some fundamental Islamic teachings. As far as that religion goes she is a murtad (apostate) who deserves death so I guess these replies are par for the course.
What? Not wearing the hijab does not make you an apostate? The fuck are you talking about? My mom and sisters don't wear hijabs.
 

Mington

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The most concerning thing is how this abuse will come from young male muslims who live in rather Europe or the US.
 
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Well she is contradicting some fundamental Islamic teachings. As far as that religion goes she is a murtad (apostate) who deserves death so I guess these replies are par for the course.

If we're gonna use that logic of calling out people who contradict teachings, then apply it to everyone.

- What about Adam Saleh who talks shit about Dina Tokio being a hypocrite and that Muslims should follow ideals of the Qur'an, despite the fact that this fucking clown posted softcore porn videos of himself? No one mentions anything about that.

- What about the countless YT clowns who post videos or comments about follow ideals, despite the fact that the hadith specifically mentions to not be involved in other people's lives, and to not judge them as man and woman do not have the authority to judge anyone else.

What is especially bullshit is focusing only on Dina when everyone else has done something egregious at some point in their life.
 

Heshinsi

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The part where she says a muslim woman can marry a non-muslim.
Saying that still doesn't make her an apostate.

If we're gonna use that logic of calling out people who contradict teachings, then apply it to everyone.

- What about Adam Saleh who talks shit about Dina Tokio being a hypocrite and that Muslims should follow ideals of the Qur'an, despite the fact that this fucking clown posted softcore porn videos of himself? No one mentions anything about that.

- What about the countless YT clowns who post videos or comments about follow ideals, despite the fact that the hadith specifically mentions to not be involved in other people's lives, and to not judge them as man and woman do not have the authority to judge anyone else.

What is especially bullshit is focusing only on Dina when everyone else has done something egregious at some point in their life.

Not to mention that it is unislamic to declare a person a non muslim without clear cut evidence of disbelief in god.