Thinking about North Korea always makes me sad...
Whole bunch of people living there assume this is how life is and it's the best its gonna get.
North Korea has surely got to be one of the worlds biggest combined failings. We dont even pretend to care.
NK definitely makes me question what the response to the Holocaust had been if Hitler never went to war outside of Germany.
As you say, the entire world generally just shrugs about NK. Very much a "none of my business" tone.
But how do you help a country that doesn't want and refuses to be helped? A country that barely even lets anyone in or out
1) "Country" is doing a lot of work in this post. Should say "NK Leadership".
2) I've thought about it a lot, and I personally find it repulsive, but I think the only option is to offer the Kims a way out. Get them a villa in Switzerland for life, same or better quality of life than they have now. In exchange they open up the country as a developing region under UN aid, directed by SK (maximize cultural preservation) but not United with SK (they really don't want the burden). Try to institute a govt with no strings attached.
China is a massive wrench in any plan, and I loathe the Kims getting off scot-free, but I don't see any other way. They have enough ordinance pointed at Seoul that the time to level the city is under 10 minutes, IIRC. Military engagement is out.