What is it about married guys that are hot? Is it the taboo?
And let me not get too holier-than-thou because I have lived a LIFE and I honestly can't tell you if I ever knowingly hooked up with a married man or not...but, eh. For me personally.
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Married guy wants to cheat on his wife with me (Grindr again!)
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What is it about married guys that are hot? Is it the taboo?
And let me not get too holier-than-thou because I have lived a LIFE and I honestly can't tell you if I ever knowingly hooked up with a married man or not...but, eh. For me personally.
you know sexual exclusivity is a major component of the majority of romantic relationships, right? especially heterosexual ones?
I think its also the same way that "str8" guys are hot too lol
Its definitely...its a kink haha
It might be different for the straight community but its pretty rare in the gay male community for you to have exclusive sex partners. Sex it more like a fun activity like playing video games than something bound to a relationship, ever since the birth of apps like Grindr. But of course some gay guys still like the traditional exclusivity.
How do you live your life if you judge things by crime shows?
On the one hand, you only live once. On the other hand, you only live once. I personally would find the horn too tempting, and likely would give in to carnal delights. I have no shame though. I mean if it all goes to shit - it's him who has the drama, you ghost that fucker if he tries to draw you into it. He is a grown assed man, he can make choices. He is the one cheating. But I have no shame and the horn is not to be frittered away while you have blood pumping in your veins imo. I am kinda anti-relationship though so I may view it differently than most?
Oh no what if married dude is a member here, saw this thread and got all embarrassed?
Or the more boring and likely option, he stopped being dumb and horny long enough to realize that he might not want to cheat on his wife. Or she found him out.
I think you're confusing exclusive sex partners with rules, boundaries and communication.
Yes, non-monogamous pairings are popular among Queer relationships (although I don't know if I would say they're the norm...). But you know what else is popular? Ethical Non-Monogamy. I know a whole lot of Queer couples who are non-monogamous; I don't know many that operate this way healthily without boundaries and communication.
And that's where the line gets crossed here. Married Dick in the OP is hiding this behavior from his wife, who now has been robbed of the ability to consent or protect her own sexual health.
I am talking about non-fictional crime shows btw, and a lot of murders occur due to cheating partners.
I want to vote for option #4: Convince him to leave his wife for you, then don't do hook up anyway. Chaotic Evil must prevail.
A lot of murders occur in non-cheating relationships as well, this shouldn't be a reason to not do it, not enabling cheating should be lol
Yea, id have issues trusting anyone who can so easily betray someone with something that could cause serious emotional harm (or people who would enable it, also). Still dealing with the fallout, both literally and emotionally from my dad doing this while my parents were married. If getting your rocks off is worth fucking someone else over you're a piece of shit.
Yeah avg at best speaking in Grindr terms. Go to any college during graduation week/freshman drop off time. DADDY SZN
Don't help someone cheat on their wife, OP, even if they *are* hot. Sounds like you get a bunch of action regardless, you can let one or two go.
Incidentally, I'm glad MIMIC is posting up their sexual debacles. Takes the sting out of there being no more Confessember a bit.
Incidentally, I'm glad MIMIC is posting up their sexual debacles. Takes the sting out of there being no more Confessember a bit.
Eh, probably no. You seem to get into enough Grindr shenanigans that you can just, you know, have sex with someone else. These aren't lean times for your penis, OP. You can be a little selective.
How is this even a question, the fuck, that's legit scumbag shit. You know cheating isn't okay or at least should.
people on twitter hate it but I love a good grindr screenshots drama
i like how he has an attitude with you because of your normal and expected questions. Hes like "NO STOP TRYING TO GIVE ME THE BENEFIT OF THE DOUBT, I'M TRYING TO DO A BAD THING, GOD DAMMIT. DO U WANT THIS ASS OR NOT."
i like how he has an attitude with you because of your normal and expected questions. Hes like "NO STOP TRYING TO GIVE ME THE BENEFIT OF THE DOUBT, I'M TRYING TO DO A BAD THING, GOD DAMMIT. DO U WANT THIS ASS OR NOT."
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i will never understand the culture of "dl" guys. One time i rejected one of them (very gracefully!) and he blew up and started calling me names and ugly and all this shit even tho he started the convo with a face pic, so i blocked him while he kept messaging me butthurt shit and i posted his face to twitter telling everyone in the area to be careful cuz hes crazy but everyone got mad at ME for like breaking the DL code and putting his safety in danger or something.... like look at what he's saying to me! what about MY safety!!!
Also one time i was messaging a guy, older-ish, very hot, who was "new" to the gay scene but wouldn't answer questions about what that meant. He only ever talked and always avoided meeting up, tho at some point he'd sent his gps location. So I googled the address and found his full name... and his wholeeee family life. Wife, kids, house, etc. Very sad. He stopped replying and deleted his account on a Father's Day. His wife had posted a video of that day too, with his kids handing him a handwritten card and he broke down crying. Guess that recommited him to a life of shame and secrets for the sake of his family. She also straight up had a photo of the family with a caption like "so sad hubby is always away on business trips we miss him!" Likeeee... I thought this shit only happened in movies haahahah.
This was a year or two ago, fast forward to a month ago and I saw him walking his dog around my house even tho he lived like 10mi away. I did give him my location too afterall... was he looking for me?
Anyway my friends say I should have been a private investigator.
This was a year or two ago, fast forward to a month ago and I saw him walking his dog around my house even tho he lived like 10mi away. I did give him my location too afterall... was he looking for me?
Anyway my friends say I should have been a private investigator.
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Whew sis...
Can't say you were wrong for doing this, but you're right: DL culture and the lengths Queer people are socially expected to go to help them maintain their secrecy has been a CONTENTIOUS debate since I was in college.
You shoulda known you were going to get that smoke.
Ruin that marriage, OP.
DO IT!!
DO IT!!
Jk, that guy mostly likely ruined his marriage before already. Just don't get yourself into that mess.
I was a married "straight" guy on grindr
It was definitely easier to set up a hookup then but it's not universally attractive. Some guys will back off hard when they find out and now that I'm out and single, I really admire those guys
I've been with guys like this who are fervently dl and it's never worth it
It was definitely easier to set up a hookup then but it's not universally attractive. Some guys will back off hard when they find out and now that I'm out and single, I really admire those guys
I've been with guys like this who are fervently dl and it's never worth it
I truly had no idea ahaha. Now I do. I deleted it the next day, my friend was worried I was gonna get cancelled.
Fair!
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