Nah fuck that. The n word is a intrinsic part of black identity. The world is slowly becoming a place where people are trying to assimilate large parts of black culture. The n word is one of the things that is hard code explicitly for black people and no one else. just like white people have four cheese macaroni and systemic authority. Its explicit nature means that it can be frowned upon and typically should not be used everywhere, but amongst black people it should be expected and treated as natural as anything else. You have to protect that because white people will criticize its usage in one setting and shame you for having that culture, then show up to a party beatboxing and trying to dap people up in another and act like its been their culture this whole time.
Maybe in your circle, but not in mine.