Ok. Just finished it off. So I'll address your points as best I can before I go into my own opinion.
Your first point:
- I don't know if you listened to both hours, but I do think they get more nuanced in the discussion about that. I would say the point is that Brandi was with Wade at the time of the allegations, and she wanted to talk about his character, because one of the questions I've seen asked is "why would someone willingly do this", and her thesis is that he wants to do anything for to better position himself. Wade's claim that MJ told him women are evil and shouldn't be trusted (or whatever the specific word are) is contradicted by her testimony that Wade asked Michael to bring them closer together. In the talk, she describes how MJ would check-in on her and him and ask her if they're doing ok or whatever. I think the cheating, at least from her perspective, informs her that Wade has a history of lying. She goes into a couple of other instances where his behavior has been sketchy. I'm not saying I agree with everything she said mind you, just that her perspective is unique in all of this.
- As far as the dude himself. I can't speak to his history, but personally, as I heard him talking, there was plenty of things he wasn't agreeing with Brandi and Taj with. He made it clear he didn't like MJ or Dan Reed, and that he's agnostic on whether MJ was a paedophile or not. Originally he thought he was, but the second case took him away from that position. All I know from him is what I've heard in these two podcasts and he seems informed and rational.
So my opinion on all of this has definitely changed a bit. I think the two interviews provide interesting criticisms and points that has, not necessarily completely changed my position from watching the doc, but I am definitely a lot more skeptical now. Brandi provided insight into the private life of her and Wade and Her and her Uncle. For me, character matters. I understand that deep psychological abuse, grooming and fear can have the power to control a person, I've known victims my whole life, and I have family who have been hurt in this way, but for me, Brandi provides a lot of context into Wade's character that for me, more tightly fits into the larger picture. The fact alone that they dated, and she wasn't interviewed is a good point for me. I understand Dan wanted a story to tell, but to leave out someone who was in closer proximity (even if it was a Jackson family member, they could have primed her to get more accurate answers), is something that made me tilt my head. She even admits (and agrees with her interviewee) that Dan probably didn't even know that she existed, and I can agree with that, which puts the onus on Wade. She talks about Wade's mom wanting to take Blanket, Prince and Paris, which, if true is a massive red flag for me personally. She talks about how she's one of the only family members speaking out, and that they're not part of the estate (this could be inaccurate, but she makes it a point that she actually has a job and does photography and that the only people in the estate are Jackson's kids and the lawyers). She talks about how at one point in Wade's testimony, she thought he was going to laugh at the "he made me spread my cheeks apart", because apparently that's the kind of humor he had. There's other bits and pieces too, but these are what stuck with me. Oh she also talks about the fact that neverland wasn't empty at all, and that there would be a lot of kids there at the same time. That when they had BBQs they would separate the kids from the adults, and MJ would sit with all of the kids.
The second part is better in some ways and worse in others. I can't quite read Taj as well. I don't know if he's bad at speaking about things like this, but he is not as concise as Brandi is. But his interview brought in some pretty big things I think too. They address Jimmy a lot, and I think the biggest point is that the point Jimmy made about MJ calling him, and than threatening him could be false. The host says that the judge banned Jimmies testimony well before the 2005 trial starts for some reason I can't remember. The host than goes on to say that he called Jackson's lawyer at the time and he corroborated this saying "If we could have got Jimmy to testify we would have". The host also claims that Jimmy was sued for hundreds of thousands of dollars in like 2012 or something as well, but he's not sure exactly what yet, and wants to dig deeper into that thread. Lastly, the host points out that Jimmy's cousins who have also hung with MJ, contradict his testimony, and were vocally calling him out on twitter that his story is "Bullshit". Taj also goes into a bit of detail about the sleepovers saying that they'd generally be watching a movie and doze off, and when they woke up, MJ would be sleeping on the floor. He also talks about why he thinks Janet hasn't said anything, elaborates on Wade's timeline and so on. It's all very compelling to me. Taj also goes into his own history of sexual abuse. Taj and Brandi also talk about understanding outsider's perspectives about MJ being a weird dude (there's also an article about MJ's family performing an intervention because he apparently couldn't see how his tendency to be seen around kids was bad for him)
I find them about as trustworthy as Jimmy and Wade if I had to be honest. On one hand, they could easily be lying about not being part of the estate, and while they claim sources for some things (Brandi claims to know that Wade cheated because of Wade and her's mutual source), they don't really name them, which I could kind of understand, but is a weak excuse in this context. I also don't know how I feel about every counter being about money. Brandi didn't bring it up until asked why Wade would do this, but Taj was very much focused on this point. Money is definitely a compelling reason to do something like this, but I always ask, could it be the only reason? I'm not so sure that it is. On the other hand, there are things they've said that make a lot of sense to me and work in the bigger context of the MJ story. I think Wade is an unreliable narrator, and there's a lot of behavior that I find questionable from him and his past. I think Jimmies story, while much more sensible than Wade's story suffers a lot from (if true), the contradiction of some of his family members, and the (if true) point that he wasn't able to testify even if he wanted to. I also think there are weird quirks in the film, that at first glance I brushed off, but now make me think, like there's a lot of buildup with Jimmies mom saying how she felt about Michael. Most of part 1 is that, and a good chunk of part 2 is that. There's a line Jimmy says about Michael being a bad person to his Mother, than when he's dead she's dancing? It could be an editing error absolutely, but it happens so suddenly it was a little jarring.
I'll repeat again, I don't believe everything either party is saying at this point now. I think there's a lot of compelling information out there and I think at this point, I've taken a more agnostic approach to all of this that will be swayed by more testimonies. I believe the clearest thing we have is the Terry George story, which is an acknowledgement of improper behavior by all parties. MJ could still very well be a pedophile. These testimonies aren't going to make me jump back into his music, but they go interesting places that I would hope the news follows up with. I understand that in the era of metoo, the story of victims is essential to listen to and empathize with and understand, but I also think that we shouldn't stop with the questioning process where appropriate. I don't anticipate there will be too many people who like this, but that's where I'm at in the moment. I think the tenacity of this doc will rely on more victims coming, like Harvey Weinstein or Bill Cosby, so I'll keep an eye out