I think in 2020, with social media having perpetuated conspiracy horse-shit from amusing irrelevance, into incredibly damaging mainstream politics, I look at alien narratives being pushed exactly the same way as I look at Q-Anon narratives being pushed about globalist devil worshiping vampires. Basically I don't think conspiracy shit should be posted here.
I know aliens is slightly more fun and palatable, and we all like sci-fi, but this ultimately exists on the same adult fantasy daydream bucket as Q-Anon. We need to stop indulging in it for the good of peoples brains. It's damaging and we need better education.
And I'm sick of appeals to authority too, I don't care if a pilot thinks they saw something, or if their superior backed them up. Pilots are just regular people who make mistakes all the time. The US military literally bombed the shit out of their allies multiple times in recently memory dude to misidentification, and I'm supposed to believe in the thousands of sorties they do a year no pilot has ever made a mistake in identifying an object in the middle of the air with no frame of reference for scale or distance?