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Katy Perry accused of sexually harassing actor Josh Kloss at a party
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I just remove their hands and tell them to behave themselves.
One time this drunk woman's hand came out of nowhere whilst I was at the bar and it actually hurt as she fumbled grabbing.
Its that situation where going to a bouncer and saying that woman just assaulted me seems sad to say , rather pointless. As he'll probably look at you non plussed
I buy it. She's had a history of skeevy behavior.
Sucks for him though. Super terrible situation to be in.
Sucks for him though. Super terrible situation to be in.
Had something similar happen to me in high school gym class. Two random girls sitting on my lap and grabbing my ass and shit. Reported it to the teachers, but they obviously didn't take me seriously, because the rest of that semester they kept doing it with no consequences.
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True, but they aren't mutually exclusive (I know you weren't suggesting they were, just saying).
Great to see, that when men get sexually harassed that every little shit matters and what could be used against him, is used, like a form of words. Men are not exactly trusted in this departement. Thanks to this, as a victim, I shut the fuck about my incident for 15 years. Which was longer than I was being alive till that incident, which happened at 12.
This forum is not a monolith, but I see people often boasting about "toxic masculinity" but when something like this happend, they act like issue they were so passionately talking about. Basically "you are man, deal with it".
And to be honest this is pretty much the nicest place on the internet, so that is quite sad.
And yes there is a lot of feels and not enough thought went into this post, but...
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In my honest opinion this assault (well at least in my head) should be punished.
This forum is not a monolith, but I see people often boasting about "toxic masculinity" but when something like this happend, they act like issue they were so passionately talking about. Basically "you are man, deal with it".
And to be honest this is pretty much the nicest place on the internet, so that is quite sad.
And yes there is a lot of feels and not enough thought went into this post, but...
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In my honest opinion this assault (well at least in my head) should be punished.
I'm a victim too. Don't assume that just because I nit picked a word that I'm judging him. That word just gives me a weird feeling, but i'll Just shut the fuck up about it in the future.
I don't get why sexual assaults aren't taken more seriously. For women, it's the fact that people tend to not believe them even with overwhelming evidence. Meanwhile for men, it's the fact that people think getting unwanted touch from women should be okay merely because it's something to be enjoyed, regardless of how the man actually felt.
I mean, if you are victim, you really should know better. No hard feelings, but...
I know some guys at work that use the word "female"... its never used in a good way. Its always degrading and insulting. It makes me cringe and wince when I hear it and I'm a guy.
I've said it twice now, and a thread was linked that explains my beliefs behind the word. I get it, it's not important to this situation
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This forum is not a safe space for male abuse/assault/harassment victims, frankly.
What a response, is this one of those things were because she is more popular the person who came forward is just going to get called a liar and harrassed by her famous friends? Cause that seems fucked up
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It's just a time and place thing man, that's why you are getting heat. I get the apprehension around saying 'females' but it's not the time rn.
Thanks for mods fixing the title, I should have put accused or allegedly in it originally.
That's the usual response when a celebrity is accused of harrassment, I'm afraid.
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Whilst I can sort of imagine KP doing this after a few drinks (I imagine she's a horrible drunk), the guy isn't exactly credible either.
He's been infatuated with her ever since filming the Teenage Dream MV, to concerning levels (writing songs for her, planning an imaginary life together). His post where he makes the claims reads as a pity piece, he mention his gf was cheating on him which has no relevance whatsoever and says he was hurt by KP telling others that having to kiss him during filming was gross even though he was an actor and she a married woman.
He makes out the alleged incident was traumatic and yet he sells dick pics and nudes on his onlyfans account. If it did happen, would someone so comfortable exposing themselves to compete strangers really feel all that traumatised having their ultimate crush doing it instead?
To me this is either delusions from an obsessive man or cheap use of the metoo movement for some publicity.
Having said that, of course it's wrong if he was exposed against his will but context is massively important too.
He's been infatuated with her ever since filming the Teenage Dream MV, to concerning levels (writing songs for her, planning an imaginary life together). His post where he makes the claims reads as a pity piece, he mention his gf was cheating on him which has no relevance whatsoever and says he was hurt by KP telling others that having to kiss him during filming was gross even though he was an actor and she a married woman.
He makes out the alleged incident was traumatic and yet he sells dick pics and nudes on his onlyfans account. If it did happen, would someone so comfortable exposing themselves to compete strangers really feel all that traumatised having their ultimate crush doing it instead?
To me this is either delusions from an obsessive man or cheap use of the metoo movement for some publicity.
Having said that, of course it's wrong if he was exposed against his will but context is massively important too.
im sorry you hear female used derogagory but I dont use it that way. seems like you just want to not like a word.
when I say male than i say female. if i say man than i say woman.
Not surprised. She kissed a contestant without permission on American Idol who said he had never kissed a girl before (because of his religion, he was waiting for the right person to kiss) because she thought it would be a cute favor. She caught a little flak for it but it was quickly forgotten because she's an attractive celebrity woman.
I know we had a thread about using "female" before but Its still widely used on Era and everywhere. Everytime I see the word being used by other women too and I think back on the thread so maybe it's not as toxic as some think.
As for this story. I didnt Katy was a jerk. Lost some brownie points from me.
I don't need safe space, I would just be glad, that in some case it would be nice if all genders would be judged with the same metrics.
To be honest some of threads in here rubs me a wrong way, like that some stuff is blown out of proportion and many times I would just went into that thread and complain. But I am not going to do that, since I also think that this issue is not handled with care as it should. So I simply write nothing. Maybe my history is make a better person...but it still hurts.
Do we need to address this over and over? Read the thread pls
This logic is why sex workers have a hard time being taking seriously when they are sexually harassed or assaulted.
It plays right into the "perfect victim" trope.
Yes, me too. He used man and female. Whatever, it doesn't matter
"She claims she's been raped but I have proof that she's promiscuous"
lol, what the hell. Are you seriously arguing it's okay to expose people in public
Two entirely different situations. He didn't consent to having his pants pulled down
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Perry abusing her female privilege
Also having an onlyfans account means you were asking for it. My advice? View sex as the icky disgusting thing it is.
Also having an onlyfans account means you were asking for it. My advice? View sex as the icky disgusting thing it is.
Pretty much. Focus on the actual abuse rather than concern trolling about "phrasing" trying to make this dude into some bad guy...most people are not even aware of this "female" vs "woman" thing
