This is me as well. For the first couple years I had to have a number of endoscopies, but if they are able to put you to sleep for it then it's no big deal. The good news is lodged food is not an immediate threat as you can still breathe, but it can be uncomfortable leading to pain as gases and pressure build and your esophagus constricts around the lodged item(s). In any case, if they're going to scope you make sure they test for this too.
As EoE is chronic I use an inhaler, not to inhale medicine into my lungs but to coat my throat with steroids twice a day, which keeps my throat just large enough to eat anything so long as I chew carefully. I feel your stress OP, hope whatever the cause in your case is, is treatable or curable with minimal fuss.