It took me 4 years to attempt to play The Last Of Us again after giving up on it after 5 hours the first time around, because of how stressful it was to me, and how overall just downright unpleasant to play this game was in my opinion. Granted, it was the 2nd console game I'd ever played in my life after Journey (I came from PC gaming), and the learning curve was too steep for me to handle, while nowadays, I handled a replay of TLOU much better. But I still remember feeling incredibly frustrated and angry at the fact that I felt I just couldn't play a game I was definitely interested in the first place, because the gameplay was just incredibly unwelcoming and hard (despite being on the easiest mode back then), so hard that even when I was asking my SO to help, someone who had already played TLOU on survivor, they found the game being incredibly frustrating to deal with on the easy mode still. Even during our recent replay, did we find some encounters particularly unpleasant to go through (always trying to figure out if this time the game decided to be a stealth game like it makes you believe it is, or if we had to brute-force it all in a messy way).
I'm currently playing TLOU2 on light mode, even though, having thousands of hours in console gaming under my belt by now, I probably could up the challenge to a normal one, but I was unsure what I was going to deal with to begin with, because I was still afraid of what I was getting into. I like TLOU2's gameplay a thousand times better so far, I'm having a much much better experience so far, and I'm absolutely thankful to the team for doing their absolute most to make this game as accessible as it is. I personally don't need a quarter of all their options, but I'm sure there are many people who do, and I'm glad they get to play this game under their own terms, and enjoy the story, the sceneries, the characters and the gameplay in a way that fit them the best.