We're at a point now that we, as the LGBT community, need to start questioning and breaking the unhealthy habits born out of desperation in our past. Or at least discuss it openly. Most of us don't need to hide in the same way we used to, and with the internet it's easier than ever to find other people your age going through the same struggles as you. So why, as an adult LGBT individual, would you be cool with flirting or generally pursuing relationships with teenagers? Be a mentor or friend instead, without the romantic aspect.