I just have no idea how to do it. I've been at my current job almost a year, and I'm fine (even good at) talking about work stuff with anyone, and I can pretty easily hold personal-ish conversations with the people in my own department whom I work with regularly (though there's only a couple of them, we're a small team).
But I've basically gotten to the point where I'll take the stairs up 5 or 6 floors instead of waiting for an elevator with a person I know I should be familiar with but know nothing about. It's becoming a phobia on a level that it hasn't been before in my career. And everyone's nice here too! That might be the worst part.
I think maybe I'm too cynical and think too much about the content of a conversation, which shouldn't really matter. I have a lot of trouble with the chats about the weather or the 'ugh, monday' 'happy friday' etc talks. They're so cliche that I feel like an asshole.
Anyone used to feel this way and get better? I really want to practice before I full on become the office weirdo.
But I've basically gotten to the point where I'll take the stairs up 5 or 6 floors instead of waiting for an elevator with a person I know I should be familiar with but know nothing about. It's becoming a phobia on a level that it hasn't been before in my career. And everyone's nice here too! That might be the worst part.
I think maybe I'm too cynical and think too much about the content of a conversation, which shouldn't really matter. I have a lot of trouble with the chats about the weather or the 'ugh, monday' 'happy friday' etc talks. They're so cliche that I feel like an asshole.
Anyone used to feel this way and get better? I really want to practice before I full on become the office weirdo.