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Oct 27, 2017
3,654
WhatsApp is also end-to-end encrypted so nobody can see the contents of your message bar the recipient(s), so even using it for targeting data isn't really doable.
 
Oct 28, 2017
2,962
I find it weird that so many people say... "but WhatsApp".

Just tell people to email you, or set up a similar group on discord and ask them to use that. If they don't then... Ignore them?

There's text, emails and phone calls for one to one meetings. Zoom, Skype and Google meets as well as teams. There's discord and someone mentioned Signal, for group chat.

There's literally no reason that WhatsApp, or Facebook, is needed for personal use whatsoever.

It's not that easy. For video calls, yeah, I never even used it for that. But as a basic text app Whatsapp has just become ubiquitous in Europe. Actually I refused to get whatsapp for years because I thought I didn't need it and I didn't even have internet on my phone anyway. And if I'm honest i probably missed out on some cool stuff because of that.

Good friends and family will make an effort to contact you, sure. At least for important stuff. But if it's a spontaneous meet-up, "Hey, I'm at this park right now, does anyone want to come by?" Maybe not. Contacting people individually takes time. And there's also acquaintances who you probably wouldn't meet up with one-on-one, but who will include you in an invitation if it means just clicking on another icon on Facebook. Some of the coolest parties I've been on where the ones were I barely knew the hosts.

Most of my relatives live abroad. My 80-year-old grandparents are using whatsapp now and often post pics into our family group. They won't just switch to another app, it's taken them years to start using whatsapp. And I'm not close enough to my cousins to just call or email them what's up, but it's cool to see what they're doing from Facebook or our whatsapp group.
 

Edward

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Avenger
Oct 30, 2017
5,107
Lol. Give people your alternative contact info. Done.
It's easier to keep in contact with older people who aren't technology savvy. I do family/friend group chats there and have connections there. It's not that easy to just delete. And i certainly don't want to delete over a decade worth of albums and pictures. I get why people want to delete theirs but i won't feel guilty why i am keeping mine.

Not to mention Oculus also forced you to use it to add friends and chat/voice chat and group up.
 

JoelStinty

Member
Aug 15, 2019
1,278
people giving lame ass excuses for not quitting FB. You either like it, or you don't care, that's the truth. Sure switching might be a pain but it's gonna be more of a pain tomorrow. There's plenty of other options for communication. Personally I quit in 2008, even that was too late. I've convinced most of my friends and family to do the same. I can't imagine the brain damage I would have today had I continued using FB for another 12 years.

Umm. If you haven't used it since 2008 you probably not really aware how essential it is to a lot of people. You could even make an argument that is now a utility as much as a social app. Peoples livelihoods - business etc are on facebook, especially creatives and the leisure and catering industries. Keeping in contact with friends and family isn't a lame ass excuse either. Its peoples lives. Considering the globalised world we live in, people do have close contacts across the globe. People can contact each other for free. It will take a lot of work for people to migrate to other services, but even then that is likely not to tackle the root issues that trouble all social media sites - the balance of free speech.

I don't particulary like having to use it, but I have too. I am aware of the shitty attitudes and practices (that go back beyond this week i.e, Cambridge Analaytica etc) but I will continue to do so, until a viable alternative is there for me (And everyone to switch). I will keep on top of what they are doing and will always review my use of it, but unless facebook start cracking down on what people post then people won't switch or can't switch.

Another thing to consider is the last week, a lot of what we have seen as come through Social Media and Facebook. The fact that people have been able to record and broadcasts these heinous acts by the police is the very reason we are having these protests in the first place. That would not be possible without Facebook, or other social media apps. We've watched the entire last week unfold on social media. It actually gives us so much more information, and thinking about it, it actually frightens me to think what position we would be in without it. It as also been a platform for activism, many protests and meets, or ideas are organised through facebook.

Look, Social Media as it issues. It is easy to hate it but my position on it has changed throughout the last 5 years. The news doesn't give us everything. I have learnt and gathered so much information that I would never would have had without it. Ultimately it is up to the user to curate their own experience. Obviously it has its downsides and I really wish companies would do more to tackle those (it seems twitter is finally starting to). Like with anything, these assholes will bow down to its audience. If other organisations start moving ahead of them in other regards, facebook, or whoever will eventually follow.
 

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Oct 25, 2017
6,827
I deleted mine on January 1st as a New Year's resolution to get rid of stuff from my life that wasn't adding any value to it. Facebook was at the top of that list. So glad I'm not on it anymore. My wife still is and is always complaining about the garbage she sees on Facebook. I feel liberated.
 

Dr. Mario

Member
Oct 27, 2017
13,841
Netherlands
Pointless for me as I won't get rid of Instagram and Whatsapp.

Yes Facebook is evil, but it's also how you use it. I'm not converting any clicks for them (just our local version of The Onion, big whoop), and I'm certainly not engaging in politics on there.
 

The Albatross

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Oct 25, 2017
38,981
I'm lucky that my job and livelihood does not require me to be on facebook. Like I don't have to manage a brand account or sell stuff on instagram, or w/e. One thing I do occassionally miss is that brands will post updated hours on Facebook, but usually not other sites/services. So, Facebook will have their COVID19 hours but their Google business page doesn't, for instance. My wife also buys a lot of stuff from shops on instagram. Thankfully I don't really have that need, I don't buy anything from brands like that.

It's easier to keep in contact with older people who aren't technology savvy. I do family/friend group chats there and have connections there. It's not that easy to just delete. And i certainly don't want to delete over a decade worth of albums and pictures. I get why people want to delete theirs but i won't feel guilty why i am keeping mine.

Not to mention Oculus also forced you to use it to add friends and chat/voice chat and group up.

Totally respect everybody's choice to use a service, I think if you get more value from it than you perceive the negative value to you or your community, then I think it's fair to keep using a service. Wanted to share a couple anecdotes about how leaving FB was... ~4 years ago:

I thought I'd really miss being able to flip back 15 years of photos, or w/e, but.... it was actually really liberating to not have to worry about any of that anymore, like, what happens if I have some embarrassing photo of me drunk from 2006 or something, and it turns up for some reason. I used to be really fanatical about controlling who has access to photos of me and things like that, but it was always this fear hanging over my head ... I remember the day before I got married, a friend of mine posted this thing about me which was totally in good spirits, not malicious at all, but it was about like, remembering being single and hitting the city and it just had a photo of us at some bar, and he did it in good fun and all, but I was legit stressed out about it and how other people coming to my profile from my wife's family, etc., would think about it... And I had tell him, like, hey that's awesome thank you, but....... do you mind removing it? And, just that feeling of really not having to worry about that anymore has been a major relief for me. Sure, someone could still write my name and tag something on it, but that's pretty unlikely now several years later... I think everybody's mostly forgotten I exist on FB and I'm happy about that.

One hard thing for me was birthdays, which is silly, but I felt bad that I didn't know a lot of my friends birthdays, so a couple years ago I went through and accumulated as many of my friends bdays as I could and entered them as recurring reminders in Google Calendar (Google Calendar has a birthday feature built in, but only if someone puts their bday in their google profile, which most don't do).
 
May 15, 2018
1,898
Denmark
WhatsApp is also end-to-end encrypted so nobody can see the contents of your message bar the recipient(s), so even using it for targeting data isn't really doable.
Eh. Maybe NSA can't read your messages en route but the Whatsapp app certainly can when they have arrived and the app decrypts them. Whether it uses that data... I wouldn't put my trust with Facebook.
 

Ploid 6.0

Member
Oct 25, 2017
12,440
Don't use Facebook (deleted a while ago, it seem pointless now, looks like a aged and out of date service/site), never got into Instagram and Whatsapp. I'm glad I swayed my family from Whatsapp when my brother wanted a way to contact us when he was deployed during his tours in Kuwait and Afghanistan. I had no clue what Whatsapp was, still don't, got him to just use skype, so maybe it's a video facechat thing.
 

The Albatross

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Oct 25, 2017
38,981
Eh. Maybe NSA can't read your messages en route but the Whatsapp app certainly can.
Whether it does so or not... I wouldn't put my trust with Facebook.

I don't use WhatsApp and I wouldn't, but unless WhatsApp and Facebook are lying about end-to-end encryption, nah, WhatsApp cannot read your messages. If you're security minded, like if you're a dissident in a dictatorship or you're sharing state secrets, you should not be using WhatsApp and cannot trust it, but for normal communication it's fair to assume that WhatsApp cannot read your commnications, unless they're lying about their end-to-end encryption... Whcih, sure, they could be, but if it's implemented the way they say it's implement, then the app cannot read your communication.

Signal, Viber, and WhatsApp (and others... like RIP Google Allo's secured chat feature) all basically use the same E2E encryption method: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Signal_Protocol
 

StarStorm

Avenger
Oct 25, 2017
7,594
Not really stunned with Zuck. I deleted my FB two years ago. Never started on Instagram or Whatsapp. No one should be really be stunned.
 

Loan Wolf

Member
Nov 9, 2017
5,088
I hope digital antitrust legislation can break Instagram from Facebook, I still use the app but I'm on the fence with deleting it too.
 

Kelsdesu

Member
Oct 25, 2017
4,465
If you are going to close your facebook account. Please be sure to request a full gdpr data wipe.(CCPA if you are in California) .
 

Zutroy

Member
Oct 25, 2017
1,592
Deleted Facebook like 6 years ago. I could already how toxic it was for society even back then.

WhatApp though, I'm afraid there's no getting away from. I'd love to because I feel it's so slow to update with good features, but the reality is you'll just be the one left out if you move.

I do feel like it must be a money loser for FB though so at least there's that.
 

collige

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Oct 31, 2017
12,772
Eh. Maybe NSA can't read your messages but the Whatsapp app certainly can.
Whether it does so or not... I wouldn't put my trust with Facebook.
The app in this case would have to send the unencrypted message back to Facebook separately from the actual message, which would get picked up on immediately by security researchers. To wit, the EFF still lists Whatsapp as a secure messaging app. That said, this comes with several caveats about data collection, but none of them are directly related to reading message contents. Of course, none of those caveats apply to Signal itself, so it's far better to just use that than a Facebook branded version of it if you're concerned about security.
 

Arttemis

The Fallen
Oct 28, 2017
6,199
I was late to join the platform, but I've deleted my profile almost a year ago. This shit was worthless, considering there's nearly an infinite alternative ways to contact people. So far every alternative I've found has brought me actually closer to the people I want to talk to, meaning facebook did a fucking terrible job at what they were supposed to be doing anyway.
 
May 15, 2018
1,898
Denmark
The app in this case would have to send the unencrypted message back to Facebook separately from the actual message, which would get picked up on immediately by security researchers. To wit, the EFF still lists Whatsapp as a secure messaging app. That said, this comes with several caveats about data collection, but none of them are directly related to reading message contents. Of course, none of those caveats apply to Signal itself, so it's far better to just use that than a Facebook branded version of it if you're concerned about security.
I don't think it's that easy for security researcher's to know exactly what data is being sent where, if the app itself is not open source. As far as I can tell the following means that they share or will share your information with facebook:

"Facebook data sharing
WhatsApp's recent privacy policy update announced plans to share data with WhatsApp's parent company Facebook, signalling a concerning shift in WhatsApp's attitude toward user privacy. In particular, the open-ended, vague language in the updated privacy policy raises questions about exactly what WhatsApp user information is or is not shared with Facebook. WhatsApp has publicly announced plans to share users' phone numbers and usage data with Facebook for the purpose of serving users more relevant friend recommendations and ads. While existing WhatsApp users are given 30 days to opt out of this change in their Facebook user experience, they cannot opt out of the data sharing itself. This gives Facebook an alarmingly enhanced view of users' online communications activities, affiliations, and habits."

www.eff.org

Where WhatsApp Went Wrong: EFF's Four Biggest Security Concerns

UPDATE (1/26/17): In response to news about WhatsApp's key management choices, we have added additional information about related trade-offs under "Key change notifications."After careful consideration, we have decided to add additional warnings and caveats about using WhatsApp to our...

Default online backup of decrypted messages results in the same. It's a few years old, so I don't know if you have more recent news on policy changes.
 

Dormammu

Banned
May 20, 2020
120
I get what is being asked here. I personally got rid of Facebook 2 months ago. But saying to remove a service that makes it super fast and easy to communicate with a lot of family and friends and to just "get their contact numbers" and to call and text them shit from now on. That actually takes a LOT more effort and time compared to posting something on Facebook or Instagram and getting a lot of responses at once and an easy to use field to replay back to each of them all in the exact same place.

You cannot judge someones time and situation. For me personally, i'm very self isolating, regardless of the pandemic. I've been called out on it all my life. "you always just go missing for months on end, do you not care?". So social media and the easy interaction has been a massive blessing for me to keep in touch with my huge family and old friends who now live far away, have families of their own, and don't have the time to call and chat like when we were all young.

So until a new app hits and grows HUGE like FB, this is gonna be a no from a lot of people. After I rage perma deleted my FB account, i then looked at my Instagram and realized only 10% of my FB friends are even on there. I searched and so many people don't even use it, which is the 2nd most popular service. So what is a person to use if not either of these?

And those that use it for work, some jobs require having it. Not everyone is self employed and can just change their shit on the dime and not cause problems.
 

TorianElecdra

Member
Feb 25, 2020
2,510
It's impossible to not use WhatsApp or Facebook Messenger for most people outside the US. I can't delete those unfortunately.
 

Tochtli79

Member
Jun 27, 2019
5,777
Mexico City
Facebook is completely irrelevant in this day and age.

But telling people to use SMS instead of WhatsApp is unrealistic. People use WhatsApp for work, it's literally a necessity. There has to be a replacement for it that isn't reverting to some outdated messaging service because WhatsApp is far more than just a texting platform. Telegram is good but people need to spread the word so more of us start making the switch.
 

Guppeth

Member
Oct 25, 2017
15,805
Sheffield, UK
Facebook is completely irrelevant in this day and age.

But telling people to use SMS instead of WhatsApp is unrealistic. People use WhatsApp for work, it's literally a necessity. There has to be a replacement for it that isn't reverting to some outdated messaging service because WhatsApp is far more than just a texting platform. Telegram is good but people need to spread the word so more of us start making the switch.
Facebook is not irrelevant. It has enormous political influence. I found it pretty easy to quit though.

I'm informing my WhatsApp contacts that I won't be available in that app, and including a link to download Telegram. I'm going to install Telegram on my parents' phones personally. I'm not going to tell anyone else what to do.

I don't use Facebook or WhatsApp for work. For people who do, just do what you can. You can use multiple apps, it won't kill you.
 

JasoNsider

Developer
Verified
Oct 25, 2017
2,144
Canada
I have networks set up on IG and FB so unfortunately I can not but the second a replacement for these two apps come around (a replacement that lasts more than a month) I'll be there.

But I'm not ready to delete 10 years worth of albums.

Just remember you can download all your facebook data very conveniently right through their account settings. I tried it and it works. It even comes with nice HTML offline albums.
 
May 15, 2018
1,898
Denmark
The app in this case would have to send the unencrypted message back to Facebook separately from the actual message, which would get picked up on immediately by security researchers. To wit, the EFF still lists Whatsapp as a secure messaging app. That said, this comes with several caveats about data collection, but none of them are directly related to reading message contents. Of course, none of those caveats apply to Signal itself, so it's far better to just use that than a Facebook branded version of it if you're concerned about security.
Sorry, didn't spot your link. After having read that, it seems to me that we can hardly feel safe from facebook's adtracking when using whatsapp.
1.Because of the closed-source nature of whatsapp, we really have no idea how whatsapp have implemented the protocol. (and facebook has a history of not living up to its privacy promises.)
2.Default online backup of decrypted messages you have to remember to turn it off - and who does that because it's so convenient. 3.And finally the updated privacy policy and admitted meta data sharing with facebook.
But most importantly we agree on using Signal instead.
 

cubicle47b

Member
Aug 9, 2019
728
I deleted my Facebook last weekend. I still have messenger for family chat. I might delete that and require text messages instead.
 

Deleted member 23381

User requested account closure
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Oct 28, 2017
5,029
Facebook doesn't matter to me but whatsapp is too integral to my day to day life to even consider deleting.
 

Tochtli79

Member
Jun 27, 2019
5,777
Mexico City
Facebook is not irrelevant. It has enormous political influence. I found it pretty easy to quit though.

True, what I meant is that with so many other social media apps available now, it's pretty easy to still keep in touch with friends and family without having Facebook. It isn't irreplaceable for the average user. Messaging apps are a different beast, as it's basically only iMessage and WhatsApp dominating atm.
 

ChrisBliss117

Member
Oct 28, 2017
1,842
I got rid of Facebook in April and made a post to my "friends" to DM me if they wanted my contact info. No one did. Facebook gets me too worked up because of all the dumb fucking opinions have anyway.
 

BoboBrazil

Attempted to circumvent a ban with an alt
Banned
Oct 25, 2017
18,765
Deleted years ago. Facebook has been a shitty company for a long time. The entire board of directors at this point are Trumpers after they ran everyone else off.
 

Guppeth

Member
Oct 25, 2017
15,805
Sheffield, UK
I got rid of Facebook in April and made a post to my "friends" to DM me if they wanted my contact info. No one did. Facebook gets me too worked up because of all the dumb fucking opinions have anyway.
I did similar last year. I will say that if you wanted any of those friends to stay in touch, you should have DMed them. That way they know you give a shit.

That's a tip for anyone planning to leave FB. If there are people you want to stay in touch with, you should be the one to reach out.
 

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Oct 25, 2017
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unfortunately it's a pretty entrenched venue for leftist organizing in my area. it wouldn't be worth it.
 

bmfrosty

Member
Oct 27, 2017
1,894
SF Bay Area
I have it, but just for event planning (so my wife can invite me), and for some D&D stuff, but sometimes I got months without logging in. I have just the one friend.
 

0VERBYTE

Banned
Nov 1, 2017
5,555
I tried to get my family to get off that shit but so many of is literally joined at the hip to facebook.
 

AnansiThePersona

Started a revolution but the mic was unplugged
Member
Oct 27, 2017
15,682
Facebook is easy to ditch.

Ain't no one ditching IG.
I can never leave Instagram because it's...
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I do not blame anyone who doesn't want to leave Insta.
 

Kthulhu

Member
Oct 25, 2017
14,670
You can't boycott a monopoly. If you want better social media companies we need more of them so we have competition.
 

Gigi A

Member
Oct 26, 2017
3,060
Austin, TX
I get it. But no, I won't be deleting it. I want to still have contact with my family/friends, it isn't as easy as you try to make it out to be. Not everyone texts people in their lives, with Facebook, I know that they're still around, I'll know if something happened with them or how they're doing. If I'm just regulated to a contact number on my phone, I lose all of that. Then there's the many groups that I participate in, or even just finding out about events that are happening that I wouldn't find out otherwise. You're just assuming at this point that I'm going to have contacts with other means like SnapChat/Twitter/Discord, not everyone has that
 

Fatoy

Member
Mar 13, 2019
7,220
The only reason I maintain a personal Facebook profile is because they made it mandatory for running business pages there and on Instagram - both of which I have to do for work.
 
Oct 27, 2017
1,132
I thought I deleted mine 10 years ago but I still get email updates to this very day about people's updates. I'm pretending it's not happening.

One log in (even accidental) and your profile is back, fully functioning. Unless you really completely delete it, but Facebook really doesn't want that to happen of course - it's conviently well hidden behind a lot of clicks.
 
Oct 27, 2017
3,654
Can we please stop this "well just give them your phone number" nonsense, it is absurd. I am in several groups on WhatsApp. If I leave and nobody else does then they will just keep communicating in those groups and I will just miss it all. I'm not deleting WhatsApp.