Someone (possibly on here when it came to Netflix?) summarized EVA and sexuality as "it's trying to be a deconstruction but none of the fans got it, got turned on instead, and spent so much money on sexy merch that staff threw their hands up and leaned in with more merch just like it."
There are a lot of scenes and reveals towards the end that really emphasize the deconstruction and the damage it does (let alone some super squicky reveals), but there's so much before that that leans into sexualization I didn't think it undid what came before, just re-contextualized it. I personally say I loved the show, but I'm also very happy I watched it as an adult instead of when I was a teen, because I feel like back then I would not have realized what was going on. I think a lot of it is problematic, but the rest is so good I can kind of ignore it. Just like how I can ignore how much Walt Disney hated unions and still enjoy Disney stuff.
There are a lot of scenes and reveals towards the end that really emphasize the deconstruction and the damage it does (let alone some super squicky reveals), but there's so much before that that leans into sexualization I didn't think it undid what came before, just re-contextualized it. I personally say I loved the show, but I'm also very happy I watched it as an adult instead of when I was a teen, because I feel like back then I would not have realized what was going on. I think a lot of it is problematic, but the rest is so good I can kind of ignore it. Just like how I can ignore how much Walt Disney hated unions and still enjoy Disney stuff.