Basically, I've posted on this forum time and time again about how shitty fighting games make me feel on two separate accounts. The first I had deleted because I wouldn't stop going on about it, and this one I'm trying to do the same with this account.
I keep trying to quit because I know how unhealthy doing anything competitive is for me, I get intensely angry with myself and end up punishing myself psychically. I've torn out hair, nearly dislocated a knee joint, and even starved myself for ever playing badly. The problem is, I keep coming back to fighting games despite knowing how it affects me. I keep telling myself that I'll play for fun instead of playing to win, but I can't ever get it out of my head that winning is the fun. And for some reason, when I play these games locally, I'm completely fine and dont ever feel or get mad at all. I have a blast. But when it comes to playing online, I get irate, and I cant help but feel that my actual value as a human being is measured by my performance in fighting games.
I even stopped drawing for nearly six months to put more times towards playing and have even considered quitting my job to give myself time towards fighting games. I've convinced myself that if I'm not smart enough to be good at fighting games, I'm not smart at all.
How do I quit this genre that only does nothing but give me a hyper competitive mindset? I've already done things like have myself banned from just about any fighting game centric discord available, and I've even told my friends I was going to stop seeing completely because I wanted to keep myself away from fighting games. I'll listen to whatever replies I get, I'm going to have this account deleted too.
I keep trying to quit because I know how unhealthy doing anything competitive is for me, I get intensely angry with myself and end up punishing myself psychically. I've torn out hair, nearly dislocated a knee joint, and even starved myself for ever playing badly. The problem is, I keep coming back to fighting games despite knowing how it affects me. I keep telling myself that I'll play for fun instead of playing to win, but I can't ever get it out of my head that winning is the fun. And for some reason, when I play these games locally, I'm completely fine and dont ever feel or get mad at all. I have a blast. But when it comes to playing online, I get irate, and I cant help but feel that my actual value as a human being is measured by my performance in fighting games.
I even stopped drawing for nearly six months to put more times towards playing and have even considered quitting my job to give myself time towards fighting games. I've convinced myself that if I'm not smart enough to be good at fighting games, I'm not smart at all.
How do I quit this genre that only does nothing but give me a hyper competitive mindset? I've already done things like have myself banned from just about any fighting game centric discord available, and I've even told my friends I was going to stop seeing completely because I wanted to keep myself away from fighting games. I'll listen to whatever replies I get, I'm going to have this account deleted too.
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