Research shows it is a far better, more intuitive, more easy to understand, and more easily compatible with more accessibility accessories UX than whatever games generally tend to have. :) It may not feel very console-like, but that's for the better.
Would love to see the data of that research, cause a lot of research that gameDevs get is just really dumb. I remember on Ori we got a bunch of User Research feedback from people that wrote into their little dataSheets that they never played on a console or held a controller in their hands before. Well, duh, of course things like that might feel better to them than to people that are well versed with controllers.
You can't just trust data. There's a lot to gamefeel that you'll never get from user research. You have to KNOW what feels right and what doesn't. Look at the data here - the overwhelming majority voted for "I HATE them."
I personally couldn't agree more with the OP, this stuff just FEELS terrible. It's a PC User Interface that's IDEAL with a Mouse, but fairly cumbersome with a controller. It's sort of the easy way out for designers... "Hey guys, we have this really complex interface that'd work well on a PC with a mouse, but it'd be a pain in the ass to streamline it all so that it's also perfect if people play with a controller, what do we do?" "No problem, just implement a CURSOR! Job's done, who's in for Pizza?" -> There's a REASON why RTS games suck on consoles and it's this.
Also, this:
It may not feel very console-like, but that's for the better.
...makes me wonder if you're one of those folks who just generally feel that PC controls are better than controllers. Usually people with that attitude just try to shoehorn PC stuff into console games, cause 'the PC is doing it better anyway.' - But that really just means that you didn't want to do your job. If you ship your game on PC and console, the goal is to make sure that the UI works perfectly towards the strengths of both platforms instead of creating this awkward imbalance. Clunky UI can easily ruin an otherwise great game - So I'd approach this subject with a little more caution.