A few things:
i. You're absolutely correct. The fact that you create your own Shepard and build them and their relationships over the course of three games is absolutely unique and fantastic. I think as a whole we tend to understate just how bold Bioware was with this project. It's easy in hindsight to feel like the trilogy was a certainty, that when they made ME1 they were sure they would have the chance to make ME2 and ME3, but that's far from true. And there are many examples is gaming that show how one bad game can fuck things up for good Worse, even good ones can not be successful enough.
ii. I will second the opinion of others here that your Shepard looks awesome.
iii. I highly recommend this video to you and anyone that likes the franchise:
It's long but I asure you it's worth it.
iv. The Mass Effect trilogy has been in my mind a lot lately. I mean, more than usual. And in particular four words that I'm associating with it:
Melancholia enshrines all triumph.
The idea that EA will remaster the trilogy and not improve the endings is tormenting me. They have the chance, it's there, take it for fuck sakes.. It's hard to fathom how much good it will make for the franchise, yet the people in charge seems incapable of seeing this. And it's worth the invesment without any doubt.
Also tormeting me is the prospect of the remaster being a by-the-number enterprise. I want to see the Mass Effect franchise alive again, I want to feel hopeful for it and its future. And I'm convinced, I've been conviced for a long time, that a very good step in that direction is a great remaster of the trilogy. And knowing what EA is capable of, and just how rematers can be awful products, makes me very, very fearful.