Judging from OP's replies, I don't think this would solve anything.
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I believe my friend girlfriend/my friend read my private text to my friend
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But who is Josh? There were 3 friends before and now there are 4.
OP one of the biggest issues with your posts are the massive run-on sentences. Download grammerly or something.
At least OP has a chance of going above if they're out of the tar pit.
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"My friends girlfriend/my friend"
She is both my friend, but also I met through my friend Josh who I known first.
That's the point, OP seems like they are decently responsible for all this drama judging by their threads and replies.
I am going to give you an idea. Ask the moderators to lock this. This will never progress past comments on your wacky OP. Then, story board this. Use post-its or something. Put it all in proper order. Use short sentences to explain each story post-it. Then, consider posting this again in about a week if you think it really needs to be posted.
Unless you gave her the phone opened on the offending conversation, it's pretty fucked up that she went through your messages. That's a huge boundary violation and I would have a hard time trusting that person for a long time after.
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Excuse me? I DIDN'T EVEN START THIS. HOLY FUCK.
All I did was give my friend my phone, I didn't call her a twat. I hardly even said anything.
Josh and Kim are boyfriend and girlfriend, and Kim is also your friend. Ok figured that out. But Kim is mad at Jen for showing pictures of semi nude dude on Tinder or because she was called a "twat"? Why is she mad about the picture?
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Because you just said I start all the drama. Am I supposed to not defend myself? Gaslighting isn't cool dude.
Sounds like Kim was suspicious that shit was being talked behind her back after the initial confrontation, and seems like she was right considering Jen called her a twat. Should she have went to check your messages? Of course not.
In the end, all three of you did something wrong, so I guess you should all be mad at each other?
Idk but good luck, friends/friends girlfriends can be hard to deal with
I said you are decently responsible judging from your threads and posts, which are often overly dramatic and needlessly aggressive.
That isn't gaslighting, so drop that nonsense please.
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It is when the op isn't "aggressive", maybe a bit dramatic? Sure, the story is stupid absolutely.
But you don't need to say I start the drama and then get mad at me for defending myself.
That is gaslighting.
The math nerd in me made me solve this immediately.
N = 6, cookies = 24 right?
Your threads look like you get caught up in petty drama easily.
Your replies in this thread in ALL CAPS show you are quick to anger and switch to aggression easily.
It is not gaslighting to say it seems you are partly responsible here.
And please don't call me dude, my pronouns are right there.
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I work with dramatic people. Story of my life.
I was putting all caps because you basically just said i deserve all the wrongful accusations I got at work (if you really read the other thread you would see this)
I'm sorry. When i say dude I don't mean guy, I literally call anyone dude, men, women, non binary people, etc.
Porcupine posted the real answer earlier:
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You are infering I said things I didn't and taking things far too persoanally. If you cannot see how something like this could lead to issues with other people and help contribute to drama (I said you were partly responsible, not solely), then I don't know what else to say.
And please try to adjust that language. Plenty of non-binary folks do not like being called dude.
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I'm just going to close this thread. This is not worth going back and fourth over stupid drama.
Exactly what a lot of people have been trying to communicate to you.
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