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What’s acceptable frequency of drunk?

  • Never

  • With bad news

  • With good news/celebration

  • More than once a week

  • Once a week

  • Once a month

  • Once every couple months


Results are only viewable after voting.

RDreamer

Member
Oct 25, 2017
14,106
How often should you? Probably not very, if ever.

But that might just be because I have a bit of a hard delineation between buzzed/tipsy and drunk. Drunk is almost always a negative.

Personally I might get a buzz at some family gatherings like Christmas and Thanksgiving but not much else nowadays. The last time I got drunk was the 2016 election and that was not fun, so....
 

Black_Red

Member
Oct 27, 2017
2,929
Haha yea
Friends

*Takes sip alone in dark room*
I think, I have never drank more than one cup/glass alone.

When I'm with my coworkers, I usually drink 2-3 beers.
but I love drinking A LOT with my real friends, this wendesday I went to visit my best female ffreind and we drank a whole bottle of pisco (40° of alcohol) from 7 PM until 4 AM (I had to be at work at 8:30 AM).
I usually go out with my friends on fridayand drink around 8 craft beers (4 liters total) or we play card games to get wasted drinking pisco.

And those are some of the best moments of the week for me, but just because I'm with my friends, I never have an urge to drink.
 

Doran

Member
Jun 9, 2018
1,849
Tipsy is the sweet spot that i would hit quite often if i wasn't worried about my jeans not fitting anymore.
 
Oct 25, 2017
16,287
Cincinnati
It's different for everyone. When I was in college we probably all got drunk 2-3 times a week, now it's basically never cause I don't want to deal with the shit the next day.
 

Pwnz

Member
Oct 28, 2017
14,279
Places
Alcoholic that struggled to get sober but has been for 2 years.

I'd say once a week max, maybe 2x during college but emphasizing acceptable and not recommended.

The less the better. High alcohol consumption is up there with smoking and diabetes on impact to life expectancy.
 

overcast

Member
Oct 25, 2017
13,427
Just drunk? I think once a week is fine, especially if you're doing it with others. Do what feels right though, as long as it isn't affecting your life negatively or others. Really you shouldn't ever be getting sloppy more than once a year if possible. I've gotten very bad 3-4 times in my life including 2 weeks back. Not fun.

Lotta threads concerned with the drinking public lately lmao.
 

Kitsunebaby

Member
Oct 27, 2017
3,665
Annapolis, Maryland
I try to stop at tipsy. I probably drink more often than I should from a calories/cost standpoint. But I love spirits, and if a bar/restaurant has fancy craft cocktails with unique flavor combinations, I'm gonna wanna try them. And if I find an interesting recipe for a cocktail/punch I'm gonna wanna make it. And if I open a bottle of wine to add to a stew or sauce, I'm gonna wanna pair it with the food. Unless it's white wine. Fuck that.
 

AcidCat

Banned
Oct 27, 2017
1,410
Bellingham WA
Well OP the very fact that you're asking ERA this question means you are probably in trouble. There is no "should", just a variety of opinions that will never agree on one answer so you're out of luck there. The various answers to this question vary from person to person and what stage of their life that person is at. The line between 'drunk' and 'buzzed' is a fine one, as we try to define these things. I tend to think of drunk as times when I start losing memory, it's just not good because I'll be watching a show, and realize the next day I only have partial recollection. Or say something or start texting people then regret it the next day. But, I like to toe that line. That line where buzzed becomes drunk, that's the good stuff. You want to ride that line, but it takes focus and practice. Like any good sport.

Anyway OP if you're into the whole staying fit and weight loss thing you have to limit those IPAs, yeah. You do you.
 

Cats

Member
Oct 27, 2017
2,929
I would be the person that would vote 'never' before, I understand and sympathize with them. For me now, if talking about the level "drunk," it should be like once every other week, otherwise personally it starts to get a bit stale and lose its specialness to me. Also, never alone and only with close friends. I don't drink for taste though and it's a whole night event in my cases if that gives context to my thoughts.
 

Lashes.541

Member
Dec 18, 2017
1,757
Roseburg Oregon
That depends? I just went through a rough patch we're I was drunk every night for a couple of weeks. But that was after years of not drinking anything so one normal sized can of mikes harder lemonade gets me drunk lol. So me getting drunk every night was me drinking one beer with 8% alcohol.
 

McScroggz

The Fallen
Jan 11, 2018
5,973
33% of y'all are boring. NEVER get drunk? That's preposterous if you actually enjoy consuming alcohol at times with friends. At some point you are going to get drunk. Sometimes it's even ok if it's in a safe environment or there's reason to just let loose. Obviously if we could all find that perfect sweet spot of intoxication we would, but for some even that sweet spot is some level of being drunk.

Unless there's a wide variance in what "drunk" actually means I have a hard time believing that percentage is reflective of reality.
 

Cats

Member
Oct 27, 2017
2,929
33% of y'all are boring. NEVER get drunk? That's preposterous if you actually enjoy consuming alcohol at times with friends. At some point you are going to get drunk. Sometimes it's even ok if it's in a safe environment or there's reason to just let loose. Obviously if we could all find that perfect sweet spot of intoxication we would, but for some even that sweet spot is some level of being drunk.

Unless there's a wide variance in what "drunk" actually means I have a hard time believing that percentage is reflective of reality.
I personally found something special and fun in it for me after my whole life being teetotaler, but I can imagine people not wanting to bother. It's got its ups and downs and some people are just awful drunk.
 

McScroggz

The Fallen
Jan 11, 2018
5,973
I personally found something special and fun in it for me after my whole life being teetotaler, but I can imagine people not wanting to bother. It's got its ups and downs and some people are just awful drunk.

I get that. I'm somebody who prefers to not get drunk, but that sweet spot is odd for me. I can drink a decent amount before I get that good buzz but it doesn't take much more before I go too far - so I generally try to avoid getting drunk.

My thing is the idea of somebody who drinks saying it is NEVER acceptable or worth it to get drunk is weird to me 🤷‍♂️
 

Masoyama

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Banned
Oct 27, 2017
5,648
Get high every day, drunk every week and get some psychedelics couple timed a month. Drugs are the best
 

zswordsman

Member
Nov 5, 2017
1,771
Ever since I joined the military, I've seen people abuse the fuck out of alcohol. That being said I'm not against it, everyone has their reasons whether it's them just enjoying a buzz to take off the stress to more darker reasons to cope.

I personally only get really drunk like 1-2 times a year if at that since joining. So much so that my peers are surprised that I accept a drink when I actually do decide to let loose.
 

ninnanuam

Member
Nov 24, 2017
1,956
I love drinking, I love making cocktails, I like a good whiskey or Rum. I love great bar tending and interesting bars.

However to do it right takes time, money and energy so I maybe do it two or three times a month.

Also I've never had an issue just stopping from time to time, right now I'm not drinking because November and December was too hedonistic and I need to focus on losing some weight. I havent had a drink since just before NYE and it ain't a problem. I probably won't drink anything until I go on holidays in march.
 

Azzazel

Member
Oct 25, 2017
382
Do you ever feel like we worsen the situation by thinking so badly about it?

idk. I feel like I'll forc myself into a sobriety plan and then when I fail I fail hard.
what if I just don't try to completely quit, but just drink less
Idk

In my case, i thing the only thing stopping me from becoming a full blown alcoholic is the fact that i couldn't stand not drinking it ever again if i become sober.

Have you heard the stories that recovered alcoholics tell? About being 5 year alcohol free. Sorry but fuck that. I rather have my binge drinking restricted to two times per month.
 
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Blue Skies

Blue Skies

Banned
Mar 27, 2019
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In my case, i thing the only thing stopping me from becoming a full blown alcoholic is the fact that i couldn't stand not drinking it ever again if i become sober.

Have you heard the stories that recovered alcoholics tell? About being 5 year alcohol free. Sorry but fuck that. I rather have my binge drinking restricted to two times per month.
im sorry I'm Not understanding your repkt
It sounds real interesting tho
 

thermopyle

Member
Nov 8, 2017
2,986
Los Angeles, CA
As long as you're being responsible and not being a dickhead to anyone around you, whenever you want? Me personally, I drink pretty often but never to the point of getting wasted or blacking out. I'm (mostly) past that party stage of my life and I've never developed a reliance on alcohol that my body has ever made me feel like I crave it. Having a beer or glass of bourbon every now is pretty nice. Especially if I cooked some delicious dinner to go along with it.
 

Hoo-doo

Attempted to circumvent ban with alt account
Banned
Oct 25, 2017
4,292
The Netherlands
33% of y'all are boring. NEVER get drunk? That's preposterous if you actually enjoy consuming alcohol at times with friends. At some point you are going to get drunk. Sometimes it's even ok if it's in a safe environment or there's reason to just let loose. Obviously if we could all find that perfect sweet spot of intoxication we would, but for some even that sweet spot is some level of being drunk.

Unless there's a wide variance in what "drunk" actually means I have a hard time believing that percentage is reflective of reality.

I think it's fascinating to see how people call non-drinkers 'boring'. The people I know that get drunk often (as in, more than twice a week) often use their drinking as a crutch for an unfulfilled everyday existence. They drink because their life is fucking boring otherwise.

Myself I find being in a buzzed state quite okay but alcohol wrecks your body if you drink it a lot. People should be getting high more often than drunk, I say.
 

sirap

Member
Oct 25, 2017
8,210
South East Asia
Ideally never, but folks are gonna get drunk anyway and I hope they do it in a safe environment and stay the fuck away from driving any cars.
 

McScroggz

The Fallen
Jan 11, 2018
5,973
I think it's fascinating to see how people call non-drinkers 'boring'. The people I know that get drunk often (as in, more than twice a week) often use their drinking as a crutch for an unfulfilled everyday existence. They drink because their life is fucking boring otherwise.

Myself I find being in a buzzed state quite okay but alcohol wrecks your body if you drink it a lot. People should be getting high more often than drunk, I say.

Maybe it's a matter of perception. Maybe it's semantics. I don't know. I said those who voted for never are boring with the presumption of a viewpoint of them believing you can drink but you should never get drunk, which is presumptuous and likely not accurate on my part.

Granted, the idea that you should never get drunk, outside of religious beliefs (which I respect but don't agree with), because of any health reasons doesn't exactly hold water. That's when I get into the "it's ok to live a little" territory because it's less about trying to get unbelievably wasted and more about drinking and having fun without limiting yourself so much that getting drunk is impossible, because at that point it's likely you won't even be able to reach that vague sweet spot of intoxication and are more in the feeling a little buzz territory.

So as flawed as my initial statement is, the idea behind it is something I still stand behind. If you are somebody who likes to have some drinks, especially with friends, then getting drunk occasionally whether on purpose or because you weren't strictly limiting yourself to avoid any possibility of getting drunk seems perfectly fine to me. Never is a pretty hard line to draw though, and that's what's weird.

The funny thing is I'm not even a huge drinker and I don't do anything else. Every now and then we need to let loose though.

EDIT: And we really don't need to get into a discussion about alcoholism. That's separate to this. I could use any form of escapism from a boring life equivalent to drinking, but that's not going to drive the discussion forward.
 

Psychonaut

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Jan 11, 2018
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I think once a week is acceptable for an adult, and that's usually where I hover. If I'm particularly busy with work, it'll slip to once a month.

I college it was... like four times a week? So as long as I'm not there/getting drunk on weekdays, I think I'm doing fine. I'd say the same of anyone else.
 

Wetwork

Banned
Oct 27, 2017
2,607
Colorado
I only drink socially. Drinking on my own is a dangerous game, and I don't want to tread that path- regardless of where it would take me.
 

Henry Jones Jr

Avenger
Oct 27, 2017
1,731
Alcoholic that struggled to get sober but has been for 2 years.

I'd say once a week max, maybe 2x during college but emphasizing acceptable and not recommended.

The less the better. High alcohol consumption is up there with smoking and diabetes on impact to life expectancy.


This sounds about right to me.
 

AcidCat

Banned
Oct 27, 2017
1,410
Bellingham WA
33% of y'all are boring. NEVER get drunk? That's preposterous if you actually enjoy consuming alcohol at times with friends. At some point you are going to get drunk. Sometimes it's even ok if it's in a safe environment or there's reason to just let loose. Obviously if we could all find that perfect sweet spot of intoxication we would, but for some even that sweet spot is some level of being drunk.

Unless there's a wide variance in what "drunk" actually means I have a hard time believing that percentage is reflective of reality.

Hmm, I'd find myself in your camp. But, judging by the other recent alcohol thread, there's a good amount of teetotalers here. And hey, there's no one right way to live, you do what feels right, but these people are not my people. Honestly I don't think I could be friends with a person who never drinks, there's just a fundamental disconnect there.
 

Vommy

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Member
Oct 27, 2017
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Depends on the situation. When you have fun with your friends and don't drive, go ahead.
 

sappyday

The Fallen
Oct 27, 2017
2,798
I drink basically everyday. The drinking doesn't bother me it's more that I need to work out more and stop eating like crazy.
 

reKon

Member
Oct 25, 2017
13,739
Never is the ideal answer. Not why people are getting scolded for this selection...

With that said, it's not necessary terrible if you do happen to get drunk occasionally and it can enhance the fun of certain social interactions. As I've become older, I've drank less and less (and thus saved more money, especially on weekends where I might go out).

From a health perspective there's it's very ideal to avoid being drunk for the negative impacts on the body. And yes, this shit will add up, especially from binge drinking.

Edit: read a few more posts and noticed people are freaking out without actually carefully looking at the poll...

It's not asking how often do YOU get drunk. It's asking how often should one get drunk.
 

Ferrs

Avenger
Oct 26, 2017
18,829
Should? I dunno, everyone should drink whatever they want as long as you drink and don't take the car and do stupid shit. I get some beers and drinks every weekend, not to the point of getting full out drunk though, I just like alcohol. I tend to not drink at all during weekdays.
 

cowbanana

Member
Feb 2, 2018
13,718
a Socialist Utopia
I rarely drink a lot, or often, these days. Some weekends I drink a beer or two or a similar amount of red wine, some weekends I don't drink at all. But back when I was in my 20s we got drunk every single friday and saturday for years and years, which was perfectly socially acceptable and outright the norm around here. But if you continue at that rate after your wild, young years it's definitely not something that will be looked on as acceptable.

Surprised to see 33% say "never" as the acceptable frequency.
 

astro

Member
Oct 25, 2017
56,969
Merry drunk is fine every now and then.
Wasted is okay on very special occasions (more so when you're younger).
Blackout is never good.
 

finfinfin

The Fallen
Jul 26, 2018
1,371
Sometimes you need some vodka before you can handle the shower before bed. Couple of days a month.

I don't drink socially often, and when I do it's only a pint or two at most.
 
Oct 27, 2017
4,432
I was wasted every day for about 12 years, primarily only beer. Drank after work until I fell asleep/passed out.

Been sober 45 months, i voted never.
 

SpottieO

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Oct 25, 2017
11,615
I drank a pretty decent amount through my mid-twenties. The older I've gotten the less I drink. These days I only get drunk like every other month or when there is a special occasion like friends coming in to town or a wedding.