I'm curious about the general consensus on ERA for what equates to too many sexual partners when meeting a new partner for the first time - married folks, assume you're single for the sake of this question.
Assuming past is past and this person has zero connections to these former liaisons anymore and they are totally free of any illnesses, how many partners would you be fine with until you said "Hold up, you've had sex with too many people for me to be comfortable with."
The CDC lists around 4 for women in their lifetimes and 6 for men.
Turkish men have around 14 on average
Personally, I couldn't care less (and voted so) but I wondered if anyone else thought differently and why?
For the purposes of the poll, I've tried to select the most likely options - by 'any age range' I mean since sexual adolescence so in this case, we are going to say 18 onwards - so in the first example, if I'm 28 years old then it'd be "10 years of availability and over 10 partners" and so on.
Assuming past is past and this person has zero connections to these former liaisons anymore and they are totally free of any illnesses, how many partners would you be fine with until you said "Hold up, you've had sex with too many people for me to be comfortable with."
The CDC lists around 4 for women in their lifetimes and 6 for men.
Turkish men have around 14 on average
Personally, I couldn't care less (and voted so) but I wondered if anyone else thought differently and why?
For the purposes of the poll, I've tried to select the most likely options - by 'any age range' I mean since sexual adolescence so in this case, we are going to say 18 onwards - so in the first example, if I'm 28 years old then it'd be "10 years of availability and over 10 partners" and so on.