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Dustlander

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When it comes to queer cinema, there are some movies that have become more popular to the general public, either because of Oscar/Award buzz (Moonlight, Brokeback Mountain, Call Me By Your Name, Carol, The Danish Girl etc), or a few classic comedies like Robin William's The Birdcage or Kevin Kline's In & Out.

However, every year there are tons of indie/smaller films that deal with those themes and are just as great - sometimes, even more so since they can be more prone to feature writers, directors, actors etc that are also LGBTQ+. And all of this is even more true if you're interested in foreign cinema. I feel like we constantly try to seek validation from multimillion dollar companies like Disney (such as a gay hero on the MCU), and while that is extremely important since those franchises are much more mainstream, it's also vital that we celebrate and support what's already been done instead of constantly hoping for representation in the next month, year, decade or whatever (and sometimes to be gifted with a two second kiss scene on the background, thanks Star Wars).

I don't think this thread will be super popular since LGBTQ+ members on Era are obviously a minority, but our straight friends are also free to post any example they know and like!

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Pride (United Kingdom, 2014)

A lot of queer movies are dramas and try to tackle some very heavy themes - homophobia (internalized or external), violence/death, AIDS, sexual assault, conversion therapy etc. It's important to portray this stuff, but it does get tiring after some time when the majority of movies you watch end up this way, so Pride was a huge breath of fresh air. It's such a feel good film, telling the unusual story of the union and collaboration between LGBT activists and miners from a small British town fighting for their rights during Thatcher's awful government in the 80s.

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God's Own Country (United Kingdom, 2017)

Also from the UK, but more of a straight-forward drama this time. It's kind of a modern, British take on Brokeback Mountain, with a bit of discussion on immigration as well after Brexit.


And unlike Brokeback, this one's ending is much happier. No "Bury Your Gays" bullshit in here!

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Dating Amber (Ireland, 2020)

Going out of the UK but still pretty close, this cute little Irish film from last year is probably the main reason I made this thread. I watched it very recently - it's available on Amazon Prime depending on your country - and it quickly became one of my favorite coming-of-age stories, queer or not. It features two teenager friends, a gay boy and a lesbian girl, that pretend they're a straight couple to protect themselves from bullying and rumors about their sexual orientation. I'm a sucker for stories of solidarity between different subgroups of the community so yeah. :P

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A Fantastic Woman (Chile, 2017)

While this one is a Best Foreign Film Oscar winner, the fact that it is from Chile probably means not a lot of people are aware of it compared to the other examples I gave. The majority of Hollywood productions that feature trans characters (The Danish Girl, Dallas Buyers Club etc) end up using cis actors to portray them, which is awful and shouldn't be a thing from now on. Hopefully Elliot Page can be one of the forces of change on that front! Either way, the protagonist of this film is a trans woman portrayed by trans actress Daniela Vega. While it's more on the dramatic side as well (with plenty of transphobia so be warned), it's an amazing watch, and Daniela is a great actress.

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Shubh Mangal Zyada Saavdhan (India, 2020)

To end on another brighter note, one of the first Bollywood comedies to feature a gay couple as the main characters! While there have been a few LGBTQ+ Indian dramas before, to see a film that is very in line with your typical Bollywood spectacle, full of awesome music, dancing and larger-than-life performances was a welcome surprise. If you don't like this type of film, this is not the one that is going to change your opinion, but if you're into it it's more than worth it. Plus, Ayushmann Khurrana is one of the most charismatic actors I've seen, he has so many great scenes lol

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I think five examples is more than enough for the first post, but I'll probably hijack my own thread to keep posting more if necessary. I didn't plan to have two British and one Irish examples (I'm not even British haha), it just happened that two of my faves and a recent watch that I liked are all from there.

Anyway, let's discuss and post more.
 
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Just off the top of my head, Taekwondo and Hawaii are two stand out movies to me. Oh, and A Moment In The Reeds.



 
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Lari

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Here's a few that come to mind that i've enjoyed to varying degrees.

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Happiest Season
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Bound
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Professor Marston and the Wonder Women
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And the should've been a queer movie award to:
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My favorites of the past year have been Monsoon and No Hard Feelings.

Absolutely love both, because while the main character's sexuality is highlighted, it is merely a piece of the narrative, allowing gay characters to depict range beyond sexualized trauma.

But I recognize it would be better to have a self-identifying gay man play Henry Golding's character. That's a whole conversation that needs to happen in Hollywood.

Monsoon (2020)
Trailer: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ETK0fOKwJNQ&ab_channel=MadmanFilms

No Hard Feelings (2020)
Trailer: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aGscwJZ5rFA&ab_channel=MIFF (NSFW)


Edit: Just realized that both my favorites from the past year lean heavy on themes of immigration and displacement, heh. I just really love genuine stories from people of color.
 
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julia crawford

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I wouldn't say that it is a LGBTQ+ movie, but it does have it. It's also not very happy in general i guess. Very well done though.

Heartstone.



Also not really unknown but i feel like people have forgotten about it.

Carol.



Also a real gem based on a real story.

Don't Call Me Son

 

Violence Jack

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Philadelphia
Cruising (not sure if I should list this or not, but I guess it technically qualifies)
Dog Day Afternoon
Boys Don't Cry
 
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Dustlander

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This!!!


And it's not really an unknown film, but Portrait of a Lady on Fire is the most beautiful thing.

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I wanted to put Portrait on the OP but I was 100% sure someone was going to post it haha (and as you said, it is not really that unknown if you're a movie buff, but some of the examples I gave aren't either). This is easily one of the most beautiful films I've ever seen.
 

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Probably a lot of people watched The Half of It, directed by Alice Wu (It's on Netflix)

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But you guys need do watch her other film, Saving Face.

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I watched Pariah in 2013 or 2014 and bawled my eyes out because it was too real and too raw for me. Good times.



Also went to an event at a local art gallery that hosted a showing of Rafiki, and while I didn't make me feel the way Pariah did, it was still a good movie.

 

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Wild Reeds (dir. André Téchiné, 1994): A coming of age story about four teenager coming to grips with their sexuality in the late 60's France during the Algerian War. An obvious influence on Guadagnino's Call Me By Your Name.


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Laurence Anyways (dir. Xavier Dolan, 2012): An epic melodrama depicting ten years in the life's of a transgender novelist and her lover. Xavier Dolan's most ambitious and best film to date.
 
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Your Name Engraved Herein is available on Netflix. Taiwan is a country you don't expect to have so many great LGBTQ+ films, even going back to Ang Lee's The Wedding Banquet from the 90s.

One scene of this movie absolutely destroyed me

The main character gives a speech to a priest, and he says something like "If Hell does exist and all gay people end up going there when they die, at least when I do I can meet other people that I can relate to and understand what I'm feeling". As someone that grew up on a religious family and terrified of the idea of going to Hell, it was powerful, I cried for some minutes straight.
 

Budi

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This is probably one of the more better known modern Swedish films, but Fucking Åmål deserves a mention. excelsiorlef will vouch for it too! The film also goes by english title Show Me Love. Sorry I couldn't find a trailer with english subtitles, only one with "Hollywood trailer narration" that just ruins it (it's really like a parody).



Edit: One more that came to mind a Moment in the Reeds, which has often been compared to God's Own Country that was mentioned in the OP too.
 
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God's Own Country (United Kingom, 2017)

Also from the UK, but more of a straight-forward drama this time. It's kind of a modern, British take on Brokeback Mountain, with a bit of discussion on immigration as well after Brexit.


And unlike Brokeback, this one's ending is much happier. No "Bury Your Gays" bullshit in here!
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Dating Amber (Ireland, 2020)

Going out of the UK but still pretty close, this cute little Irish film from last year is probably the main reason I made this thread. I watched it very recently - it's available on Amazon Prime depending on your country - and it quickly became one of my favorite coming-of-age stories, queer or not. It features two teenager friends, a gay boy and a lesbian girl, that pretend they're a straight couple to protect themselves from bullying and rumors about their sexual orientation. I'm a sucker for stories of solidarity between different subgroups of the community so yeah. :P
I thought of both of these after seeing the thread title. They're both brilliant films.

If I could highlight a short series instead of a film, I Told Sunset About You is an absolutely gorgeous coming-of-age Thai drama. It's a beautiful series, with fantastic story, characters, cinematography, and music. This was by far my favourite piece of media from 2020.

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Knife + Heart is an essential queer horror film, especially if you have a fondness for giallo and/or Dario Argento. Really amazing, beautiful, thoughtful stuff.
 

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This is probably one of the more better known modern Swedish films, but Fucking Åmål deserves a mention. excelsiorlef will vouch for it too! The film also goes by english title Show Me Love. Sorry I couldn't find a trailer with english subtitles, only one with "Hollywood trailer narration" that just ruins it (it's really like a parody).


Came to post this. I loved this movie back when.
 

UltimateHigh

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Based on a real artist and story, Tom of Finland. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tom_of_Finland



This is probably one of the more better known modern Swedish films, but Fucking Åmål deserves a mention. excelsiorlef will vouch for it too! The film also goes by english title Show Me Love. Sorry I couldn't find a trailer with english subtitles, only one with "Hollywood trailer narration" that just ruins it (it's really like a parody).



Edit: One more that came to mind, a Moment in the Reeds.


Fucking Amal was fantastic. I should rewatch it again.
 

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I really liked Fucking Amal:
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Show Me Love (1998) - IMDb

Show Me Love: Directed by Lukas Moodysson. With Alexandra Dahlström, Rebecka Liljeberg, Erica Carlson, Mathias Rust. Two teenage girls in small-town Sweden. Elin is beautiful, popular, and bored with life. Agnes is friendless, sad, and secretly in love with Elin.

Lost and Delirious:

Fire (This is from an arthouse Indian director. Beyond Bollywood Indian cinema can be pretty great):
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Fire (1996) ⭐ 7.2 | Crime, Drama, Romance

1h 44m | Unrated

My Beautiful Laundrette:

My Own Private Idaho:
 

StreetsAhead

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Both of these are currently on Netflix. "Edge of Seventeen" is surprisingly the most authentic coming-out film I've seen, yet I'd never heard of it until stumbling upon it on Netlifx.

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Kyuuji

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Glad to see the best film, LGBTQ+ or otherwise, already posted.

Will post a section of the review I wrote for it here awhile back:
Having only gone in with knowledge of the praise and a faint memory of a trailer seen months prior Portrait of a Lady on Fire has been like a letter opener to me. Sliding itself gently under my skin before cutting me.

I'm still not ready to try and commit to page everything this film makes me feel. It almost feels too personal. Whenever I grasp at words to convey exactly why this is so great they always fall short relative to that which I'm trying to describe. A failing of my vocabulary perhaps, or one of the English language. Certainly then art, because putting to word what stirs inside when watching Portrait of a Lady on Fire feels ineffective.

This is without doubt one of the most beautiful examples of storytelling I've seen pursued through the medium. It takes the 'b' from 'subtle' and wields it like a rapier. A thousand cuts through a thousand kisses. Inseparable and bound.

I can only urge those who haven't yet seen it to do so.
 
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Maybe some of these are too well known to count, but:




Is Blue is the warmest colour less known?

I said "less known" to avoid having multiple posts mentioning Brokeback, Moonlight etc lol, but I just wanted to have a thread of queer film recommendations, so everything is valid. Plus, I don't think most from that list are that known outside of Pain & Glory, I never watched them so I'm curious, thanks!

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From Brazil, The Way He Looks (2014). Coming-of-age story of a visually impaired gay teen that falls in love with his best friend. The original title, Hoje Eu Quero Voltar Sozinho, means something like "Today I Want To Go Back By Myself"
 

hiredhand

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Based on a real artist and story, Tom of Finland. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tom_of_Finland



This is probably one of the more better known modern Swedish films, but Fucking Åmål deserves a mention. excelsiorlef will vouch for it too! The film also goes by english title Show Me Love. Sorry I couldn't find a trailer with english subtitles, only one with "Hollywood trailer narration" that just ruins it (it's really like a parody).

Fucking Åmål is really great (as is Moodysson's Vi är bäst!) but I really didn't care for Tom of Finland. It's offensive in its inoffensiveness. It's about a guy who made a name for himself drawing what is essential gay porn but the tone of the film is that of a standard PG-13-rated Theory of Everything style Oscar-bait biopic. The film never lets loose and feels constantly ashamed of its subject matter.
 

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I said "less known" to avoid having multiple posts mentioning Brokeback, Moonlight etc lol, but I just wanted to have a thread of queer film recommendations, so everything is valid.

No worries. I just didn't know seeing as I didn't know about it til my girlfriend put it on and I wouldn't say either of us are experts in the genre. According to wiki, it drew some complaint regarding the sex scenes but it also won a palme d'or so I dunno.
 

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Madagascar Skin (1995) - More of a mood piece that's about a simple courtship, definitely don't go in expecting much of a plot or a lot of dialogue. It reminded me a bit of Monsoon where you just kind of settle along for the journey. The two actors have great chemistry also.

This is the story of Harry and Flint, an unlikely couple. Harry is a shy young gay man who can't seem to fit into his local bar scene. Flint is a crusty, older, and seemingly straight man with a questionable background. They meet on a gorgeous coastline, and evolve from distrust to deep love.

 

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Not sure if it counts as a lesser known one since Daniel Day-Lewis is in it, but don't often see people talking about it.
 

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Fucking Åmål is really great (as is Moodysson's Vi är bäst!) but I really didn't care for Tom of Finland. It's offensive in its inoffensiveness. It's about a guy who made a name for himself drawing what is essential gay porn but the tone of the film is that of a standard PG-13-rated Theory of Everything style Oscar-bait biopic. The film never lets loose and feels constantly ashamed of its subject matter.
Yeah Tom of Finland was definitely made with "wider audience" in mind, so to speak (read as straight audience). Which is why it easily comes off as safe. The person the film is about was much braver than the film. Though I still also appreciate that there even was a mainstream movie about him as he was a person worthy of highlighting and learning about. Not sure if there are any documentaries in english to better bring forth the essence of his work and it's impact.
 
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No worries. I just didn't know seeing as I didn't know about it til my girlfriend put it on and I wouldn't say either of us are experts in the genre. According to wiki, it drew some complaint regarding the sex scenes but it also won a palme d'or so I dunno.

I'm very conflicted about Blue Is the Warmest Colour. On one hand, it completely moves me each time I see it. What a deep and beautiful movie... On the other hand, what we learned about the production environment from the actresses and people working on set is absolutely disgusting.

For those that don't know what I'm talking about, Abdellatif Kechiche, the director, reportedly created an on set environment so hostile and degrading that it made Léa Seydoux (one of the lead actresses) describe the shooting condition as "horrible", leaving her feeling "like a prostitute". The longest of the sex scenes in the movie was shot over 10(!) days, the director asking the actresses to redo the whole thing again and again and again...

It's heavily implied that this movie was in truth made primarily so Abdellatif Kechiche could shoot his own personal porno and ogle at the two nude actresses. The presence of the male gaze was so strong that watching the final product for the first time made the author of the original story remark: "It appears to me this was what was missing on the set: lesbians."

Kechiche also acted similarly while making his following movie. It's reported that he heavily pressured the actors to have unsimulated sex for a 15-minute(!) on-screen sex scene, something the actors refused to do. Reportedly, he made them consume a lot of alcohol so he could in the end manage to get what he wanted.

So as amazing as Blue Is the Warmest Colour is, the fact that this movie is so good seems to be an accident. It was really just a way to satisfy the sick perversions of the director...