^*checks watch* oh would you look at that its asexual awareness o'clock already
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^*checks watch* oh would you look at that its asexual awareness o'clock already
Hello wife, I would like to have sex more often.
It's an important part of relationships and it's important to me.
"No."
Alright! Great talking with you.
Like, I am not owed anything but moving in together floored our sexual relationship and only divorce and a new relationship is going to change that. I don't think opening the relationship would work and cheating is for scumbags.
It very much is a burden I deal with given I could go twice a day and I am lucky if my wife wants it once a month but it's not something changeable by a fucking talk, bud.
Lmao. The shit is wild isn't it?Hello wife, I would like to have sex more often.
It's an important part of relationships and it's important to me.
"No."
Alright! Great talking with you.
Like, I am not owed anything but moving in together floored our sexual relationship and only divorce and a new relationship is going to change that. I don't think opening the relationship would work and cheating is for scumbags.
It very much is a burden I deal with given I could go twice a day and I am lucky if my wife wants it once a month but it's not something changeable by a fucking talk, bud.
Advice much appreciated but it's been tried. Her libido is trash. No amount of conversations or chores are going to fix that.Lmao. The shit is wild isn't it?
My only tip, if applicable, is to clean around the house more and do more chores. Less stress for her, more sex for you possibly. Be consistent!
I know I am a selfish person.If OP is actually trying to get usable data, you just messed it up out of selfishness.
This sounds like the weirdest "nice guy" bull shit I've seen in a long time. "Maybe if I do more chores she'll put out"Fellas, all that shit you learn about getting laid... unlearn it when your relationship hits double digits or whenever you get married/move in. Clean clean clean the house up and you'll get more action. Janitors probably would have the best sex lives in the world if their occupation weren't looked down upon. Now I wish I had money to do a study.
Lmao. The shit is wild isn't it?
My only tip, if applicable, is to clean around the house more and do more chores. Less stress for her, more sex for you possibly. Be consistent!
Snort-laughing at work, nicely done.
That's not how relationships work.Fellas, all that shit you learn about getting laid... unlearn it when your relationship hits double digits or whenever you get married/move in. Clean clean clean the house up and you'll get more action. Janitors probably would have the best sex lives in the world if their occupation weren't looked down upon. Now I wish I had money to do a study.
We're past maybe homey, I got the kids to show for it. There are better articulated articles and studies backing what I wrote. Both H/W hold jobs yet the latter is still expected to do all the household chores in addition to working. This adds more stress and possible resentment, which leads to less sex. There's also that "Women had better sex under Socialism" article floating about. They are more stressed out here than they should be compared to other developed nations.This sounds like the weirdest "nice guy" bull shit I've seen in a long time. "Maybe if I do more chores she'll put out"
Seriously what year are you posting from?We're past maybe homey, I got the kids to show for it. There are better articulated articles and studies backing what I wrote. Both H/W hold jobs yet the latter is still expected to do all the household chores in addition to working. This adds more stress and possible resentment, which leads to less sex. There's also that "Women had better sex under Socialism" article floating about. They are more stressed out here than they should be compared to other developed nations.
But like you DO understand the difference between your specific relationship and applying that to other relationships, right?We're past maybe homey, I got the kids to show for it. There are better articulated articles and studies backing what I wrote. Both H/W hold jobs yet the latter is still expected to do all the household chores in addition to working. This adds more stress and possible resentment, which leads to less sex. There's also that "Women had better sex under Socialism" article floating about. They are more stressed out here than they should be compared to other developed nations.
Hello wife, I would like to have sex more often.
It's an important part of relationships and it's important to me.
"No."
Alright! Great talking with you.
Like, I am not owed anything but moving in together floored our sexual relationship and only divorce and a new relationship is going to change that. I don't think opening the relationship would work and cheating is for scumbags.
It very much is a burden I deal with given I could go twice a day and I am lucky if my wife wants it once a month but it's not something changeable by a fucking talk, bud.
Hello wife, I would like to have sex more often.
It's an important part of relationships and it's important to me.
"No."
Alright! Great talking with you.
Like, I am not owed anything but moving in together floored our sexual relationship and only divorce and a new relationship is going to change that. I don't think opening the relationship would work and cheating is for scumbags.
It very much is a burden I deal with given I could go twice a day and I am lucky if my wife wants it once a month but it's not something changeable by a fucking talk, bud.
Date nights.
Posted for jokes. It's a condensed version of what another poster posted about things being better for 2 weeks and then sliding back to crap.This seems a bit concerning. I personally don't have much sex because of circumstances and I know my wife is tired (breastfeeding baby) but if I went to her to talk and said it's important to me I know full well it wouldn't end with "no" because she values me, my emotions, and our connection.
The reverse would happen too if she came to me and said the sex was affecting her well being either because too little or too much. I value her well being and she values mine.
I used to hear this a lot, but I call bullshit on it. I'm sure it works for some people, but cleaning the house doesn't do much for a wife with low libido. It isn't sexy. It helps with an exhausted wife... Maybe?Fellas, all that shit you learn about getting laid... unlearn it when your relationship hits double digits or whenever you get married/move in. Clean clean clean the house up and you'll get more action. Janitors probably would have the best sex lives in the world if their occupation weren't looked down upon. Now I wish I had money to do a study.
But like you DO understand the difference between your specific relationship and applying that to other relationships, right?
Me and my fiancé been together ten years, going on 11.
We do fore play occasionally throughout the year but actual intercourse is probably 1-2 times a year if that.
And we're both completely fine with that amount.
This is me lolKids schedules kinda run everything. Now that they're in school it'll happen more because she'll come home early. Or they're out at an activity.
Summer it died down because the kids were just around all.the.time. And they're tweens, so, they're aware of their surroundings and that mom and dad aren't just exercising.
Always goes like this with these kinds of threads. The ones who got something to brag about, brag. The rest open the thread, see the first ten replies, slink away.Do people really have sex this often with their SOs
I knew we were below average but... This is throwing me a bit. Lol. I've been told by most folks IRL that it's pretty normal to drop off hard 4-5+ years into a relationship, but some of y'all say you're still daily or many times a week after 10+ years? That's amaZing. And I almost don't believe you.
Like, we don't even have kids and life (as wonderful and full as it is) is just draining. I'm tired a lot. Healthy. But tired.
Our rhythm really got messed up a few years back when a confluence of shit happened and I don't think we've really recovered. Physical and mental illness, issues with physical comfort during, and wildly different sex drives. It really is something we should be more open about and address, and we have, but like, even more. Lol
Before children: 3/4 times a week.
After two children: few times a year.
I swear children are the biggest cockblocks in the world.