Not meaningfully, I'm somewhat left of my parents but we all want the Trump admin and the GOP out. If Biden ends up with some kind of blowout then the game changes, but we'll cross that bridge when we get there.
Out of curiosity, how are you planning to do this?
I think the difference between politics and religion is that politics actually means something. If someone votes for Trump they're probably a xenophobe and that family member can get fucked.It just saddens me to no end that politics can have such an defining influence over a family relationship. Politics is just something we keep to ourselves in our family, same as religious topics. I know that my mom believes in some sort of God, she knows I'm a bleak nihilist. That's all that needs to be known. We still love each other.
Eh, I get it. My dad's religious and I'm not, we don't care but we'll fight over politics because he legit wants to make it to where we never have good health care, that we legalize discrimination against minority groups, that we turn into the wild west with people shooting each other over what in his time, and my youth, would have been fist fights, wants us running out of water and watching the seas rise just so we can make a buck now and he votes to make that happen. Clearly there's a difference.It just saddens me to no end that politics can have such an defining influence over a family relationship. Politics is just something we keep to ourselves in our family, same as religious topics. I know that my mom believes in some sort of God, she knows I'm a bleak nihilist. That's all that needs to be known. We still love each other.
It just saddens me to no end that politics can have such an defining influence over a family relationship. Politics is just something we keep to ourselves in our family, same as religious topics. I know that my mom believes in some sort of God, she knows I'm a bleak nihilist. That's all that needs to be known. We still love each other.
Yeaaaa this is definitely racist as hell, I think you found your answer. Both your moms side of the family and Trump supporters think they are superior.My dad is Mexican and my mom is probably also, although that side of the family insists on "Spanish" roots
how in the fuck do they love Trump?
People got the balls to talk all progressive online and on here. But 50% can't even tell their parents to fuck off with the bigotry. That's how you know why shit is the way it is. Being complacent and not rocking the boat in their own lives is the preferable option.
Luckily, we (including my parents) have zero contact with that side of the family now. They are definitely self-hating racist fucks. It's pretty funny that they all have thick ass accents and speak in slang spanglish. But yeah, that's where my mom comes from, so it's a valid point. Given everything else outlined in my post, though, it's still perplexing.Yeaaaa this is definitely racist as hell, I think you found your answer. Both your moms side of the family and Trump supporters think they are superior.
My dad is Mexican and my mom is probably also, although that side of the family insists on "Spanish" roots. Hard eye roll.
I think the scariest thing is finding out you could be in your 30's, 40's, or even 50's, and your parents still respond with the equivalent of, "Ah, you kids, you don't know what you're talking about." The majority of the Boomers (and the remaining Silents) refuse to defer to the experience and education of the next generations, because they read a thing on Facebook.com or saw something scary on Fox News. They're going to clutch those reins and steer the horses toward the cliff until their dying breath.
If nothing else, it's a lesson to take as you get older, and start having trouble keeping up. Yes, experience teaches, but also listen to younger generations, and trust that there's a point when they have to take over, ready or not.
This sums it perfectly for me. Not worth losing the relationshipI just flat out refuse to talk politics with my parents when I visit after we had various rows surrounding it. We basically had a chat and agreed to never discuss anything political again.
Yes I know ignorance isn't the best policy
But I'd rather have a good relationship with my parents
Very coincidental that you made this post because I was considering making a similar one all day. I'd be interested to hear your "talk" with your mother goes. If anything, I hope it is at least cathartic. I've been in a bit of a funk recently because my parents decided to barrel headfirst into another round of Trump support and just cast their second vote for him. I had a sliver of hope that they would return to some level of awareness, sensibility, and the "sanity" of finally accepting Trump for all the bad things he is and has done. But, nope, they're drifting further into Fox News propaganda.
It sucks because I used to really enjoy hanging out with my parents in the pre-Trump years. We used to go on vacations together with them and my sister and have a blast. I could tell they started drifting to the hard right during the Obama years. Their houses (yes, plural) went underwater during the Great Recession and it seemed to rock their worldview to a degree. Very upper-middle class Boomer way of reacting to the first bit of adversity that crept into their life. They even dabbled in the Tea Party, but back then, supporting Republican or Libertarian causes seemed relatively benign compared to now.
I remember being so disappointed in them voting for Trump in 2016. It seemed clear to me that anyone who was moderately intelligent and hadn't bought into partisan Kool-Aid should be able to see right through Trump - that all the deficits of character he displayed in the past and on the campaign trail were exactly who he really was. But hey, everyone makes mistakes, and I could accept the idea that ignorance, naivety, or undue optimism about a Trump presidency would cause you to vote for him in 2016. But over the past four years, they seemed to lean solidly, though slowly, into all the Fox News talking points. They not only just voted for Trump, they continued to actively support him.
I've just lost so much respect for them, and I even look at them with a mild amount of disdain now. In the past, I always viewed them as smart, compassionate, level-headed individuals, but their continued support of Trump has really negatively colored my perception of them. So much so that I even question if they actually were always like they are now, and perhaps it was easier to "hide" and blend-in among the sea of moderates in a pre-Trump world. It makes me wish we could go back to pre-2016 where it seemed easy to ignore politics. Now, it's so intertwined in our lives, our current events, our world events, our pop culture, that it seems like you'd be walking on eggshells to not bring it up, or have to continuously bite your tongue if others brought it up. It wouldn't even necessarily bother me if my parents voted Republican (say down-ticket this election, or again in the future), but I think there is a significant difference between generally voting Republican and voting for Trump.