I finally managed to get one in early may, granted i mainly play on pc and i didn't put a huge effort into it after i realized how dire the situation was after launch, i live in Sweden and it was a total pain in the ass, huge well organized scalper groups have a discord where they absolutely hoover up any ps5's dropped anywhere, i finally managed to get one from a online camera store weirdly enough, i am a frequent costumer there and for some reason they decided to sell ps5's without any mark-up, so they straight up called me when they got it in stock.
A friend manged to buy one last week from one of the big box electronic retailers without any form of pre-order so it seems like things have improved a bit now.
The console manufacturers will have to come up with a new system for the next console gen, probably some kind of system where you buy them directly from sony/microsoft/nintendo via your console online service accounts because scalpers have fully and totally destroyed the way new consoles are sold.