Feeling the same way, it really feels people are misunderstanding and not getting how money is a big issue here for many people (and that's not even going into all the other issues VR has going against it like health issues, space etc), I'm seeing a lot on Twitter and it feels like "Just buy VR" as the new "Just buy a PC" and both seem to ignore how daunting and expensive that can be for people and in some cases, not practical (especially in the latter's case where they really mean "Build a PC").
Well...
This is from the perspective of someone with a steady income and few monthly costs, but...
Games are ultimately a luxury. For a long time games have been really cheap and available to all, but they don't have to be. It was mainly an issue of targeting the widest possible audience. But look back and there are plenty of cases of games pushing the limits, at a higher cost. Crysis really did require a $2000 PC initially. There are car sims that are pointless without a cockpit setup. Further back, you have arcade hardware being way ahead of anything else but theoretically buyable. Or the entire business case of the Neo Neo.
There isn't anything inherently wrong with a high-end gaming experience, any more than there's something inherently wrong with any luxury while people are starving. If you can't afford VR now, you probably will be able to eventually since all hardware decreases in price. I was a pretty poor kid in 1992, but I mean, I did get that Neo Geo eventually.