The plethora of dating apps has bolstered society's obsession with sex, but many people find that a period of abstinence makes them happier and healthier
In a world where you can get a sexual partner faster than a pizza delivery, it has never been easier to play the field. Yet, despite all that swiping right, a surprising number of people are not having sex at all – not for religious reasons, or because they can't get a date, but because they find that celibacy makes them happier.
Some have never had much interest in sex, while others are taking a break to address personal problems, recover from bad dating experiences or change the way they approach relationships.
Single people can feel like outsiders when they choose celibacy, but this feeling is often amplified for couples. "There's an enormous pressure in our society to be sexually active and have great sex all the time, but not everyone has positive experiences or gets a lot out of it," says Ammanda Major, the head of clinical practice at the relationship charity Relate. "There's lots of 'shoulds' and 'oughts' when it comes to sex and people are quick to judge."
There's anecdotes in the article. Do you think there's excessive pressure in society to have a sex life, ERA?