A remake so high in the gotys is a great indicator how incredible safe and boring this industry has become in the AAA sector.
Death Stranding should be the obvious choice hence it being divisive. Control seems fine as well. Both games offer something unique. I want more games like that and less remakes and sequels.
RE2 is much more of a re-imagining of the original than just a straight remake. I don't think it would get as much attention in the GotY awards if it were more faithful to the original. Just look at how SotC performed last year. It's a legendary game but didn't win a single GotY award. And that's really down to it being very much a straight remake.