It's weird how it seems to be getting worse. Anecdotal evidence and all that, but I have several gay and trans friends who actively mock/discriminate against anyone who identifies as Bi. I would say 10 or so years ago they were much more accepting of it and now it's all, "Oh? Bi? Watch how hard I can roll my eyes." I honestly don't understand it.
I could write you a novel. I've heard it all where I'm "pretending to be gay" "pretending to be straight" some who "can't be left in the room with anyone because I'm obviously attracted to everyone", I'm going to cheat on a partner because "they can't be enough for you" and that coming out is "selfish" and ultimately no matter what I do I'm constantly and consistently invalidated. I'm lucky enough to be in a relationship with someone whose willing to love me for who I am but shits tiring in a way I can't really quantify and just very very common even among friendsOne of my friends was recently venting to me that whenever he's dating a guy some people make backhand comments like just commit to being gay but then when he's dating a girl someone would privately ask him if he's really just straight but confused.
It sounds maddening honestly, it's like he can't win either way.
It's a complex topic but tldr I think in lgbtq circles bi is the hardest to be a known quantity and people don't want to empathize as much. Logic being "well if you like both you can just lock up half of you in the closet and still be happy"That's sad to hear. It's shocking how many people seem to judge and dismiss the Bi experience. I really don't understand it. There have been real improvements for the LGBTQ+ community in my lifetime, so behavior like this just feels depressingly regressive.
Perfectly put. I've been trying to figure out exactly what rotten his brain aside from being on Twitter 20 hours a day, and this is it.Basically every single debate of the past four years has been perfectly calibrated to short circuit all of Greenwald's ideological priors. His anti-imperialism has had him freaking out for years about how skepticism around Trump's Russian connections and fondness for Putin will lead to a new Cold War, and now his free-speech absolutism has him flirting with the gender critical crowd.
I could write you a novel. I've heard it all where I'm "pretending to be gay" "pretending to be straight" some who "can't be left in the room with anyone because I'm obviously attracted to everyone", I'm going to cheat on a partner because "they can't be enough for you" and that coming out is "selfish" and ultimately no matter what I do I'm constantly and consistently invalidated. I'm lucky enough to be in a relationship with someone whose willing to love me for who I am but shits tiring in a way I can't really quantify and just very very common even among friends
Yep. Same road Dave Rubin went down to become nothing more than a useful idiot for the right while being despised by them behind closed doors.Glenn going full TERF. Shocking. He's so desperate to pander to the right he'll say anything. But they'll never accept him no matter how hard he tries because he's gay. He's just another self-hating loser.
This has happened to me as well.One of my friends was recently venting to me that whenever he's dating a guy some people make backhand comments like just commit to being gay but then when he's dating a girl someone would privately ask him if he's really just straight but confused.
It sounds maddening honestly, it's like he can't win either way.
"Glenn Greenwald tweeting terf BS" probably should have been in everyone's 2021 bingo card. I can't believe I didn't see it coming.
I don't get what's so hard about committing. After all, I've only ever found one woman attractive ever in life. (/s in case it wasn't obvious)One of my friends was recently venting to me that whenever he's dating a guy some people make backhand comments like just commit to being gay but then when he's dating a girl someone would privately ask him if he's really just straight but confused.
It sounds maddening honestly, it's like he can't win either way.
He's pulling the "I'm just asking questions" card which is the issue. He doesn't have to be mad or even really have a genuine conclusion.I read through his comments in the Twitter thread, but I don't understand the reaction that he's "mad" at bi / trans people. Is there some toxic narrative he generally tries to push, which his Twitter thread ties into? (Note: I don't know much about this guy / his issues, so if my question is easily answerable via googling just let me know.)
I don't get what's so hard about committing. After all, I've only ever found one woman attractive ever in life. (/s in case it wasn't obvious)
Right! What about trans gays? They can't be "lesbians" by definition of their attraction, yes?
it's almost as if Glenn had the TERFy conclusion first and then scrambled and failed to fit the data into supporting his narrative.
Yeah, it's insane how little recognition there seems to be about what AIDS did to the community at that time.I wonder how those numbers would look for the older generations if it weren't for the deaths of so many at the height of the AIDS crisis.
He's unreadable. I've never read him much, so I don't know if he's always been like this. I also don't know what it is about Substack that makes them (not just Greenwald) think every piece has to be so GD long. You add that to the screed quality of Greenwald's adjective laden writing, and it's a completely disaster.
He's always been like this, there was never a heel turn. People just thought he was an ally because he caped for Snowden and took on corruption in Brazil.
Here I thought I was a regular bi for a whole 4-5 months and they went and transed my gd gender!!
Literally had a two-hour long browbeating from a coworker over this almost a decade ago now. I've been out as bi since high school (going on 13 years now), and this guy and his friend (both gay men) spent quite literally two hours explaining to me how I was really just closeted gay and needed to either "commit to it or just stick to women" as I was doing damage to the movement by having a girlfriend at the time...One of my friends was recently venting to me that whenever he's dating a guy some people make backhand comments like just commit to being gay but then when he's dating a girl someone would privately ask him if he's really just straight but confused.
It sounds maddening honestly, it's like he can't win either way.
As a bi boi...... We are always attacked it's so frequent i can't even
One of my friends was recently venting to me that whenever he's dating a guy some people make backhand comments like just commit to being gay but then when he's dating a girl someone would privately ask him if he's really just straight but confused.
It sounds maddening honestly, it's like he can't win either way.
Literally had a two-hour long browbeating from a coworker over this almost a decade ago now. I've been out as bi since high school (going on 13 years now), and this guy and his friend (both gay men) spent quite literally two hours explaining to me how I was really just closeted gay and needed to either "commit to it or just stick to women" as I was doing damage to the movement by having a girlfriend at the time...
This shit happens A LOT, from what I've been told by others in similar situations, but that was my only personal experience with it.
Too many foolish individuals still have high regard for him barbecue he did a good thing many years ago. He needs to be exposed for what he is.Maybe we should stop giving this third-rate "journalist" more attention, and thus influence? Like basically anytime I hear of him is threads on Era pointing out the next garbage thing he said. I don't want to thread whine, here, genuinely think that this type of attention is half the reason he makes tweet like that.
he has leftie cred because he's "anti imperialist" and done some legit good reporting from the left in brazil.Since i don't know much about this person, i want to ask this. I see a lot of people shitting on him here yet recently i have seen him in many lefties Twitter and YouTube channels doing interviews and chatting with them! So what's the deal here?
Since i don't know much about this person, i want to ask this. I see a lot of people shitting on him here yet recently i have seen him in many lefties Twitter and YouTube channels doing interviews and chatting with them! So what's the deal here?