Calling something out requires drawing attention to it, yes.
What you're saying actually works better as a criticism of all the people flooding this thread with passionate, frequently disingenuous meta commentary on cancel culture, virtue signaling, toxicity oh Era/the left, and so on. Presumably, what you want is a chill thread to discuss these beloved YouTubers. What you're doing instead, though, is taking a handful of posts (and a few particularly vehement ones) that could have been easily ignored or calmly responded to and turning them into this super heated, drawn out discussion that inevitably stops being about the YouTubers at all.
Listen, some framing:
1) No one is cancelling Girlfriend Reviews.
2) For good reason, a lot of people are skeptical of YouTube as a platform, and especially with how YouTubers tend to use it. A jovial PewDiePie reference here, a flash of friendliness with Boogie there, a joke at feminists' expense here, a bad moment to showcase NakeyJakey there ... it all adds up to a comfort level with YouTube's worst that makes the apolitical, positive veneer look a touch compromised, especially in the eyes of those who just wish everybody cared more about YouTube being a better place.
It's really that simple. Girlfriend Reviews does good stuff, seems like a cute couple, blah blah blah. Personally, though, my bandwidth for YouTube for isn't that high these days, and seeing some of it make an appearance in their videos without any mitigating action outside of easily commercialized cutesy well edited games analysis does hurt my perception of the channel.