My girlfriend broke up with me last week and I've been devastated since then.
It shouln't be so hard since she cheated emotionally and even a bit physically(no intercourse that I know of...) for the past 6+ months or so while she kept saying he was only a "friend" and I was "worried for nothing".
I know because I had doubts for months and ended up spying on her facebook three weeks ago after a way too suspicious night. I had to confront her about the stuff I saw and she said it was just a mistake... I was too afraid to lose her so I "accepted" the situation. Any remnants of trust between us was basically gone at that point.
Yet, I still have a hard time moving on and I'm still trying to make sense of it all. I still have mixed-feelings for her and it makes it complicated.
We had big plans for next year and then everything came crashing down...
We also have an appartment together so no contact is impossible for now. She even came to sleep for a night and it was weird...
It's rough...
It shouln't be so hard since she cheated emotionally and even a bit physically(no intercourse that I know of...) for the past 6+ months or so while she kept saying he was only a "friend" and I was "worried for nothing".
I know because I had doubts for months and ended up spying on her facebook three weeks ago after a way too suspicious night. I had to confront her about the stuff I saw and she said it was just a mistake... I was too afraid to lose her so I "accepted" the situation. Any remnants of trust between us was basically gone at that point.
Yet, I still have a hard time moving on and I'm still trying to make sense of it all. I still have mixed-feelings for her and it makes it complicated.
We had big plans for next year and then everything came crashing down...
We also have an appartment together so no contact is impossible for now. She even came to sleep for a night and it was weird...
It's rough...