Not meaning to pass a buck here or write off personal responsibility to learn for themselves, but I actually just spent an arduous amount of time doing that and going down the rabbit hole, as like a lot of people my understanding was limited to a few seasons of Bojack Horseman ago, not even the newer ones. I don't feel like the list of stuff on the front page of google made me feel much more clear on it than the Bojack depictions of the subject. I dont know if that's to be ascribed to the quality of the representation or the lack of clarity in most articles that get good SEO response. As I said above, I learned something about myself going through this rabbit hole, but not much about others.
So that all being said, If I was in the position to inform someone, personally, I think they'd get more value out of my 5 spent minutes than the 0.3 second generated google results especially if the question is asked politely. But again, I am not saying it is the marginalized's responsibility to educate the ignorant. Simultaneously, people need to stop taking 'ignorant' as an insult carte blanche, from my perspective. You can be unwillingly ignorant. Until you learn them, you are ignorant of all things.