Nope. On the instances when someone is into that sort of thing word spreads fast.
Furries are good people!
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Fetishes weird me out and make me feel judgmental...
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Nope. On the instances when someone is into that sort of thing word spreads fast.
Furries are good people!
The thing about other people's fetishes is that they should remain invisible during casual conversation. If people are inappropriately open about their weird bullshit, judge them for that.
Otherwise, who cares what people do with other consenting adults?
But also it's okay to have a negative reaction or judgment in response to someone's fetish, just keep it polite. You can't necessarily help how you feel about stuff, but you can control how you express it.
Otherwise, who cares what people do with other consenting adults?
But also it's okay to have a negative reaction or judgment in response to someone's fetish, just keep it polite. You can't necessarily help how you feel about stuff, but you can control how you express it.
Oftentimes those are fantasy extensions of BDSM and S/M play. Get pleasure from pain? Want someone to have power over you? These fit in really well with that.
I can't get off without the feeling of a 17th hole green on an exclusive golf course on my naked body. It's a very specific fetish, don't judge me.
Like I said, as long as they're in their bedroom or a private space, sure. The fetishes that require being in public should stay inside their head as a fantasy.
I feel there's a lack of understanding of what it means to have a FETISH and to have a KINK.
One is pretty much mandatory for sex to occur, the other is just some weird shit that is usually optional afaik.
Am I off? Or is Resetera conflating the two?
One is pretty much mandatory for sex to occur, the other is just some weird shit that is usually optional afaik.
Am I off? Or is Resetera conflating the two?
Yeah I knew about these. Grossed me the fuck out.
I fell hard for my wife when she told me she only drinks hormone-free milk. That shit gets me going like nothing else can. She knows the difference between regular and hormone-free milk too, so it makes it even sexier.
I'm not.
(I don't even personally consider it a fetish even though I guess it technically counts as one.)
OP hasn't discovered that he likes getting pegged and smothered with ass for his auto-erotic asphyxiation fetish needs yet.
Being peed on is fun though and I will not be shamed.
Being peed on is fun though and I will not be shamed.
Here's some creep fuel for you -- a brief video chronicling a "Daddy Dom Little Girl" relationship:
This guy's girlfriend spends some significant amount of time living and acting as a 5-year-old, and regards her boyfriend as her father. She has toys, coloring books, and affects a squeaky high-pitched child voice. She has a list of rules posted on the wall, the most troubling of which is the second rule "Don't tell Daddy no". For some reason the rule that basically says "Get a job" cracks me up though.
This guy's girlfriend spends some significant amount of time living and acting as a 5-year-old, and regards her boyfriend as her father. She has toys, coloring books, and affects a squeaky high-pitched child voice. She has a list of rules posted on the wall, the most troubling of which is the second rule "Don't tell Daddy no". For some reason the rule that basically says "Get a job" cracks me up though.
Yet another fetish shaming thread. A shame from a place that considers itself so progressive and accepting.
Also many are confusing kinks with fetishes.
Also many are confusing kinks with fetishes.
Not cool. Only cowards shame furries. And you're not... oh, wait.
Beastiality, furries, characters with non human penises on drawn porn, that's my limit. It grosses me out on a primal level and I have trouble not being judge mental of people who enjoy it
The feeling I get from it is probably how homophobes feel. It's just a disgust in the middle of my stomach.
I always figured bug chasing was less of a fetish and more of a "now we can die together" kind of misplaced romanticism
The feeling I get from it is probably how homophobes feel. It's just a disgust in the middle of my stomach.
I always figured bug chasing was less of a fetish and more of a "now we can die together" kind of misplaced romanticism
It feels like any fetish is super unfortunate to have.
Being into tons of different kinks seems way more ideal.
Only being able to get off in very specific situations sounds like it sucks.
Being into tons of different kinks seems way more ideal.
Only being able to get off in very specific situations sounds like it sucks.
Now i know that there's people who want HIV fetish...
Someone please zap me with that memory eraser from MIB
Someone please zap me with that memory eraser from MIB
Okay people.
"Bug Chasing" is not a fetish. It's a behavior that cropped up during the initial HIV epidemic/panic. Gay men were sure they were going to die young because basically neither their families nor the government was willing to provide any support or help to them.
The logic became thaf if they were going to die anyways might as well contract HIV then they didn't have to worry about the "when" they were going to get it.
A "fortunate" side effect was that then they would get help and support from the various medical and social services setup to help with said epidemic.
It has also been used as a form of suicide.
So maybe let's not lump it in with furries and Vores.
"Bug Chasing" is not a fetish. It's a behavior that cropped up during the initial HIV epidemic/panic. Gay men were sure they were going to die young because basically neither their families nor the government was willing to provide any support or help to them.
The logic became thaf if they were going to die anyways might as well contract HIV then they didn't have to worry about the "when" they were going to get it.
A "fortunate" side effect was that then they would get help and support from the various medical and social services setup to help with said epidemic.
It has also been used as a form of suicide.
So maybe let's not lump it in with furries and Vores.
You are heard and recognized on the second point especially.
I think the main issue is how does one feel about being exposed to something they didn't ask to know.
I don't quite know the difference between someone kinky and someone with a fetish
There was a notable bug chaser at the previous place. His posts were something else. IIRC he claimed he succeeded only to later recant.
Generally, who gives a shit.
But it sometimes makes me feel uncomfortable that everything has been sexualized. Like, a post a pic of your feet thread would be some goofy fun. But no one would post in it because foot fetishists would find that thread fun in very different ways. Suppose it's not a great loss.
But it sometimes makes me feel uncomfortable that everything has been sexualized. Like, a post a pic of your feet thread would be some goofy fun. But no one would post in it because foot fetishists would find that thread fun in very different ways. Suppose it's not a great loss.
One of those things is not like the others, OP.
Also, I have no issue what people are into as long as it isn't illegal.
Also, I have no issue what people are into as long as it isn't illegal.
Eating ass is not a fetish. It's as normal as waking up in the morning. Not eating ass is strange to me.
Here's your yes or no answer to knowing if you have a kink or a fetish.
Ask yourself this: "Do I need to have this to feel satisfied, is this not with the norm?"
If the answers are yes, congratulations... your sexuality is based around a fetish.
For even more clarity... it's ritualistic.
If you just like to dream about something every now and then that's just kinky. ;)
Let's play a game: think of the most disgusting outlandish thing possible. Then realize that someone somewhere gets off to that thing specifically
You're welcome
You're welcome
One of the best things of my relationship is that right when we were dating, I told her the weird stuff I like and that I would understand if she thought it was a deal breaker.
Turns out that she was "80% of that I like, the other 20% I didn't know it was a thing but sounds good". Being open about these kind of things is always the best choice, I think.
Turns out that she was "80% of that I like, the other 20% I didn't know it was a thing but sounds good". Being open about these kind of things is always the best choice, I think.
What the fuck?
And here I was... Thinking that I could no longer be surprised.
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