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Era, help me say hi to this girl
- Thread starter tellNoel
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Jesus man just write hello going down your penis, and when you see her swing it round like a helicopter blade.
Not hard to do.
Not hard to do.
just go by and say hi, see if you mesh and see if she wants to hang out after work.
Get that "out of my league" nonsense out of your head.
Get that "out of my league" nonsense out of your head.
OP
OP
I did not expect legit help on the first page, so thank you for this. I'll go and stop by next week after my midterms
This.
OP, she thinks you're out of HER league.
Go get it done! You've got this.
It's normal to want to vet potential dates in person before feeling comfortable giving contact details, and she agreed specifically to meeting in person at her workplace (most likely so she has an out.) Maybe she'd be okay with unsolicited texts, but overstepping boundaries just to find out isn't worth it. that's shit advice.
You go to her job, ask if she has a moment to discuss staging an intervention for your terrible, meddling relatives. Then you tell her in all honesty you'd enjoy getting to know her better, and see how she responds. Two minutes out of her day, and you're all set up.
You're probably going to flame out with this one, based on the anxiety and indecision you are displaying here. But there is nothing for it, you need to get the practice in.
GAF thread where one guy asked if he should "take a girl back to his place and show her how far video games have come"
I think he wanted to show her Super Mario World or Super Mario Bros. 3, but I can't remember which
The fact that she told you to stop by means that your chances are already okay and some of the hard work has been done for ya already. Do so and keep it casual, ask if she wants to grab a bite or something after she gets out of work.
After you have done that and if all goes well, ask mods to close this thread and do not ask Era for help in saying hi to a girl again lol
After you have done that and if all goes well, ask mods to close this thread and do not ask Era for help in saying hi to a girl again lol
That's the textbook, yes.
And considering you don't even know this girl, just go for the textbook. Deviations are for later.
What if OPs aunt accidently showed her a picture of Kazuma Kiryu instead of OP
She has been promised to him. His aunt arranged their union.
This. Get her number first, text a little bit so that you get better acquainted with each other and it isn't that weird when you first go out. Seriously, believe me, you won't want to blindly date her all of a sudden.
Look up the schedule of the workplace on Google: it'll show you when it's slow and busy. Go when it's slow (but keep in mind, less staff will be at work when it's slow, so make sure she'll be there). You could ask for her number first I guess, but it'll show a lot of confidence to just drop by.
I'd go, ask for her, tell her your aunt told her she wanted to meet you, mention the same uni thing, chit chat a minute, then ask her out, because she's at work after all.
I'd go, ask for her, tell her your aunt told her she wanted to meet you, mention the same uni thing, chit chat a minute, then ask her out, because she's at work after all.
Not hard to do, but do not do hard: it won't swing like a helicopter blade.
just talk to her without overthinking it, if she responds well keep the conversation going otherwise forget her and move on
if I see someone at the deli that I think is cute I just order my bagel with extra Bronx in my voice "aye yo let me get a bagel with cream cheese on it. Don't forget to toasts my shit stop playing with me. Let me get a cougfee brown and sweet (look at woman here), how you doing, you from around here ma?" And boom, you in there.
Or just what's up like a normal person. Don't be extra like me.
Also OP just peeped the she's outta my league shit. Kill that thought bro. Just carry yourself with confidence and if she turns you down just take the L. Please god don't turn into some awkward/creep person. Stay up king 🧸
Or just what's up like a normal person. Don't be extra like me.
Also OP just peeped the she's outta my league shit. Kill that thought bro. Just carry yourself with confidence and if she turns you down just take the L. Please god don't turn into some awkward/creep person. Stay up king 🧸
Show her also the difference between Super Mario Bros 3 and Super Mario Odyssey
I came into this thread wanting to post that scene. Bravo sir.
I made myself sad looking for this GIF
Go in and ask if she's there, tell her you can't stay long but you wanted to stop in and meet her. Get her number and text her something when you're there so she has yours, and then head out and tell her to text you when she's got some down time at work so you can set up a date. Don't wait like two weeks to do it though, do it today or tomorrow.
i always find it amazing how the average penis size on Era is so high above the population norm
You're about to learn a life lesson, when two older ladies set people up like this they are only matching people that are single and that's the only thing you have in common with this girl.
You've got to find someone by yourself, not ride the back of your aunts old lady matchmaker aspirations.
lol this.
You may be a bit younger than some of us, OP, so I won't judge too hard. I've been in far "easier"/more obvious situations and was clueless. I will keep this simple.
She liked your photo enough to meet you. If you know anything about online dating/dating services, that's the most important hurdle to get over. Try not to think about the "league" or anything like that. Go at a time when the restaurant isn't super busy. Try to relax.
