I've talked about it before but in a sense when a game has a difficulty option then the game is only as hard as you are personally allowing it to be. You always have the option of just starting over on an easier mode. You can think of it like a fight against yourself rather than a fight against the game, which has its own unique appeal.Where does "the game has difficulty settings" rank on self-imposed vs imposed for you? Genuinely curious not trying to start anything.
Without options than the difficulty is imposed on you regardless of how you do or don't feel about it. It can feel like you're really fighting against the game.
They seem similar but they're actually really different from eachother but like the other poster said, this thread has long since veered away from that kind of nuance.