Why are you wrapping sex-ed with talks of gender? And why is sex-ed a full three years before gender identity?And here is where the problem lies: not with kids (who are inocent BTW), but their parents, who sometimes are bigots. Respect is the nº1 value that must be taught even at kindergarten, and reinforced on parents at school meetings, so kids can still be kids and not be worried about being bullied for being gay or anything.
At least in my country, sex-ed is in discussion in senate to be taught from 1st grade, BUT with age-appropriate content, so things like gender would be approached on grade 4 or 5 (IRRC). In any case, bigotry is strictly not tolerated in schools here (at least from teachers or others at schools) and kids are reprimended if they're bigot in any way or form.
Sexual orientation isn't just about sex. This means telling kids things like "Billy had two daddies and that's okay." If kids are bullying Billy, under this law the teacher isn't allowed to tell the students that it's okay for some men to marry men.It's not a bad idea "per-se" as I didn't care (or knew) about anything even remotely sexual until I was around 9 or 10. The thing is that the law is so badly worded and so open to interpretation that it will inevitably create confrontation between the school and parents.
Heck, kids have no prejudices, nor care if their peers are of diferent race, gender or whatever. They only care if they're fun to play with. =)
Stop just blaming DeSantis for this. This isn't just his responsibility. This is possible because hundreds of thousands or millions of voters in Florida are bigots. Just scapegoating DeSantis underplays just how deeply problematic the conservatives of this country's beliefs are.
The point of legal bounty bills like that is to create a chilling effect that will get schools to self censor.Please correct me if I'm wrong but what does the bill mean?
Like sexual orientation could refer to a classical heterosexual relationship in a fairytale?
Doesn't this open the door for people to sue if they like read beauty and the beast?
Please correct me if I'm wrong but what does the bill mean?
Like sexual orientation could refer to a classical heterosexual relationship in a fairytale?
Doesn't this open the door for people to sue if they like read beauty and the beast?
Correct. This is a move for him to get re-elected this year, and for him to make a presidential run in the future. He gives zero shits about who this will hurt.So, I'm going to guess that much like the whole CRT outrage, gender identity isn't actually taught or talked about at ANY school in all of Florida? And that this whole thing is just to "own the libs" and score points with the insane MAGA crowd?
Because that's what I have seen with kids...or better said, what my mom teached when she worked as a primary teacher. According to her, kids up 'til 7 or so are kind of oblivious to gender or stuff like that while playing kids games. However, the most "gender education" they get at that age are basically gender roles, which nowdays are neutral and are taught as such (like firefighters or policeman-policewoman, etc).Why are you wrapping sex-ed with talks of gender? And why is sex-ed a full three years before gender identity?
Because that's what I have seen with kids...or better said, what my mom teached when she worked as a primary teacher. According to her, kids up 'til 7 or so are kind of oblivious to gender or stuff like that while playing kids games. However, the most "gender education" they get at that age are basically gender roles, which nowdays are neutral and are taught as such (like firefighters or policeman-policewoman, etc).
Sorry if it was misunderstood, but sex-ed in those early stages are basically teaching what parts are private, to tell adults if someone touches them, etc...
The point of legal bounty bills like that is to create a chilling effect that will get schools to self censor.
There are no guidelines yet and it wouldn't because they'll deem straight relationships age-appropriate but not non-hetero relationships.
This is complete shit, I knew what the dynamic of Peach and Mario was and knew I didn't fit in it. It's this line of thinking that got me here, and there's a infinite line variations where I could've been a better individual if I had received support.Because that's what I have seen with kids...or better said, what my mom teached when she worked as a primary teacher. According to her, kids up 'til 7 or so are kind of oblivious to gender or stuff like that while playing kids games. However, the most "gender education" they get at that age are basically gender roles, which nowdays are neutral and are taught as such (like firefighters or policeman-policewoman, etc).
Sorry if it was misunderstood, but sex-ed in those early stages are basically teaching what parts are private, to tell adults if someone touches them, etc...
Good for you, doesn't help queer people living there.Florida is a mistake, I'm going to be avoiding it my entire life at this point
Man I hope som rich AF people put that to the test through the courts.
You shouldn't hope for that, though it will almost certainly happen.Man I hope som rich AF people put that to the test through the courts.
Non of us outside of Florida can help, for all that matter. We can comment all we want, but in the end, its floridans that have voted those shitty laws and its up to floridans to fix their own mess. DeSantis is just the scapegoat here (as a previous poster said).
Non of us outside of Florida can help, for all that matter. We can comment all we want, but in the end, its floridans that have voted those shitty laws and its up to floridans to fix their own mess. DeSantis is just the scapegoat here (as a previous poster said).
This literally wouldn't have passed if DeSantis hadn't made this (and last year the athlete ban) priorities to raise his national profile. FL had something like a 15 year streak of killing anti-LGBTQ legislation until last year.Stop just blaming DeSantis for this. This isn't just his responsibility. This is possible because hundreds of thousands or millions of voters in Florida are bigots. Just scapegoating DeSantis underplays just how deeply problematic the conservatives of this country's beliefs are.
Again, it's not just about getting re-elected, and its weird to say doesn't give a shit who it hurts, they want to hurt LGBT people, that's the point. They would be doing this anyways, have tried variations since the 80's when I was a kid and it fucked up my self worth and kept me in the closet for decades that fucked my life up.Correct. This is a move for him to get re-elected this year, and for him to make a presidential run in the future. He gives zero shits about who this will hurt.
A. You declined to answer my question about if Sexual Education and Gender identity are the same thing.Non of us outside of Florida can help, for all that matter. We can comment all we want, but in the end, its floridans that have voted those shitty laws and its up to floridans to fix their own mess. DeSantis is just the scapegoat here (as a previous poster said).
It IS about getting re-elected. To DeSantis, LGBT+ people are just numbers of votes, just like the rest of floridans, and he just calculates how much votes he can get doing this or that (like any politician). "The people that want to hurt the LGBT+ community ammounts for X votes, while the community that advocates for LGBT+ rights are Y votes. Y=X-10, then I'll go with people that want to hurt LGBT+ so I can stay in power".Again, it's not just about getting re-elected, and its weird to say doesn't give a shit who it hurts, they want to hurt LGBT people, that's the point. They would be doing this anyways, have tried variations since the 80's when I was a kid and it fucked up my self worth and kept me in the closet for decades that fucked my life up.
But once again when you post things like that you are buying into and propagating the mindset that people like me are a "political issue" and that is pretty hurtful and also makes me feel like shit.
A: Sorry, they're not exactly the same, but kind of... I can't explain myself very well as english is not my mother tongue.A. You declined to answer my question about if Sexual Education and Gender identity are the same thing.
B. You fall back on the fact that so many on this forum care about being morally superior rather than give a dosh about the people who are currently being affected by the subject of conversation when they might very well did everything they could've but because Florida is a meme you can be broad.
THIS. SO MUCH THIS.Reminder DeathSantas won by 35K votes out of 8 million.
Elections have consequences.
It IS about getting re-elected. To DeSantis, LGBT+ people are just numbers of votes, just like the rest of floridans, and he just calculates how much votes he can get doing this or that (like any politician). "The people that want to hurt the LGBT+ community ammounts for X votes, while the community that advocates for LGBT+ rights are Y votes. Y=X-10, then I'll go with people that want to hurt LGBT+ so I can stay in power".
Politicians do that all the time and that's why they're such assholes. It really is rare to see one that has convictions about anything and don't mind losing votes on an issue they have a conviction.
The fuck is even your point.It IS about getting re-elected. To DeSantis, LGBT+ people are just numbers of votes, just like the rest of floridans, and he just calculates how much votes he can get doing this or that (like any politician). "The people that want to hurt the LGBT+ community ammounts for X votes, while the community that advocates for LGBT+ rights are Y votes. Y=X-10, then I'll go with people that want to hurt LGBT+ so I can stay in power".
Politicians do that all the time and that's why they're such assholes. It really is rare to see one that has convictions about anything and don't mind losing votes on an issue they have a conviction.
I apologize, that was not my intention and poor wording on my part.Again, it's not just about getting re-elected, and its weird to say doesn't give a shit who it hurts, they want to hurt LGBT people, that's the point. They would be doing this anyways, have tried variations since the 80's when I was a kid and it fucked up my self worth and kept me in the closet for decades that fucked my life up.
But once again when you post things like that you are buying into and propagating the mindset that people like me are a "political issue" and that is pretty hurtful and also makes me feel like shit.
Maybe you can just check yourself when you have a language barrier and a social barrier when called out instead of getting on the defense?A: Sorry, they're not exactly the same, but kind of... I can't explain myself very well as english is not my mother tongue.
B: True, but simply because there's absolutely nothing a single individual from a foreign country (like me) can do about it. Maybe I can contribute to some LGBT+ charity (as a user said before), but other than that, there's not much.
It's like war in the Ukraine: all I can do is discuss the subject and contribute a bit with the Red Cross to help those people. =/
Ya'll folks just don't care.I will never EVER live in fucking Florida. That state is truly sick!
And those politicians would be powerless if their base was small enough. Unfortunately it isn't, and THAT's the biggest issue. DeSantis wouldn't be passing this law if there weren't bigots that voted for him in the first place. =/There are a lot of politicians that are true believers. Stop thinking they only do it for the votes. They literally tell people what they believe and somehow people still think "Well, they are just shitty for the elections and they don't actually believe it." They do. They WANT to hurt LGBTQ+ people. I live in a red state too. People like DeSantis and the GOP want to hurt us and not just because it plays well with their base. They want it too.
My point is that kids should be kids and gender education (and sex education for all matter) has to be age appropriate, so the kid can develop well and not be a bigot when growing into adulthood, nor be pedo-prey. We already have enough bigots today to have even more in the future.The fuck is even your point.
Are you gonna talk about your initial point of gender identity is not an important discussion for developing children tat an arbitrary age you don't even know or hide in away in bullshit political gaming.
I can't speak for the circumstances as to why most queer people in Florida can't leave and it would be highly insensitive to say "leave". However I live in MA, which is a far more progressive state, and my help would truly have to come from moving to Florida to make a voting change. Desantis is the problem and one that me in MA cannot fix physically. I can only give money to organizations to help from abroad.
It's fucked up to say people don't care but lack the self awareness that comes with the help that people abroad truly can't do. I can't tell you to leave, and you can't tell me to move there.
You care more about me spitting at you than the state of queer kids in a state you don't live in. Recognize that, it's an easy change.I can't speak for the circumstances as to why most queer people in Florida can't leave and it would be highly insensitive to say "leave". However I live in MA, which is a far more progressive state, and my help would truly have to come from moving to Florida to make a voting change. Desantis is the problem and one that me in MA cannot fix physically. I can only give money to organizations to help from abroad.
It's fucked up to say people don't care but lack the self awareness that comes with the help that people abroad truly can't do. I can't tell you to leave, and you can't tell me to move there.
Bruh... what? What does recognizing gender identity before sexual identification have to deal with pedophilia?My point is that kids should be kids and gender education (and sex education for all matter) has to be age appropriate, so the kid can develop well and not be a bigot when growing into adulthood, nor be pedo-prey. We already have enough bigots today to have even more in the future.
Absolutely nothing. It's just one of the many things kids have to learn through the ages and that's on a new sex-ed law that's being discussed here in my country, and thought would be relevant to the discussion. Most people here in Chile, in the LGBT+ community are pushing this law because it truly helps create consciousness, while retaining kids' innate inocence (which we all in the country agree is of utmost importance).Bruh... what? What does recognizing gender identity before sexual identification have to deal with pedophilia?