Well, you were asked why you thought an upgrade system made something an RPG and you responded that you thought that because it gave the player decisions to make.
I stand by the assertion that if you expect people to agree with you, you need to explain that line of reasoning as it applies to your definition RPGs.
I was just trying to make example of what it could be referred as RPG in 2018, but for me that's not enough to qualify it as RPG.
For me i see games like Baldur's Gate as the ideal type of a Role-playing video game, then you could have some hybrid RPG that adds shades of other genres like Shin Megami Tensei added the monster raising aspect, or more tactical elements like in X-COM or Fire Emblem.
But at some point when other elements are more dominant it becomes the opposite: other genres with SOME RPG element.