My personality tends to be louder than my looks so that doesn't happen based on looks. That said, flirting with everyone does cause that confusion. Missjudging is less of a problem than people getting grabby.
Not really, though I mostly get this from other gay people moreso than straight people. I get a lot of "you don't look gay" which is irritating but not enough to make me upset or anything.
I get offended when my wife thinks I'm secretly gay. Gay men don't own butt stuff. It's only offensive because it's my wife, and I'm worried she might actually believe I'm gay. Hard to tell. If anyone else assumed I was gay I wouldn't care. I got hit on by a guy before. Thought he was a girl at first, was disappointed he wasn't.
I'd say this is also a combination of women are expected to think that good looking men are gay and/or taken already.
So it could be taken as a compliment?
ive literally only heard this from girls when ive expressed no interest in them (plus i dont really openly thirst for other girls), so i take it more as them coming up with their own explanation
not a one ever assumes im asexual though lol (im not)
Unless they think you're aceOne of the luxuries of being bisexual is that if someone mistakes my sexuality for another at least they're always half right.
I get offended when my wife thinks I'm secretly gay. Gay men don't own butt stuff. It's only offensive because it's my wife, and I'm worried she might actually believe I'm gay. Hard to tell. If anyone else assumed I was gay I wouldn't care. I got hit on by a guy before. Thought he was a girl at first, was disappointed he wasn't.
Life is easier when people assume I'm straight. I don't have to field casual guff from shitheads, and I can out myself if I feel like it.
Have you two spoken about it? This would really bother me.I get offended when my wife thinks I'm secretly gay. Gay men don't own butt stuff. It's only offensive because it's my wife, and I'm worried she might actually believe I'm gay. Hard to tell. If anyone else assumed I was gay I wouldn't care. I got hit on by a guy before. Thought he was a girl at first, was disappointed he wasn't.
Im gay and people assume I'm straight. Really the only problem i ever have is when they assume my political views from that and spout off some homophobic or racist shit they think I'll agree with or other gay guys assuming I dislike fem gays. Like nah get that shit out of here.
Lol, I meant butt stuff isn't only for gay men. Straight men can like butt stuff too.ALL the fucking time. I get it though I'm basically everything a straight guy is, I just happen to like guys.
Yes we do lol Straight men use butt stuff too :p
As a bisexual person, I've never, in my entire life, met someone who guessed right. It doesn't bother me much, I just wished people asked or just didn't think about it.
It bothers me much more when people try to guess my nationality and start saying random countries. I've been told that my accent sounds Russian, South African, Australian, Irish, Italian, French... People almost never get it right, but they insist on guessing and it's super annoying and alienating.
I'm sorry. People can be such trash.
My dad once told me I better not be a Freak or Queer because I wore red jeans. (He's not a great man.)
Lol, I meant butt stuff isn't only for gay men. Straight men can like butt stuff too.
I'm asexual, but everyone thinks I'm gay. Even my parents.
I get that for some it's hard to understand things that aren't simple as straight/gay.
That avatar is incredible, who made it? 👀Damn, if the Straights (Tm) caught me with a Kerminetta avatar, I would be on some thin fucking ice with them.... 😧
Its actually an incredible mod for Bayonetta 1 (PC) XD