Hey all!
As the title says, have you found that issue where you're about to post something, like a comment, video, image, whatever on any kind of platform like on here, Reddit or anywhere else?
Very recently I've been going back and forth over any posts I make with a fine tooth comb on Reddit, sometimes triple checking a single sentence and trying to get into the mindset of everyone else in the thread to see how they might react to it and prepare accordingly so I don't fuck up in any capacity (Like saying something that's already been said, saying something that people will laugh at, etc) and upset anyone in any way.
For a mild example there was a thread on r/aww which had a lovely sheepdog/terrier crossbreed similar to a dog I had when I was younger. I typed up my message saying it reminded me of my dog but then I was thinking "Wait, does anyone want to hear about my long passed dog? Am I stealing the conversation away from what the OP was about? Am I being selfish for talking about my dog rather than the cute dog I'm looking at?"
And that was probably the most safe kind of conversation thread you can have on the internet! Nevermind all the myriad of complex socio-political issues that I would love to discuss with like-minded people but I'm almost afraid to express my own actual opinion as I feel I inevitably will say something stupid so the better option is staying silent at all costs.
It's so damn stifling to have to think about constantly and while I guess it's better than being a troll it feels like I'm inhibiting myself when I can do much better.
What about you folks? :)
As the title says, have you found that issue where you're about to post something, like a comment, video, image, whatever on any kind of platform like on here, Reddit or anywhere else?
Very recently I've been going back and forth over any posts I make with a fine tooth comb on Reddit, sometimes triple checking a single sentence and trying to get into the mindset of everyone else in the thread to see how they might react to it and prepare accordingly so I don't fuck up in any capacity (Like saying something that's already been said, saying something that people will laugh at, etc) and upset anyone in any way.
For a mild example there was a thread on r/aww which had a lovely sheepdog/terrier crossbreed similar to a dog I had when I was younger. I typed up my message saying it reminded me of my dog but then I was thinking "Wait, does anyone want to hear about my long passed dog? Am I stealing the conversation away from what the OP was about? Am I being selfish for talking about my dog rather than the cute dog I'm looking at?"
And that was probably the most safe kind of conversation thread you can have on the internet! Nevermind all the myriad of complex socio-political issues that I would love to discuss with like-minded people but I'm almost afraid to express my own actual opinion as I feel I inevitably will say something stupid so the better option is staying silent at all costs.
It's so damn stifling to have to think about constantly and while I guess it's better than being a troll it feels like I'm inhibiting myself when I can do much better.
What about you folks? :)