At least he's upfront and honest about it but what a view. Hard disagree from me, if someone has gone through the sex change process, I mean yeah it might not be the same but that shouldn't mean they can't be recognised as the opposite gender. I personally only get confused when people claim they are neither male or female, which is a whole different thing entriely. Like, how can you claim to not be either?
Does he actually mention mention DaBaby when talking about punching down on his people? That would be ultra-yikes, Kevin Hart I could sort of understand but there was no excusing DaBaby at all.
Putting this as simply as possible: gender isn't a binary, it's a spectrum.
I'm a guy, right, so I process Weiss The Person as a guy. I think of myself as a guy. My brain signals to me that I am a guy. There's never been a point in my life where I've been anything but a guy even if, sometimes, I get kind of momentarily curious like "I wonder what my life would have been if I was a girl." I'm a guy and I've never had cause to think otherwise.
A non-binary person doesn't think of themself along those wavelengths. They have considered gender as a concept beyond the limitations we ever had to, and found the answer appropriate to them. They wake up and think "I'm non-binary", and the NB identity also carries a lot of nuances within it.
And here's the thing: I don't fully understand either, but I don't have to. I don't understand physics but that shit's still real and so's the gender spectrum. Enby folks are smarter and more informed than me about their gender, ergo I can sit down and listen to them instead of trying to assert authority I absolutely do not have.
I hope I've been helpful, but for future reference please don't use threads like this as a way to go "well I don't get it how can this be." It's absolutely okay to not know because our society does absolutely no favours in teaching us and at worst actively trains us to be blinkered and mocking to lives outside a heteronormative status quo, but when dealing with my own circumstances (bisexuality in my case) it's been exhausting to have to explain it on the level of "yeah this exists." Please feel free to ask questions and seek out knowledge because that's the way you'll come to understand, but I think it's for the best for everyone that we approach that search for understanding with an open mind instead of needing to prove it exists.
