Yeah it's called "parking". She's found someone else who she's keen on but doesn't wanna burn your bridge yet, so you're popped on hold while she sees if this other one pans out. If you don't unmatch her, expect her to message you in a few weeks/months.
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Yeeeea don't do this, unless you make it obvious that it's a joke
Haha yeah I was only joking. One obviously fake picture might be fun though.
Just casually incliude a picture of myself in as a weatherman lol.
You could be a weatherman or in the tv static. This would be a pretty cool picture actually.
Or this picture of a beach with a unicorn, but you need to keep the unicorn trainer in it. Make it so you're really small next to the unicorn; like only come up to the unicorn's leg.
Become a solitaire deck and make your picture have this effect as well.
Knowing my luck I'd have it there for a month and then realise I'd popped out of my shorts for the picture.honestly, yes. Get a suit jacket and either boxers or short shorts.
Sorry dude but she doesn't sound like a very compassionate person. I know it's only 2 months in but yeah... you don't go around asking her why she's so "dry" when she's having a off day do you?
When you first start having sex with someone you usually have way more sex than you would normally. It's natural for it to slow down a bit. No need to make it a bigger deal than it is. You said you had sex multiple times a day, everyday? That's a lot of sex. How much did the rate of sex slow down from that? I think it may be too early to see this as a huge problem.
Yeah, we've had that talk a couple times in the past week but the problem is we still get horny pretty easily with each other, despite her worry that I'm somehow not attracted to her anymore. I don't have a problem getting an erection but keeping it up to the standard that we seemed to have set so high in our first couple months throws me off. I've made a few mistakes too when we're having sex which can always be helped. We both get frustrated pretty easily when things dont go right and take it personally, but we acknowledge that, it just hit a nadir last night/this morning.
It's just frustration borne out of the moment. Still, I do think it's not exactly helping by saying something like that, but I understand why she's frustrated, because I also am.
Like I said, getting an erection isn't a problem, it's just once its started there's this pressure to keep at that level we've been in for the past couple months. Thank you for this. I'm gonna think on it for a bit and talk to her about it once I have my thoughts straight.
You definitely can but people don't like being told to change so it will probably not go well. It sounds like they repulse you though so you kind of have to let her know
It's not that they repulse me and I don't mind the look of long nails it's when it touches my skin. It's like nails on a chalk board to me
I missed this before but I will just say the problems that keep you from getting an erection and the problems that make you lose an erection usually are the same. Not a doctor but it sounds like performance anxiety to me since you say yourself you feel pressured to perform at a certain level. I think less emphasis on penetration during sex and having amazing sex every time will help. Like, you will lost your erection sometimes. That's fine. It doesn't mean you can't get it again. You aren't a porn star after all. Hope your talk goes well, if you haven't done it already.
What was the context of #1 telling you about the breakup? If she just volunteered that info, depending on the context, she could be letting you know she's available. No harm in trying out compatibility with #2 either in the meantime.
Nope, they arent anyone I've mentioned here before. And that's good to hear, I think I internalized a mentality with old crushes of them being in the past and me needing to move past that. I guess as a way to not be stuck on a person for too long but it's not as if I've been thinking about them like that all this time.
Nothing wrong with it. Sounds like you could ask her any day at this point, so up to you lol.
Yeah, it feels that way, but I dunno, thought it'd be a nice move to do it then considering it's just a few weeks away lol.
Well, I asked her how she had been so it just happened to be a recent development for her. I don't think she would've been communicating that because I hadn't told her at that point that I was single lol
I guess just weigh the value of the surprise against how secure she'd feel if you told her sooner lol
Could go either way, but you've had consistently good judgment so go with your brain on this one 👍
Do you mean with matches on apps? A great deal of people over here only reply once a day or smth lol at least to me.
Yeah. Bumble, specifically. Like, how am I supposed to get a feel for your personality if you won't talk back? It's crazy...
